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[–] disorderly@lemmy.world 192 points 1 month ago (16 children)

Uh, why the fuck would such a device ever be allowed on school property?

[–] Turret3857@infosec.pub 92 points 1 month ago

because educators aren't paid enough to figure out which covert spying devices exist

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 74 points 1 month ago (8 children)

These devices are expensive.

Teenage girls - If you spot them... Grab them and smash them.

[–] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 21 points 1 month ago (5 children)

And don't be afraid to smash the face that wears them. Collateral damage, after all, is always expected.

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[–] FatVegan@leminal.space 25 points 1 month ago (3 children)

What parent would buy their middle schooler pervert glasses?

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[–] Hueristic_Autistic@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Showing may age here 🤣 but back in 2005, I had a film camera shaped like a juice box that I thought was the coolest thing on the planet. The straw was how you took pictures, the lens was hidden in the logo.

There was no film in it because I just wanted to show it off but yeah..... School didn't give a fuck.

Then again I'm autistic and I was super into the spy stuff. I think that came with one of those spy kits and I annoyed the shit out of my family with those beeping door sensors and I genuinely concerned someone by eating the edible paper. I made one of my sisters friends scream at the top of her lungs because she had no idea who I was when I wore the sunglasses with mirrors to see behind you and a fake mustache and I was into disguises.

But there's a difference between being a kid and having fun and things inadvertently happening vs being a menace and a dickhead to those around you.

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[–] zero_spelled_with_an_ecks@programming.dev 46 points 1 month ago (12 children)

A reminder to everyone blaming parents: these children are growing up in a world where privacy doesn't exist, so how could they value it? Corporations are targeting them and influencing their opinions and changing norms with resources a parent couldn't even dream of. Blaming parents is an individualistic solution to a systemic problem. We're not going to suddenly get better parents anyway, sorry.

[–] ParlimentOfDoom@piefed.zip 38 points 1 month ago (13 children)

I mean, most of your early value comes from your parents (or closest adult influence), and presumably the parents needed to buy the very expensive device.

So yeah they can be blamed.

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[–] chunes@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

A reminder to butthurt parents: the way your kid turns out is on you.

[–] VanillaWasp@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Blaming parents is an individualistic solution to a systemic problem

A system made up of individual people....

No one EVER wants to take personal responsibility. God forbid a parent actually parent and not just hand their child's mind over to the state.

Timmy - Can I have meta glasses / mindrape myself with brainrot?

Parent - No.

Problem solved over night.

Shifting all of the onus onto the "mysterious system" is exactly what causes these issues in the first place. Its a cop out 100%. "Well I know I didnt even try but but but the system."

Change happens when individuals nut up and take things into their own hands.

The parents are shitty parents and will continue to be so as long as people keep hand-waving any and all responsibility.

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[–] EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app 37 points 1 month ago (14 children)

I've seen a lot of hand-wringing about boys being victims of the manosphere but I kinda think gen-x are maybe just some of the worst fucking parents

[–] Montagge@lemmy.zip 25 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Millennials haven't done any better from what I've seen and heard.

[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Every generation has generally sucked a little less than the last. I find that to be true today.

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[–] snooggums@piefed.world 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Pretty sure mellenials are the majority of parents, including parents of teens, right now.

[–] EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app 9 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I don't think so? Starting to creep into it though. Gen Z cut off (majority were parented by Gen X) is 14 years old right now, and people are having children older, so I think the gradient is still mostly gen X. Of course that doesn't make millennials good parents either. I'm admittedly singling out Gen X based on personal vendettas, lol

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[–] minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 month ago

Nobody knows how to parent. How could anyone when every lesson you learn is outdated within a decade, if not sooner, and the environment is constantly being filled with new tech that rewrites social norms with little to no oversight? Don't expect this to improve with millenials, gen z or gen a. As long as the pace of change continues at the rate we have, the challenges of parenthood will be beyond most parents.

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[–] yeahiknow3@lemmy.dbzer0.com 35 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Normalize smashing pervert glasses on sight (while still on face).

[–] arin@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Stop blaming the kids, it's the corporation's fault. Title should be Meta glasses are recording and enabling harassment of underaged school children

[–] yeahiknow3@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)
  1. Corporation makes evil thing.
  2. Evil people use evil thing.

There’s enough blame to go around, don’t worry.

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[–] Ptsf@lemmy.world 25 points 1 month ago

Kids are being shit asses and using tools for malicious purposes because everyone involved with being responsible for them has shrugged responsibility and action! More at a 11!

[–] Snapz@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Laying the ground for republicans banning eyeglasses entirely - because eyeglasses show intent to learn, which is dangerous...

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh cool! The Khmer rouge did that.

[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 month ago

so fun* fact, there never was an official order relating to glasses, and indeed Pol Pot himself as well as several other senior Khmer Rouge minister publicly wore glasses. But what they did do was set up a system were city folk and intellectuals were treated with a level of suspicion high enough that any low-level Khmer Rouge member could cite the ownership of glasses as sufficient evidence to execute someone for being a counter-revolutionary.

https://www.shadowsofutopia.com/blog/did-the-khmer-rouge-really-kill-everyone-who-wore-glasses

[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Nah republicans love anything that allows the exploitation of women or other marginalized groups

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[–] qarbone@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

How many middle and high school kids are getting Meta's pervert glasses as gifts?! How are people affording these?

Like there is nothing else you'd want before some shitty novelty?

[–] blargh513@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I live in a nice area. The number of families with absurd amounts of money is staggering. I have a good job and am well paid.

These fuckers put me to shame. Trips to Europe for a weekend. They only go skiing in Colorado, never anywhere else. Expensive hotels, $80k cars for themselves and the kids.

I have zero clue what any of them do. Maybe a handful appear to be marginally intelligent. Did the inherit it? Play the stock lottery?

All I know is that a pair of pervert glasses are fucking NOTHING for these people. A family I know buys the best airpods (I don't know, not an apple person) in bulk because the kids lose them so often. They hand them out like Halloween candy.

Never underestimate the vast number of people with more money than sense.

I am so deeply frustrated that despite busting my ass for years in what is otherwise a successful career that these people could buy and sell me with quarter of one dividend check.

[–] Toga77@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago

Yup. I also live in a nice area.

I worked at a small business for 6 years. We shipped alcohol across the entire country, had major holiday orders even for things like NBC, the today show, and lion's gate did their holiday gifts through us.

Suffice to we made fuckin bank, and were comprised of 12 employees when I started. 4 cashiers, 4 management who were also capable and willing to fill in and help lower level laborers, and we had of course, the 4 lower level laborers, myself included initially.

In 2023 I was promoted to shipping manager and salaried, pay was good and and the year end bonus from the owner was decent.

In 2023 we were already down to 8 employees. Order volume was up over 3 years, so less people were fulfilling more work. I was fresh off my promotion so I was pretty blind for a bit.

Cut to this year and we had 5 employees. Order volume was slightly higher than it was in 2023. 5 people were now doing more work than 12 were just 6 years prior.

To give some perspective: As shipping manager, one holiday order from a local customer, would be for 100 individual bottles of wine shipped with gift notes inside each once and each bottle gift wrapped.

We had around 15 of these holiday orders and 13 of them came in after December 5. We brought in 1 person for seasonal help.

So just counting the holiday orders, excluding our in store and base online orders that include an email mailing list of 12,000 customers , put us even with conservative estimates at 1,500 individual bottles of alcohol that needed to be brought into the store, gift wrapped, individual cards made, and shipped in time for Christmas.

6 people was not enough. My mental health was destroyed and I had major depressive disorder until I finally quit this year.

My boss would keep cutting people, bitching about money, pushing ridiculous sales when we had no staffing, and all the while he travels to Europe with his family multiple times a year, has a 7 bedroom home, drives a Mercedes, and not one mother fucking time gave up any of it.

[–] Crostro@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

This is the same argument they had with guns. If girls had their own pervert glasses, they could record the harassment going on. Similar to "if they had a gun, they could defend themselves" I genuinely hate that this is the hot button for a country that represents me than 10 percent of the global population. Let this place rot.

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Or with biggering cars. "Just buy the bigger, more expensive one!"

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[–] veniasilente@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 month ago

Nothing that can't be solved with an "OK" punch, right?

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's part of the reason they don't want phones in schools.

All they have to do is enforce harassment. It's like trying to put a toy in timeout because your kid misused it. The kid learns nothing and moves on to the next toy. Simply put them into detention. The parents will fix that shit quick.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)

The parents will fix that shit quick.

They won't.

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[–] Hueristic_Autistic@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

😒 And now they're going to have put a school wide notice saying no smart glasses and then they're gonna have people disobey that and not bring a back up pair and then their parents are gonna have to come out of work to bring them not smart glasses.

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (18 children)

If my hypothetical daughter came home and told me about this, I would raise hell.

If things escalated, I might even go so far as to track down the district superintendent in public wearing a pair and confront them about whey they weren't doing anything about it.

Sometimes, you just need to talk to the right people.

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[–] L0rdMathias@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 month ago (5 children)

As terrifying as it is to finally merge the classical and cyber bullying space, that merely represents the creativity and capability of a child. No company has or ever will secure user data. Hyperbullying is very tame compared to the abuse having access to the perception of almost every single student in almost every high school at almost any time allows for. Social media is obliterating kids enough, they really don't need AI enhanced tech bro perverts teaming up with Hyperbullies to create the ultimate predatory environment on top of everything...

So basically, yeah it seems like we're in Hell right now and we certainly are in the thick of it, but don't worry. There's many more depths of horrors beyond mortal comprehension we can fall to.

On an adjacently related note, it must be impossibly frustrating to write about anything involving minors nowadays since you can't say any of the victim/perpetrator names or link to any of the footage. So the whole article has to use indirect evidence, pronouns, vague suggestions, and nondescript abstractions to describe anything, which makes the whole article sound like it could be some AI response from a prompt about an AI generated rage-bait trend.

I do believe that a human writer wrote this to the best of their ability using the facts they have available, but the form their prose must take because of required censorship laws can very easily allow for people to argue the whole thing is AI generated slop and ignore it.

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[–] AndyMFK@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Obviously the existence of these pedo glasses is problematic to say the least, but aren't they also super expensive? How the hell are kids able to afford these?

In Australian dollarydoos they start from $469. What teenager is spending $469 on anything?

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

well parents in the states already gift thier young teens expensive iphones/samsung phones as a way to communicate with them. meta glasses isnt a stretch. milleneals had the benefit of graduating hs before smartphones became common.

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[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 month ago

And they will wonder why nobody will treat them like an adult when they are physically old enough. At least that's how it should be, IMO. My vote is to emasculate their toxic masculinity and treat them like the little boys they are.

If nothing else, they either be treated like little kids the rest of their life or maybe learn about a questionable kink they never knew they had if they don't shape up.

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