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[–] pokexpert30@jlai.lu 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

For référence, there is an ancient in my village of 300 inhabitants that in the 60's, there were SIX bars. For 300 inhabitants.

So I guess so.

Also for reference we only have a bread machine now, no shops of any kind.

[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 5 points 3 hours ago

Worked in a pub in the UK.

Yes, we had regulars. They'd be there nearly every night after work for a quick pint before heading home.

Very few of them would stay for more than one or two though

[–] kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 5 hours ago

Used to be? This is still common in many industries and localities.

[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 12 points 5 hours ago

A lot of blue collar workers went straight to the bar after work 3-4 days a week.

I did sheet metal back in the 90's for a year. Typical day... start at 6, off at 2:30, bar from 3-5. Pretty much everyday.

[–] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 11 points 6 hours ago

Remember, no internet before this millenium, 3 to 7 television channels before cable, no TV before the 50s...

[–] MourningDove@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 hours ago

Yep.

Source: Was one of them.

[–] Horsey@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Yes. I grew up in the Boston area.

[–] chemicalprophet@slrpnk.net 3 points 4 hours ago

Like…um…what are you doing?

[–] J52@lemmy.nz 18 points 12 hours ago

Yes, even in countries like Austria. Saddest thing was that many men that were 'great pals' while drinking turned into abusers when coming home, making their families co-dependents and their lives hell.

[–] updn@lemmy.ca 9 points 11 hours ago

I do. Most other people that come here are regulars also.

Not much else out there for community.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 12 points 13 hours ago

Yes. In my fathers time men would go there often for lunch and after work. I think some went home and then went over for an hour or two. Later it was still common but someone who did it all the time would be called a barfly but almost everyone did like friday night and pretty often thursday or saturday. Its diminished since and more and more bars have to sorta be restaurants or dance clubs or band venues.

[–] obsoleteacct@lemmy.zip 47 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

Yes, but bear in mind a lot of factory, construction, and industrial jobs are 7-3 or 8-4. So a working class laborer could go catch a happy hour with the coworkers or neighbors and be home by 5.

Also in the age of single income households men were often not expected to pull as much weight at home.

[–] Aneb@lemmy.world 15 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

You guys are only working 8hrs? What a life to have. The company I use to work for extended their store hours in 6pm so 8-6 was typical with no overtime pay. Woww saying this out loud really makes me want to unionize.

[–] smeenz@lemmy.nz 10 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Found the American.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 9 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (3 children)

If I could afford it I would. Better than going home and sitting on my ass playing video games or whatever. Bars around here are too expensive though (just like everything else). I could drink for a month at home on what I spend for 1 trip to the bar.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 hours ago

Strong disagree.

[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I walk by some neighborhood bars, that are cheap and still some people go everyday like the Simpsons.

Videogames are better. I've come to recognize some of the "local drunks" that are there every day, they do be like Barney from the Simpsons. It seems a little depressing looking at them destroying themselves with booze.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Videogames are better

Not if your goal is to socialize they're not.

[–] Nemoder@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

They certainly can be. Plenty of online games center around socializing. It might not be enough for those who need daily physical contact but it is far from an anti-social hobby.

[–] pathief@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (2 children)

Sure but the social aspect in games is often pretty toxic.

I played quite a lot of Dota 2 and while communication and cooperation greatly improve your chances of winning... More often then not it was just someone raging hard over minor mistakes.

[–] Nemoder@lemmy.ml 1 points 58 minutes ago

Absolutely, just as you can wander into the wrong bar and end up in a fight.

Competitive games will definitely bring out the worst in some people though, but there's plenty of co-operative and role-play games that can lead to good lasting friendships.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (2 children)

Don't know if I would have thought of Dota as a social game tbh. Maybe a more casual MMO?

But what about keep talking and nobody explodes, overcooked or genital jousting?

[–] pathief@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Dota is not casual at all, it's quite competitive. It's the reason the communication is so toxic.

Couch co-op games are very nice but in my personal experience friends don't make a habit of gathering to play them. It's a infrequent ocasion, online gaming is much much easier. Boardgames are a cooler experience if you're gonna have people frequently at your place.

[–] hayvan@feddit.nl 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Deep Rock Galactic and especially Helldivers 2 gave me the most positive interactions with random strangers despite lack of dedicated social hubs or lobbies.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 hour ago

Yeah coop games are usually pretty good choices

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[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 13 points 16 hours ago

I don’t know about every night but I know plenty of dudes who have a watering hole they go to weekly.

[–] nickiwest@lemmy.world 33 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

My uncle was a factory worker and a daily regular at his favorite local bar for more than 30 years.

My mom wouldn't allow me to go inside the bar (because drinking alcohol is a sin, you know). But in the '80s and '90s, before cell phones, I knew exactly where to find him after school if I needed anything.

Unfortunately, 30+ years of excessive drinking caused a lot of really serious health problems that caught up to him when he was in his 50s. The owners and staff sent a huge flower arrangement and all came to his funeral.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 hours ago

A sin? Lol what? Jesus turned water into wine, the fucking madlad!

[–] TheLazyNerd@europe.pub 26 points 20 hours ago

It depends on (sub)culture, but mainly yes.

Bars were often cheap too, so going to the bar multiple times per week was not expensive. The reason these bars were cheap:

  • Outside of touristic areas ground is cheap.
  • If the local government allows it, the bar can on the owners property.
  • The owner and customers were often friends, so friend pricing would be standard.
  • Health and safety regulations used to be less strict. Allowing for lower prices.
  • The bar was open whenever the owner wanted, instead of on a fixed schedule, making it more easy to combine with a second job.
  • Bars rarely had a menu, they just sold whatever they had in stock. Today customers would be upset if an item on the menu was not in stock.

Also,

  • Parks used to be less safe and less well maintained, so buying drinks in the supermarket and consuming them in the park wasn't really an option.
  • The internet wasn't a thing, so people who wanted to spend the evening gaming had to do so in the bar.
[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 34 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

It used to be a place for the working stiffs to gather and was priced accordingly. Nowadays capitalization has been overused to the point where a lot of businesses are pricing themselves out of customers.

[–] Aneb@lemmy.world 6 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

An average draft goes for $7-11 dollars in my city. And the $11 drafts are served in a smaller chalice than the cheaper stuff. I usually buy a 12 pack of beer for $24 from the store and get drunk at home when I can afford it.

[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Holy fuck! Even today you can get a 30 pack of average beer like bud Budweiser for 25 ish.

Back in the day I paid 3 a point for some cheap ass.

[–] Aneb@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

I'm buying IPAs they taste better to me and still feel like a bang for the buck, I grab a pack of Bell's

[–] iamacar@lemmy.world 11 points 19 hours ago

A lot of bars would have tons of cash on Fridays and bartenders would cash paychecks. Customers would pay off the tab and start a new one. Idk how common it is anymore. Most jobs I’ve had for a while will give a paper check if they have to, but discourage it as much as possible.

[–] slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org 30 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I watched a documentary about "bar culture" in the 60es and 70es where i live. Shit was pretty wild. Dudes talked about going to the bar like people talk about video games these days. "Oh yeah, on a good week i'm here 40 to 48 hours" what doesn your wife think about it? "She's not excited, but you know..."

[–] But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world 20 points 21 hours ago (5 children)

I saw an old video about when they made it illegal to drink and drive and dudes are like “they’re taking away my freedom! It’s my business if I wanna go to the bar and grab a couple beers after work before heading home! Im not hurting anyone!” It’s crazy how casual getting nightly drunk and driving home was in those days

[–] timbuck2themoon@sh.itjust.works 11 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (2 children)

I don't think it's crazy at all. The US in particular still has basically no real mass transit and bars everywhere. Everyone knows there is still drinking and driving going on. Certainly not all those people are calling ubers.

Edit- crazy to believe. Certainly is crazy to do.

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