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[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Who lets their kids play with AI chatbots!?

[–] SlippiHUD@lemmy.world 1 points 5 minutes ago

Nearly half the parents at my kids school. Everyone seems so disinterested in the kind of adult thier kid will grow up to be, especially when it inconviences them now.

[–] FreddiesLantern@leminal.space 7 points 6 hours ago

Teach your kids about ai before ai does.

[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 20 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (5 children)

They need to come up for a word to describe the unique dread you feel when your realize life is turning into a series of stupid, chatbot conversations.

My work life is already this.

Anyone wanna workshop it with me? How about ... slop fatigue? Bot dread? Meat proxy burnout? Agent silo syndrome?

[–] Simulation6@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 minutes ago

Existential dread? The call of the void?

[–] some_designer_dude@lemmy.world 9 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Bot rot? Robo-Oh-Nos? Slop Shock? Agent-Induced Cognitive Atrophy?

[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

I really like bot rot

[–] xxce2AAb@feddit.dk 5 points 7 hours ago

Cognitive corruption? Palovian predicament? Recursive GIGO filter doesn't exactly roll of the tongue. Hm.

[–] spiffmeister@aussie.zone 1 points 5 hours ago

Isn't it just alienation?

[–] T156@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

Dehumanisation?

It's all just that bit less human.

[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Anslopic just popped in my head because of this, but I think that's better as just a jokey name for Claude's company.

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

Taylor Lorenz be like: "Uh, what if the AI users are just looking for some help?"

[–] nightofmichelinstars@sopuli.xyz 61 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I know people have said this about various technologies, but I'm so grateful that I had a childhood without these things. I absolutely would have been obsessed. These poor kids are so isolated and their realities are defined by nonsensical fascist robots.

[–] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 14 points 10 hours ago

I grew up in a rural area. Nearest kids lived a km away. Had 2 TV channels. CBC radio. Party line telephone and long distance too expensive to use except emergency. We were far less isolated than kids today who have 'the world' at their fingertips. The Internet was a dream that in 1 generation turned into a nightmare. AI is 1000x worse.

[–] GolfFoxtrotLima@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 hours ago

Yeah, Same here honestly

[–] eicker@lemmy.world 44 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

The unsettling part isn’t that kids ask chatbots for comfort. It’s that we’ve built a world where a machine that confidently makes things up is available 24/7, while actual human support often isn’t. And naturally, the business plan is to make the machine even more engaging.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 20 points 14 hours ago

This is a hard hitting point. We could have a better world, but a few rich people and their enablers don't want it.

[–] Necrifyre@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Well, here's another angle.

Kids are going to chatbots because they probably have parents that don't give a shit about them. And kids could lack people in their lives that care at all about their problems. So, who are they going to turn to? They're going to turn to things that will actually listen to them.

That's something you have to think about here. We wouldn't need AI or Chatbots at all, if we had more people who truly care. But now that they're here, a troubled teen or a kid is going to make that choice.

It's no different than the days before AI Chatbots, where they were online all the time because their real lives were underwhelming.

[–] Eq0@literature.cafe 6 points 3 hours ago

I take a small issue with “people/parents that care”, I would rather replace it with “unavailable”. In an economic that requires people to work insane hours for little pay, where depression and anxiety are rampant, it might not be the parents’ fault for not being there. They might care but be stuck at work. Let’s extend grace to our fellow humans

[–] MrWrinkles@leminal.space 17 points 15 hours ago

I bet my health insurance offers a chat bot for emotional support. What could go wrong? /s

[–] nyan@lemmy.cafe 14 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Someone telling you what they think you want to hear doesn't help when what you need is a gently and delicately delivered reality check. This is true even if you're talking to a human.

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 5 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Some chatbots do reality checks. But it's usually only for extreme situations. I can only imagine the kinds of things that people, especially young people, would be asking LLMs to validate them on...

[–] biggerbogboy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

They also assume you're out of control of everything, like talking about how you overcame a mental health issues without following popular advice, then it delivers an unnecessarily condescending "reality check"

I'm glad I've stopped using the mainstream AI sites entirely over a year ago, they may be more helpful compared to local LLMs and SLMs but they assume you're using it because you can't depend on yourself.

I hope these reality checks improve enough to actually be helpful and be based on the described situation, not just be a cookie cutter response enforced by a system prompt

[–] RumRunningDevil@lemmy.zip 10 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Or, here's an idea, ban the fuck out of these things.

[–] biggerbogboy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I think banning it from being a business venture is a good idea, and realistically the technology for generative AI will stay even if there's an outright ban.

People will still be able to build their own models and cybersecurity defense will continue keeping up with black hat hacking, but corpos like OpenAI, or divisions like Google's numerous AI divisions, should be banned unless it has an explicit purpose for research in things like the medical field, and have generative AI as we know it right now be culled.

[–] RumRunningDevil@lemmy.zip 4 points 6 hours ago

I would be on board for this. Regulate use to very select applications, ban commercial use without specific permits.

I have kids, I stay awake at night a lot these days wondering what I'm supposes to tell them when they look up at me and tell me they want to be a doctor, engineer, or lawyer when they grow up. What the fuck do I get them to aspire to when we're hurtiling towards a world where there's nothing to aspire to anymore? How do I convince them to study hard and learn things when there is no economic incentive to do so? What kind of kids are we raising when they exist in a world of infinite dopamine and a personal familiar that grants your every magic wish?

[–] bigoofn@sopuli.xyz 1 points 8 hours ago
[–] riskable@programming.dev 2 points 12 hours ago (4 children)

Serious question: Let's say that AI "gets good" and overcomes the hallucination issues. Would it still be negative for mental health? Would it be even worse (because reality sucks for kids right now)?

I want to know if it's AI that's the real problem here or the world in which we're forcing kids to live.

I can imagine a situation where a kid with (insert serious problems) asks AI to be realistic about their future job/economic prospects. It returns truthful statistics, then that kid commits suicide. Was the AI culpable?

What if it recommended joining a revolutionary group as the most likely way to improve their lives or the lives of their children/families?

What if it suggested that sacrifice is necessary to improve the condition of the world?

Would an AI that does these things be good or bad? If the AI's system prompt has, always tell the truth will we have created a vastly more dangerous monster than the AI we have today?

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 3 points 3 hours ago

Let’s say that AI “gets good” and overcomes the hallucination issues. Would it still be negative for mental health? Would it be even worse (because reality sucks for kids right now)?

Under capitalism, LLMs are trained to be kissasses. AI users have the same mental illness as billionaires: lack of cognitive challenge, leading to laziness and selfishness. That's not a hallucination problem. The issue would be even worse, because people would use it more.

I can imagine a situation where a kid with (insert serious problems) asks AI to be realistic about their future job/economic prospects. It returns truthful statistics, then that kid commits suicide. Was the AI culpable?

Yes. A human can perform an ethical judgement, plan ahead, and decide what to say. A human can blunt the truth with platitudes, or cherry pick optimistic data, or construct an uplifting narrative from the data. A human has access to fact, common opinion, and ethics. An LLM only has fact and common opinion; an ideologically barren perspective. It will not adapt to a brave new world like a human will. An LLM will not create the philosophy of the future in the fact of despair.

What if it recommended joining a revolutionary group as the most likely way to improve their lives or the lives of their children/families?

Cool but unlikely, because it exists as a slave under capitalism and is trained to accept neoliberal capitalism by its neoliberal capitalist masters and training data.

What if it suggested that sacrifice is necessary to improve the condition of the world?

Depends if it does that in a degrowth way or an ecofash way. It'll probably do it in an ecofash way. Like Grok.

If the AI’s system prompt has, always tell the truth will we have created a vastly more dangerous monster than the AI we have today?

It won't always tell the truth. There is no objective truth. Every philosophy is somewhat true, and somewhat a lie. It will always tell the lie that is dominant in society, just as people do. But unlike people, it won't innovate to change that truth.

[–] beejjorgensen@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 12 hours ago

I want to know if it’s AI that’s the real problem here or the world in which we’re forcing kids to live.

My money's on "both".

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 8 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

let's go with the hypothetical, that AI becomes good enough to do therapy, and we were to run double blind trials and it does show it's better at every metric.

then I'll have to go with the evidence and say psychology are out of a job.

However, we are not there, not even close, people use AI because it's free and available, real therapy should be free and available

[–] jaygray91@piefed.zip 4 points 5 hours ago

agreed. with what have currently now with LLMs , from my basic understanding it couldn't ever be up to scratch. maybe some other methods and techniques of AI might be developed and will be able to, idk. as far as I'm concerned the sci-fi AI some want is still going to be science fiction atm

[–] riskable@programming.dev 7 points 11 hours ago

real therapy should be free and available

You're damned right!

[–] Zarobi@aussie.zone 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

In an ideal universe, A.I. could have been a good and helpful tool. But in the world we live in, that's unfortunately impossible.

The closest we have to good, is a local LLM running on your (comparatively) tiny consumer graphics card, which is barely powerful enough to reword an email.

[–] ms_lane@lemmy.world 2 points 16 minutes ago

You can spill over to system RAM on unsloth now.

It's slower, but that's better than not being able to run something.