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[–] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 1 points 7 minutes ago

As a member of the CAF, if the US Armed Forces are getting rid of LGBTQ folks, I would be proud to welcome them as my comrades in arms.

[–] Ileftreddit@lemmy.world 1 points 10 minutes ago

I’ve lived in NYC for 20 years, I’d only give it up for Barcelona

[–] TheTimeKnife@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago

Morocco or Jordan. Been trying to learn Arabic for a few years and would love to be forced to take it more seriously. Mostly can just read the letters. They are relatively safe countries that are in areas of the world I have studied extensively. Also means closer travel to many of the old cities I want to visit.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 hours ago

Germany here, only the smart once please. Dont need the idiots. Already got enought here

[–] m4xie@lemmy.ca 5 points 4 hours ago

Here in Canada we're trying to catch America's brain drain. We especially need doctors quite desperately.

[–] chaitae3@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Americans would do anything to not call a general strike.

[–] zlatiah@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Chinese. I... don't think China accepts immigration, so I don't think it matters what most Chinese people think of Americans. Not that I think China would be an ideal expat destination for most Americans anyway... China also have most of the problems US have. Maybe for some highly accomplished scientists/business executives who can be offered a job (since China is spending a lot on R&D), but that's probably it

As someone who lived in the US for a long time and actively considered this?

  • Northern European countries are nice for anyone who doesn't mind living like a vampire; there is basically no sunlight in winter, but they are probably the best in terms of providing what an "average person" wants and needs
  • There are countries here and there which have low cost-of-living and high quality-of-life, assuming that I only want to be an "expat" who wants to live temporarily and am not trying to find work there (remote work, savings, or something else). My parents insist that Thailand fits this category; I believe several South American countries fit the bill as well
  • Realistically, if I actually want to immigrate, it will probably end up being one of the random EU countries, whichever I can get in via ancestry or find a job in...
[–] N00b22@lemmy.ml 5 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (2 children)

Costa Rica 🇨🇷

Our country attracts a lot of American tourists, they mainly go to the beaches and national parks but I have seen them on my city sometimes

I'm fine with it, I highly suggest you learn Spanish since we are a Spanish-speaking country, and you can only see English on the tourist areas

Also if you want to become a citizen you need to do some sort of exam that for most foreign people is hard. Just so y'all know

[–] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 10 minutes ago* (last edited 7 minutes ago)

I love your country and am considering moving there. I just got divorced and I'm going to do a big shake up of my life. If I don't get this job in Texas and I can get my balls in order, I might just do it. Ticos son la gente muy generoso y amistosa. Tengo solo un poco español pero vivir en Costa Rica? Yo estudio muy rapido en la pais.

[–] BenjiRenji@feddit.org 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Also even with a gringo accent, you'll fit right in /jk

[–] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 13 minutes ago

You might be surprised. I love this country so much.

[–] bonus_crab@lemmy.world 8 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Californian - i want us, oregon, and washington to join canada.

[–] itsjess@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

I feel like if CA were to leave the US it would join Mexico, not Canada

[–] m4xie@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 hours ago
[–] bonus_crab@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

fuck no lol joining mexico is submitting yourself to the rule of cartels. Theyre super corrupt.

[–] lemmyknow@lemmy.today -1 points 5 hours ago

Mexico == cartels????!?!!!?!??

[–] leraje@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

For anyone who's thinking UK, I'd advise not - we're about 4-5 years behind you in terms of imminent fascism and whilst there's still technically a chance to avert it, its very unlikely - especially since Starmer is being even more awful than the Tories.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 8 points 10 hours ago

Just to add: The xenophobic riot last year...

Especially a bad idea if you are Muslim, Arab, or just look "Middle-Eastern".

Or if you're transgender (it's called "TERF Island" for a reason)

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago

Also, God, the weather

[–] randomwords@futurology.today 38 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

So, it's not just theoretical for me. I left the US earlier this year and moved to Iceland. Planning started almost a year before that. It is hard for Americans to move to a lot of European countries, and Iceland isn't an exception.

I hired an immigration attorney in Iceland to help make sure I did everything correctly. That cost about $10k as a retainer. It was worth every penny. If you're taking notes, that's pretty much the only one you need. Every country has different rules and laws regarding Americans moving to their country. And just like in America, if you have an issue with the law, you need to hire an attorney. They will help you understand every relevant law that exists that applies to you that may very well not be available in English. Hire a local expert.

I'm not very young, so I paid to move my stuff here. I also paid to move my electric vehicle because gas costs the equivalent of about $10 per gallon, plus there are some serious CO2 taxes here. That cost about another $20k. About two thirds moving the stuff, and one third moving the car.

In retrospect, moving the stuff was a good idea. I have lots of things that are just incredibly hard to get here, or take forever to get if you want them. And I saved enough money to be worth it. If you look at something like a KitchenAid mixer, it costs the equivalent of $1k here. If I sold my old one for used price and bought a new one here, I'd lose most of a thousand bucks. So you only need to do that a few times to make moving your stuff worth it.

I also saved money on importing my car over just buying a new one, but it was such a fucking hassle that if I were to do it again, I'd have just bought one here. I didn't save enough to make it worth it.

I'm not sure how useful my experience will be now. When I started talking to my immigration attorney, I explained that it seemed likely to me that after trump was reelected that Americans were going to panic and rush for the exits. I felt that it was likely that the countries would respond by doing exactly what America does: freak out about having too many immigrants and change the rules to make it harder to get in.

Based on a recent conversation with my attorney, it seems that I was right. The rules have changed enough that the path that we used for residency has now been more more seriously restricted. The attorney's office was inundated with requests from Americans and they were working 12+ hour days for a few months just trying to respond to all the requests.

I know some folks have strong feelings that people should stay and fight. But I feel like we have fought the good fight for a long time. That went all the way from starting non-profits, to being involved locally, and all the way to running for public office. I'm not interested in identifying myself too much, but I will say that that the person we lost that election to was openly known to have been fired previously for having embezzled money, but voters didn't care because they got to vote for team (R) in our red state.

So from my perspective, there is a cancer that is eating America. I've tried hard to remove it. I've tried hard to treat it. Ultimately, it seems to have metastisized to the point that it is incurable. You can either keep up with the radiation and chemo and be miserable until you die, or you can stop treatment and do your best to enjoy the time that is left.

For me, moving to Iceland is my version of stopping treatment to enjoy what life I have left. And if you want to fight to the bitter end, or if you want to search for a better life in another country, I wish each and every one of you the very best on your journey.

[–] Fredthefishlord@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I know some folks have strong feelings that people should stay and fight

As someone who thinks that. Sounds like you already fought your fight. And if you already tried it's fair enough to move on.

[–] randomwords@futurology.today 3 points 6 hours ago

Thanks. I care a lot about liberty and freedom. I think they come with duty and responsibility. Even though we are anonymous strangers on the internet, I want you to know that I respect everyone who stays and fights either because they cant leave or they choose not to. I hope you all win. I can still vote in federal elections, and I will continue to do so.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 13 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I'm glad you had the means to make it out.

The vast majority of Americans, sadly, do not.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 14 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

American here. Can confirm; do not have $30,000. I just managed to scrounge up $5500 for the minimum possible downpayment on a house in northern Maine; the bluest, closest to Canada place, where people like to mind their own business and not fuck with anyone else for no reason. The Canadian escape route is real, though.

I do hear good things about Portugal. I was thinking Spain, but they seem to be having their own issues right now. This timeline is definitely off the rails.

[–] randomwords@futurology.today 4 points 5 hours ago

There were some very fucked up things happening in our very red state, both in general and to us in particular. We had considered something similar, like moving to Maine or Vermont. These things happened just at the right time in 2024 that it was obvious that trump was going to win, but we still had time to plan to get out before he did.

We figured if we were going to go through the hassle of moving far enough away that any friends or family were going to fly to come vist us, that just moving to a blue state wasn't good enough. We figured that when trump was reelected that even blue states wouldn't be safe enough.

And believe me, I am well aware of how fortunate I am, because I was not always so fortunate. I realize that not everyone can do it. There were a couple of women married to each other that lived near us that were scared as hell, but they couldn't afford to move to any of the places they were researching.

[–] guynamedzero@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 11 hours ago

Probably Finland, or another Nordic country. Idk, I just like the cold and the woods and figure those oughtta fit the bill

[–] shirro@aussie.zone 11 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Non-murican - strongly feel preference should be given to genuine refugees fleeing war, famine etc where they have absolutely no ability to influence their fate other than escape. The US is a failed democracy but the people there have barely begun to challenge their government compared to what we have seen elsewhere in the world. And there is still refuge available in blue states. US citizens need to stand up and fight. Then if they fail, only then do they get to go in the queue with the genuine humanitarian refugees. I don't like queue jumpers. Sorry but impingement on your civil liberties doesn't compare with families in war torn parts of the world living in fear fear of having their limbs blown off every night.

Ofcourse business around the world would like to cherry pick talent for in demand jobs. They prefer not to invest in developing local people when they can import experienced talent for less. So people with in demand skills will get in that way, not as refugees.

[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 15 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Canadian here. I'll welcome anyone who voted against Trump.

Those who voted for Trump or didn't vote at all can die in a ditch.

[–] pissraelian@lemmings.world -1 points 5 hours ago

Canada is notoriously genocide friendly. Good that all those genocide voter will get a safe harbour

[–] BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

When America sends it’s people, they’re not sending their best.

[–] MutilationWave@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 36 seconds ago

The funny thing is, the worst of us love the US and what it's becoming. Smart, decent people are the ones talking about leaving.

[–] Underwaterbob@sh.itjust.works 5 points 10 hours ago

Korea is facing a huge population crisis in the not-so-distant future. They already have ties to the U.S., too.

[–] pissraelian@lemmings.world -5 points 5 hours ago

I would take american refugees.

Of course they would have to answers questions from the police regarding their complicity in the Gaza genocide, especially around their vote in a specific elections where both candidates supported genocide.

But don't worry after a few month in jail you'll be able to walk freely

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago

Canada if possible. My family only speaks English, but willing to "do the thing" to fit in even if that's learning a new language.

I'd also be ok with UK, Australia, New Zealand.

last places would be Germany, Poland, Italy, Spain, Japan. I know living in these places would be an extreme challenge for my family so that's why they're bottom of my list.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I think I’d like to move to Canada. However, I have no money, and do not have a degree or anything like that. I think the plant I work at has operations in Canada, so there might be the possibility of transferring there. Even if the opportunity presented itself, I refuse to leave my son, so I am stuck here.

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 10 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

I moved US -> CA, so AMA

My experience so far: I instantly made a bunch of friends and the locals seem happy to have me here. Many are curious about the US, many also understand what's going on. I don't experience the same level of elitism I'm used to back in the states as an immigrant (even after 2+ decades). There is also SIGNIFICANTLY less catcalling, I somehow get way more compliments??? Oh and did you know ketchup was actually supposed to taste good? (Hint: it's all the corn syrup)

Canada is a lovely country ❤️🇨🇦

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

I'm Canadian. I don't mind accepting American refugees as long as we also learn to accept refugees from other countries and value them all equally, but our current government isn't doing that.

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