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[–] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

I'm surprised nobody has said Idaho, given that it's been known for its white supremacists lately.

[–] JPSound@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago

Absolutely Mississippi. My wife has family in Meridian, MS and I shudder thinking about being stuck there my whole life.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 3 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Ohio was pretty bad, so much so I moved back to Texas...

[–] jacksilver@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Bowling for Soup: Ohio (Come Back to Texas) https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wBWNgg8CClc

[–] only_in_ohio@sh.itjust.works 1 points 12 hours ago

Oh no, I am sorry for you. Which city?

[–] pjwestin@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

By the numbers, probably Mississippi. Lowest life expectancy, highest infant mortality rate, second highest poverty rate...being ranked 39th in education actually seems to be a bright spot for them.

[–] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Probably Mississippi, Oklahoma, or West Virginia

And with all the MAGA turds that moved to Florida and it’s terrible government it’s gotta be close to those top 3

[–] madcaesar@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

No Alabama???

[–] hactar42@lemmy.ml 33 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

IMO - Texas, while places like Mississippi, Arkansas, and Oklahoma always rank below, I believe Texas is actively trying to kill itself. Those other states are poorer and more rural. Texas has the resources and money to be one of the most prosperous states. Yet, they keep voting for Greg Abbott (aka piss baby), Ken Paxton, and Ted Cruz. People there are so brainwashed that they believe anyone who is not an uber republican will come and make all the frog gay, let kids poop in liter-boxes, and give all their money to drug addicts. It's just sad. I finally just gave up on trying to make any difference there and left for the sake of my kids.

A perfect example is my mother-in-law who HATES Greg Abbott. She blames him for leaving the state for dead during snowmageddon. So she just refuses to vote in Governor elections.

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My friend who claims they're a communist has been to Texas twice and loves it. Beats me why.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 18 hours ago

The poverty makes them feel like they're in a communist society

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[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago

the state of denial that half the county is in that believes orange shitler will help them.

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 38 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Florida. Heat, humidity, stench of water from the sprinkler systems, lousy coffee from the crappy drinking water, most jobs literally don't allow you to work OT. Many only hire 32 hour people. Terrible drivers, especially all the Qtip bitches that should've stopped driving 20 years ago. Redneck Nation. Massive POS politics.

Fuck Florida.

[–] g0d0fm15ch13f@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Been saying it for years. We should've left it to the spainards, the spainards shoulda left it to the natives and the natives shoulda left it to the god damn trees.

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Florida used to be black on Erin's trans safety map. It was literally its own "DO NOT GO HERE" category. Unfortunately the only thing that has changed is that it's no longer alone.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

It's so funny (not in a good way) to see this change - I grew up going to drag shows, there is still so much gay culture here, and it's such a a diverse place, no matter what axis you spin it on. We know trans people (one of my kids among them, but older people too) and there isn't much discrimination "on the ground" here, my trans kid got a job the same place my other kids did, and only HR keeps the paperwork with physical sex as gender, in practice they are treated as they choose. And that's at a nominally religious place. In school too, the teachers and kids did not care, just took it in stride. The outright hostility in Tallahassee is insane, but it doesn't translate to hostility in the city here. Or not yet at least.

Make Florida Freaky Again. That will be my platform if ever I run for governor.

The stinky water is because they let you use reclaimed water for watering a lawn, it's hella efficient and good for the plants. Gardens don't need drinking water. It does smell bad but is a good thing.

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 day ago

Not even gonna mention that the coastal areas've been dredging sand at night to keep it from sliding back into the ocean for decades... 🤮

Let. It. Die. Already.

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[–] Asswardbackaddict@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Wyoming. Corrupt, cold, ugly if you're not rich, and full of morons who do things like thank coal workers for their service.

[–] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 hours ago

thank coal workers for their service.

cOaL kEePs tHe LiGhTs oN

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Who deserves the thank you more- coal workers or police officers?

[–] Asswardbackaddict@lemmy.world 1 points 17 hours ago

Most people's politics (left-oriented as well - your "scientific rigor" is actually rather sparse and inadequately supported [just look at how often we actually fund follow-up studies]) are virtue signaling. People tend to work backward from what the in-group already assumes. No big deal - it's just collective problem solving staged in a cannibalistic system. So, to answer your question, seemingly equal measure, though the weights change with social context.

[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 37 points 2 days ago

The current state?

[–] poccalyps@sh.itjust.works 111 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Oklafuckinghoma. Heat, tornadoes, ice storms, earthquakes, hail and some of the dumbest, most entitled Jesus-humping maga fucks in the country.

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[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 106 points 2 days ago (9 children)

Ohio, it's a statistical fact.

More people from Ohio have become astronauts than any other state/territory in the world

Because when youre an Astronaut you can get as far away from Ohio as humanely possible. No one else has that kind of motivation to complete the rigorous training.

Even before astronauts were a thing. Ohio inspired two men to invent airplanes, because they had already traveled to the East Coast by then, and couldn't run across the ocean to get further from Ohio. They had to adapt and learn to fly

[–] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 3 points 21 hours ago

You don't understand. It's not too escape Ohio. It's because the void calls. It reminds one of home. The dark, unfeeling, lethal, soul crushing expanse of space reminds one of the home void. We want to bridge between the two. Bring together the V̵̮̈́ ̴̜͑ȍ̷̜ ̴͜͝i̶̲̿ ̴͉̊d̵̺͆

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 35 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The Ohio class nuclear missile submarine is named for its feared ability to turn any place in the world into Ohio

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[–] aturtlesdream@lemmy.world 44 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (5 children)

Nobody saying Florida? Swamps, gators, slowly sinking into the ocean, home to way too many grumpy old people and crazy drug addicts (see Florida man) and Trumps shitty golf club. Also some of the absolute biggest peices of shit for politicians- DeSantis, Rick Scott, Gaetz ect

[–] LucasWaffyWaf@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago

Don't forget Alligator Auschwitz! I hear they're selling merch.

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[–] kersploosh@sh.itjust.works 62 points 2 days ago (6 children)

There is no universal, objective answer. It depends who you are, your financial situation, your political views, etc.

That said, the states that suck the most for the most people are conservative places with lots of rural poverty. Tennessee, Mississippi, Alabama, Oklahoma, ...

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[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 63 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Misery. Wait, hang on, sorry, I spelled that wrong. Missouri.

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[–] ileftreddit@piefed.social 37 points 2 days ago (14 children)

Almost certainly Mississippi

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[–] Geodad@lemmy.world 50 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Any state with a GOP supermajority.

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[–] expatriado@lemmy.world 48 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Mississippi and Alabama tend to compete for the worse state top spot

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[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 15 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

New Mexico

Insane crime, just as expensive as California or Colorado.

Seriously ~~don't come here~~, i mean go there.

[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I've actually gone to new mexico and like it. Granted, mostly going to the national parks

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

For sure man, I felt the same way.

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