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[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Forums still exist, but I hard agree with you. I was so excited when the lemmy devs were considering hiding votes counts from the frontend by default. Unfortunately (imo) it got shot down by the community pretty quickly.

I think "likes" as a socials concept are part of a dark engagement pattern we've willfully brought over from the mainstream, and we won't be able to be much better than them until we're rid of it.

[–] FishFace@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah, I am on... two forums. I think the issue is that it's not where the people are any more.

I actually think the problem with voting is that the way it's used to promote threads instead of doing it on a time basis. It's part of a way of engaging with a site which punishes long-running conversations.

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 day ago

What do you mean on a time basis?

Agree that it's hard to find really long running conversions (like what you see on forums), unless you happen to be going back and forth with one other person (notifications pull you back in).