A few years ago I gushed in a DM to a dj/YouTuber who is the foundation of my music taste. I watched a ton of his hip-hop sample breakdowns when I was a kid
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The people who affected me the most did it in such way that I am grateful they are no longer part of my life. Can't thank myself enough for cutting any ties with them.
Every day, in my prayers.
Occasionally I’ll tell my wife thanks for marrying me. I’m a very gratitude-heavy sort of person. If I’m grateful, they’ll know it.
Unless they have a matching personality, showing a lot of gratitude can easily turn unattractive to most people, because it often comes from a position of insecurity... Have a sense of measure even for gratitude is what I'm saying (but this is very much like a patient advising the doctor, because I'm very gratitude-heavy myself).
Those who affect me most never affect me in a good way and don't deserve any thanks.
I never ask questions like this until I am satisfied with my own answer.