I feel like the headline makes it sound like the abuse came from the driver, where in the article it sounds like the abuse is coming from people on social media when she posts about it.

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 6 points 1 month ago

Definitely what the headline heavily implied.

[–] Auth@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

people can be so fucking dogmatic its jarring sometimes.

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm not sure it's dogma (unless I'm misinterpreting the word). At least, IMHO, it's entitlement.

Kiwi drivers are, generally, incredibly entitled.

Simple things like 'my journey is more important than your saftey, so I will...'

run this amber light
enter this intersection that I can't exit
drive/park over this footpath
refuse to make room for someone else indicating a lane change
speed
refuse to allow a bus to proceed from a stop

To the extreme of 'I'm so frustrated I'll aggressively...'

tailgate
block you from merging
force myself ahead of you to change lanes
force that cyclist off the road
drench that pedestrian with that puddle

I've been there when I was a youngster, I grew up but many many kiwis don't.

[–] Dave@lemmy.nz 3 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I have seen all of the above, but, in general, I have to say most people don't seem that bad. But when you have hundreds of cars around you on the road, it's easy to find one driving like a dick.

In my experience, the things you list are a tiny majority that just happens to occur pretty frequently because of the volume of traffic.

It's true as well for my own pet peeve, people staring down at their phone. It's the new drunk driving.

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 2 points 3 weeks ago

The is a biss there of course, you don't notice the nice drivers.

Though, it's more that every trip will have at least one experience from that list.