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These are my daily walkers, BMX riders, rainy day shoes, and mechanic work shoes. Left shoe not pictured, but I'm sure you get the idea..

Yes I do have a few much nicer pairs of shoes for nice or important occasions, but I'd rather fully wear out one pair of shoes at a time.

So, what's your worn out shoes looking like?

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[–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 43 points 2 months ago

I wear them until I know when I’ve stepped in liquid.

[–] seathru@quokk.au 26 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I can replace insoles, I can mend the uppers, but once the soles start letting water in, then it's time for retirement.

Guess that's a skill I should learn.

Protip: E6000 craft adhesive works magic.

[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

E6000?

You son of a bitch, you reminded me of my old project, my custom modded game controller!

I did lots of mods back in 2003, but the plastic is getting brittle these days ☹️

E6000 was used to secure my modded parts.

I really should at least try to fix the remaining parts and give it another game drive, even if it requires some duct tape..

[–] Oaksey@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago
[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If I can't see the floor through them, I'll keep wearing them.

[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

Oh, so early?

[–] Jerb322@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Well that toe done sailed..

At least I'm prepped with more new shoes.

[–] listless@lemmy.cringecollective.io 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Until they leak in the rain. If my feet get wet walking across wet pavement, either through the sole, because the sole and upper are separating or a hole in the side, I retire them.

[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Oh man, that's when they just start getting comfortable..

[–] mittyta@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My winter boots is during its 7th winter now. The last one.

Leather is still good, but upper part has not decent look. But the worst part is it not warm enough anymore for russian winter.

Laces was changed, heel counter was patched, sole was glued.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 months ago

Ooo ooo I love good work boots!

I bought these in 2015 for work. I left that job in 2020, and I wore these like three times since. Pulled them out this winter for my son to wear as the fit him right now, (he's growing and blowing through shoes).

How bloody happy I am that after ten years, they are still holding up! You can see some of the leather is wearing, but they're soaked on the outside in these photos, bone dry in the inside.

Fuck inflation though, I paid $120 for these back then, the same boots, I looked them up, today, are $230. Wild. No way I can buy these kind ever again, I'm so happy they have lived so long my son is now getting life out of them! Will definitely be getting these repaired when the time comes!

[–] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Where it gets really crazy is where you have a few pairs that you rotate through for "daily wear". A whole decade can slip by before you go "how long have I had these?"

I don't care a whole lot about fashion so "until they stop working correctly" is about the best answer I can give.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Even crazier when you started working from home at least part time since pandemic, so the shoes you’d normally wear to work get little use.

I got divorced about five years ago and still have a closet full of shoes I apparently needed but they’re all unworn so I might have a lifetime supply

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[–] Hypnotoad_@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Until they break, then they're yard shoes

No shoe thrown away

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[–] rbos@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 months ago

I wear leather boots, ankle high. The shoe store fixes em when the bottom wears out. Had em 11 years and they're still fairly pristine. Just gotta oil em every winter. Probably should do that more often.

It was $600 and $50 or so every couple years. Figure I've gotten it amortized down.

[–] deafboy@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I wear them until they reach zero on the comfort scale:

  • 10 - The most comfortable thing in the universe. You don't even know you're wearing them
  • 0 - It actively hurts your feet
[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Is this scale measured in years, months, or hours?

[–] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Technically, if it's measured in one, it's also measured in the others.

[–] CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 2 months ago

Way before they reach that state.

I go barefoot whenever it’s feasible, so if I’m wearing shoes, they better do shoe things. They last a long time because I don’t wear them, which helps from a financial side .

[–] not_that_guy05@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Usually until I have a hole in the bottom or they start to stink that even washing them doesn't help.

[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (9 children)

Wait, you wash your shoes?

I only do that when I stepped into a doggy landmine..

Edit: How do wash shoes without damaging them?

[–] not_that_guy05@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yeah I do once a while which also gives them a week of rest before I go on with them. You just don't dry them in the dryer, you air dry them.

[–] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Yeah ill do this only when I start noticing a smell that shouldn't be there after only wearing them for a few hours. I know its time.

[–] Pwalabwa@quokk.au 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

How do wash shoes without damaging them?

If I have a laundry of work clothes, I put the shoes in a pillowcase, then in the middle of the clothes. Alternatively, you can try freezing them. It works pretty well to get rid of smells.

[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Awesome advice 👍

No dice for me though, washers just destroy my shoes like 5x faster than my own footwear and BMX riding.

Foot/shoe smell means nothing to me, I don't smell my feet or shoes.

Look at the wear on my right shoe. I'm definitely due for new shoes, but these are my 'dirty job' shoes..

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[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Those look good to me. I wear the shit out of my shoes.

Fresh clean shoes are lame. I like looking down at my feet and seeing all the life and work I've worn into my shoes. I've a pair of boots for snow, a pair of sneakers, and one pair of sandlas. That's it- if you invited me to something fancy, well, I won't be invited anywhere fancy I assure you. I'm 38 and never even been to a single wedding. Ha.

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[–] Comrade_Squid@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Had for two years, use mink oil, leather has however degraded.

Also worth mentioning, these are soon to be replaced. Not worth resoling as got for £60

[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Shit homie, don't throw those away!

I'd just as soon finish wearing them out myself if they're around US size 10½ to 11½ or so..

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[–] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

People think I am nuts, but I only have 1 pair of sneakers and I try to make them last at least 2 years, if not 3, before getting a new pair. I know its time if they are failing apart or I start to realize my feet hurt and its most likely due to the worn out shoes that have no more comfort or cushion.

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[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When they start getting wet when it rains. Currently my favorite pair wears out in less than a year.

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[–] mousefad@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Why is that picture of an almost new slipper? No duct tape ?!

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[–] actionjbone@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I stopped wearing disposable shoes several years ago. So when they start to where out, I bring them to my cobbler to get repaired.

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[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I buy Ecco brand, they last for eternity. These are 15 years old but I stopped wearing them every day 4 years ago and got new Ecco shoes with a modern styling....4 years ago so not anymore :) I keep the old ones around for painting the house or whatever.

I think the leather orthopedics have fused with the shoe and have shrunk drastically, so if I try to remove them it'll kill the patient.

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[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You have the warmest lights in the land cast upon your newer foot things, it looks like a photo from the long ago which is a compliment.

Wiat who was approaching overweight is ̶s̶t̶a̶r̶v̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶d̶e̶a̶t̶h̶ not adjusting well to smaller portions and his food plate is hidden behind him. I guess it's true what they say: Big shoes, big pussy.

[–] over_clox@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

My feet are definitely not starving to death, I feed them pussy every day!

One of two things, which ever happens first. The tread wears and a part goes all the way to the sole or the tread wears and I fall down on the hill by work when it is raining or snowing.

[–] criticon@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago

I walk a lot and I use them until they are no longer comfortable to walk

I have flat feet and I usually wear down the soles in an angle and I start walking "funny", creating more issues.

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Usually until they physically fall apart or there are holes in the soles

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[–] Sludgeyy@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

These are the EVA birkenstock sandals

They ended up ripping through and not really usable anymore because the whole front flops.

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[–] SaneMartigan@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Work boots - Redback - until they split at the bridge and water gets in - ~4 years.

Runners - Asics Trail Running shoes - until the foam in the sole has worn down. 1500km (8km/day dog walking).

Crocks - Until they're fucked. Had them two years now.

Birkenstocks - Until they're fucked. Had them six years now. Self replacing the sole was a waste of time for me. I'll but another pair sometime but I only wear them a few months of the year.

RM Williams dress boots - Had them twenty years but rarely wear them. I got them in thrift. They're my suit shoes.

[–] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Here's the one on my right foot right now.

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[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

As long as I can is how long I wear mine out. At least until they start to become a real problem, like starting to really fall apart. If possible, that is. I just enjoy wearing my shoes to the max to ensure I get the most out of them.

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That looks like the Emerica G6 Wino slip-ons.

I wore those out in about a year just from walking. The bottom isn't very good, which is a shame, because they're otherwise very comfortable and durable.

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[–] Habahnow@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 months ago

Not this much, at least not daily. I have some old pairs that i use for doing things that I don't want my nicer shoes to do.

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