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It’s noteworthy because this is usually the type of attacks a trans person gets from transphobic trolls and not from her own community. Drives the point home that this is not exclusively transphobia.
Maybe. Or maybe OP is queer and expecting special treatment from the queer communities that use Matrix, and not getting it? It very well could be that OP is a jerk, OP's co-maintainer is a jerk, or significant portions of those queer communities are jerks. It's hard to say, but I also find it a bit peculiar than "queer" is mentioned three times, and pretty much all of the links related to the project are queer-related (transfem.dev, for example).