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There is no universal, objective answer. It depends who you are, your financial situation, your political views, etc.
That said, the states that suck the most for the most people are conservative places with lots of rural poverty. Tennessee, Mississippi, Alabama, Oklahoma, ...
Arkansas, don't forget Arkansas. And Louisiana.
Oh, how could I miss Louisiana? It's the place with the highest incarceration rate in the world.
https://www.prisonpolicy.org/graphs/2021.html
A coworker of mine is from Louisiana. We’re in Washington state, and he told me that all the people here bitching about wind turbines and environmental regulations don’t know how good they have it. He’s from a town on the gulf which is basically one giant oil refinery. The stink and chemical pollution is unbelievable. He showed me the “Welcome to Whatever-ville” sign in his hometown, and it’s literally attached to a gantry that carries several chemical pipes over the road.
I'll defend Alabama. I travel through several times a year on the back highways and there's only one truly shit town we pass. York is a wasteland. Here's the main drag, and most of those units are empty.
All the other rural towns seem pretty nice. Businesses aren't shuttered, roads are nice everywhere, people take pride. Contrast that with Mississippi. You could teleport me to a gas station and I could tell if it's in MS or AL according to how much trash is blowing around.
Ah so you're white
Black folks are nice to us, don't look at us with the suspicion I saw 20 years back. Times change.
Know where I experienced the most shocking racism? Manhattan and Chicago. Segregated down to the city block. And NYC wasn't merely black/white/Hispanic, it was like, Haitians this block, Puerto Ricans that block, and don't cross the fucking street if that ain't your hood. Find me a white man in South Chicago, dare ya. Solid blue cities. Imagine that.
Know where I've seen the most racial integration? Here in the South. Couldn't get my head around why there were so many old white folks running around with little black kids. Ex-wife: "I dunno Shalafi. Maybe they're grandparents?" No, I had never seen so many interracial couples. Hell, of my wife's friends, there's only one Filipino husband, rest are white guys. No one even blinks. (Except in Mississippi. Shit's gone worse since Trump's second term.)
Our street is an exact racial representation of the area. 70% white, 30% black, squeeze an extra 1% in there for my Asian wife. Most places in this area are like that. There's no black or white or Hispanic side of town. Asians are fairly concentrated in two areas though. Whatever.
tl;dr: Not going to hear how racist we all are when the whole damned country is racist. Not going to ignore all the progress we've made this century.