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[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

A large enough userbase to support more niche topics. On Lemmy, like a lot of small communities, people tend to put the cart before the horse. They make places to share content for very niche topics but there aren't enough to warrant it. Plus sometimes you have mods in certain relatively niche groups that will remove content from their community because it is off topic, but their volume of posts is nowhere near enough for the occasional, technically off topic post to really matter. I see it in Discord servers too. Some places have more channels than users on the server. People get obsessed with categorization.

[–] BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Support from Nebula creators.

Nebula doesn't have its own comment system, so it's up to the individual creator where, if at all, they engage their viewers. Most if not all I've seen mentions reddit. Some may be on Bluesky too, but as far as I'm concerned Bluesky is just another proprietary platform that can turn into a monetization driven project.

I really want to participate in the jetlag discussions, but I don't want to log into my reddit accounts ever again. So I'm left with the nebula community here, which is better than nothing, but we're like 5 accounts that participate monthly.

[–] verifiedbyme@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This might be something to write to your favourite creators about. They want know if it isn’t brought to their attention, and I would certainly enjoy it too. Change takes time, but also effort by the early adopters.

[–] BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah, problem is I have no other way of contacting them than reddit, and I'm pretty sure my message will get auto-deleted and my account permabanned for trying. I don't care about the account, but a 10year old account with +80k karma does have some credibility, if I have to use that someday.

[–] Polisheocket@lemmy.zip 2 points 21 hours ago

More topics, more people being active

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 20 points 1 day ago

Content and the number of users. Good lord there are so many dead boards on lemmy.

[–] DoucheBagMcSwag@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 21 hours ago

More niche shit!

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Ability to turn off inbox replies from comments.

[–] early_riser@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago

Agree that would be nice, though I'm happy Lemmy doesn't hound you every time you get an upvote or urge you to repost. Here at least every reply is from a person.

[–] aloofPenguin@piefed.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

on piefed, you can do this for every comment. there is a little bell on the bottom right of the comment (in the web ui) which let's you turn notifications on/off

E: also, interstellar has this in the 3 dots menu on the comment

[–] Alexfire@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Same, seems like a basic thing to block the noise.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

IMO it directly contributes to the perceived argumentativeness of lemmy. Comments feel a lot more personal and direct when presented in an inbox vs on the actual thread.

On reddit I turned off replies for everything except the times I was wanting a reply.

[–] Yewb@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Easy way to look at the context of a reply.

[–] InterestingUsername@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

More apolitical communities

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Agreeing with you here.

Visit popular on reddit and posts will be like:

  • cat pic
  • pic of food and girl complaining
  • video of fight
  • meme about work
  • mandami
  • ice bullshit
  • dog pic
  • kids are fucking stupid
  • cat pic
  • PG video of something funny
  • pic of food of girl complaining
  • cat pic
  • Trump
  • picture of celebs boobs
  • cat pic
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[–] kepix@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago
[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago

more amateur porn. well more porn in general, but specifically amateur.

[–] jpeps@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

Film and TV discussion threads!

[–] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

An active stopdrinking subreddit, and more active Sports sections.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

the niche communities over there, replicated here, but without the number of users some are ghost towns on lemmy. with them forcing popup logins piecemeal, we may get a boost.

also people scattered way too much to other similar platforms, when one instance shutsdown which is problematic.

also some politically heavy instances ban like they would on reddit.

[–] Jomega@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Active communities. Some of the comms for my interests technically exist, in that they get one post every third month that gets 2 upvotes. Despite everything, these communities are still thriving on Reddit. Yet for whatever reason, any attempt to replicate them here fails. Smh

[–] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They were small on reddit once too. Just a matter of time. Also helps if you post to them.

[–] noahm@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I’m not sure that it is a matter of time. Maybe I’m just being pessimistic, but I think the fediverse wave has crested already. There’s a reverse migration from Mastodon back to places like X/Twitter under way, and lemmy really never even saw the scale of adoption or attention that Mastodon saw.

I’m not worried that lemmy will go away any time soon, but I’m not sure it’s ever going to be mainstream enough to attract enough users to really support vibrant and diverse communities.

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[–] titanicx@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Better specialized subgroups they can actually talk with people in you don't have to listen to everybody constantly whining about the billionaire class and how they don't get a chance to do anything in their life.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

amen brother.

don't worry, those folks will invade your specailized subgroups to whine about their lives and billionaires, but at least if you mod you can ban them.

also, if you are moderately happy with your life, apparently you're a facist capitalist pig dog who is personally preventing another anonymous stranger on the internet from being happy...

[–] Meatwagon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago

Ability to turn off reply notifications on specific posts.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

More users. The scalability to accommodate more users.

Other than that, Lemmy pretty much has everything.

[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

more users but not more bots like redbot

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

90% of the answers in here boil down to more users.

active users specifically

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[–] 0xKesh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 165 points 2 days ago (11 children)

More users to accommodate more active niche communities

[–] thru_dangers_untold@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago

Truthfully, Lemmy doesn't even have enough users for some mainstream interests, like sports. Lemmy leans very tech and selects for a certain type of user. But I'm sure plenty of people here are happy to have a place without daily NFL and NBA news.

[–] igmelonh@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Yeah, there's a few subs that I miss — particularly the ones for my city and my state — but r/twobestfriendsplay is top of the list. It was by far the sub that I most enjoyed interacting with since I joined years ago. Lots of power users who I'd immediately recognize by pfp.

The actual group that it's named after broke up a decade ago — they've been disbanded longer than they were a thing — but it was still loosely connected to a couple of the guys' ongoing careers, particularly two of them who host a podcast and stream separately. More importantly, it was a hub for discussion on games, movies, shows, comics, whatever, niche or popular, even if the relevance to the group was tenuous; the mods tried to block some topics but lost the battle on vtubers after the guys had Mori Calliope on the podcast, lol. I imagine it's even more lifted now that one of them streams with several vtubers.

tl;dr yeah I really miss some niche communities I'd been subbed to for years.

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[–] ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml 29 points 2 days ago (1 children)

More users in smaller niche communities. Lemmy has less users in general, so smaller niche communities are practically non-existent here.

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[–] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 36 points 2 days ago (8 children)

Any amount of positivity and fun. Lemmy users just feel so miserable and argumentative.

I mean sign of the times but damn.

[–] Sv443@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago

I miss being able to make sarcastic comments without someone telling me I'm the sole reason the world went to shit.

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[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] imvii@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Roses are red

violets are blue

I'm not the poem guy

and it's time for lunch.

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

I appreciate the effort!

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