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As many others have already said, you are definitely not weird for it. If thats what you enjoy, don't let others take it from you just because they might consider it weird.
For me personally, I do both. Sometimes I listen to background music while doing other things. As someone said above, its like elevator music. However, for me it improves the mood for some tasks.
On the other hand, I sit down maybe three times a week just for listening to music. I fully follow the emotions and story of a song or album.
The music is quite different between these two modes. For the background music I just need some good tunes. When listening fully, the song must have a text I like or be a really good instrumental song. Then I also need the right song and order of songs depending on mood. Mostly it's a curated list from which i select song by song. If I hear a great song in background listening I add it to the list. Later I listen to a
more songs of the album or artist with full attention and add the ones I enjoy to my list. Funnily there are songs which then have so much meaning for me, I cannot listen to them in background anymore. Either I skip them or i put my full attention to them.
Both actually. BUT the type of music I listen to changes drastically depending on my activity.
Both. The distinction being when working I listen to albums or a stream, when listening only, it's by the song.
I have an over-active imagination and music stimulates it. Thereβs almost no time in which Iβm listening to music and not imagining some emotion-stirring scenario in my head.
I mostly listen to music whilst walking the doggy, and sometimes when doing chores around the house
Occasionally I have a random moment though of "it's music time" and just focus just on that
I used to do that all the time in my teenage years. I would buy a CD Album, go home, play it on my stereo, listen through the entire album while reading the lyrics or Look at the art in that little Booklet that came with the album.
Or i would just play an album, lie on my bed and just listen.
Nowadays i mostly listen to music while working or driving. I dont have a stereo and no space to have one. I would like to have a "music corner" it like Rob in High fidelity.
Yes, our main floor living room doesn't have a TV. Instead we have a piano, guitar, and high end speakers hooked up to a vinyl player with a collection that I'm constantly growing (probably to my wife's chagrin). It's my way of putting my phone out of reach and disconnecting for a minute while The Armed yells at me.
Depends how stoned I am
I do it. I miss having linear, defined "playlists" we used to call listening to an album. So, duh, you can still do it. I play curated playlists when I'm driving. If something catches my attention, I go to that song's album (please don't be a single, please don't be a single). If the album plays through well, I'll probably give it a go at home.
Granted, sitting still is not my strong suit, so it's not all that common. Video games are my main TV/couch thing if solo. I always have some other chore or project nagging me. But damn, is it relaxing to lightly hit a thc vape and play deadmau5
Sometimes but never in headphones. In the living room right in the stereo spot on the couch. Mostly I listen and do, but sometimes just listen.
I like to play games while I listen to music
I do the same, but with my turntable
Have to do something else. I mostly listen to new albums when doing cardio at the gym, or when playing multiplayer vidya.
Honestly, people judging how you consume anything is weird. Personally, i do the same as you, and i lay down to.listen to some music, and honestly, i've had the best musical experiences that way. Laid down, eyes closed. That way your imagination can go wild and sometimes (sometimes) cook you up some wild stuff xD But all in all? Extremely normal if you ask me.
All the time. Its wonderful.
I do it sometimes, but mainly for music I really enjoy or have a keen interest in. Technically I also did it for a music competition a few months ago but that probably doesn't count...
There is research on this btw! I had to dig a bit, but this is a 2011 research article (might be paywalled, I can try & help if anyone is really interested in) on why people (psych undergrads, but still) listen to music. They identified 6 mostly independent factors, one of which ("personal identity") may be more linked to ppl listening just for enjoyment; one of their experiments showed that 75.66% of participants listen to music as "background noise". So music as primary activity is probably relatively uncommon (but not non-existent). Funnily enough I rarely use music as background distraction these days
I do, since I have a dedicated listening setup, always have, even in small apartments.
Sometimes I read while listening. Usually I'm more engaged in the music.
Having an engaging stereo setup definitely helps. Am i sitting doing nothing listening on crappy airpods? Definitely not.
Also people saying its werid must be zoomers or alphas. This is literally how we have enjoyed music for the past century. Do they know what a typewriter is? Or even a desktop computer nowadays I suppose. Man.
I wouldn't say weird. You can enjoy your music however you want.
Personally i wouldn't be able to do it, having ADHD and sitting still doesn't really go together.
If you have adhd I suggest getting a good quality IEM or headphones. I can sit still and just listen to music if itβs layered and lush and have myself fully stimulated trying to piece everything.
I already have decent earphones, Marshall major IV. Just the hyperactivity part is generally too strong, neither do i have that much free time to spend it on just listening music. I can do that while working, combining multiple activities.
Same here. I think walking and listening to music also qualifies as "just listening to music" for me, and I find it quite easy and enjoyable. I don't think the sitting part is all that important, only the "just listen to music" part.
I thought that's exactly what we pretentious audiophiles do.
I mean, it wasnt uncommon that normal families just did this as well , thats why many of us always had good listening setups in the living room.
Now they are usually relegated to the basement and only listened to by crazy ol gramps.
I swear this is a reason for growing depression , among other things. Music is one of humanities strongest past times, and the majority of humans now dont give a shit and put it on as background noise with 0 care.
I blame parents.
I don't appreciate being called out like this
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Does vaping weed count as "doing something else"?
"I'm gonna vape instead of drink and play the same games"
[cuuuuhhhhh]
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About as much as "sitting in a comfy chair".
Converting ethanol into urea is one of my favorite activities
...you've made me realise I actually havent done this in so long
Yeah same. Time to grab the ole trusty Moody Blues
I βmetaltateβ several times a week. Dark room, closed eyes, focus on breathing, and headphones with black metal.
I think everyone should try to only listen, at least sometimes. We've been trained to need input constantly and we're not built for it. People can't just watch TV any more either, need more screens!
I agree. Music is as diverse as people. It's a good thing that sometimes I can use music to relax, and sometimes it gets me to looking into myself for some introspective. It lets me process my emotions, problems, and try to come out with a solution or just for cope.
One of my earliest memories of listening to music was in exactly this style.
Our family inherited a mobile trailer that was parked in our front yard for a while. I was a young kid and would use the trailer as βmy houseβ.
I distinctly remember plopping down a boombox on the βkitchen tableβ, which was just a fold out table with a chair on either side.
I popped in Dr. Dreβs Da Chronic into the cassette deck of the boombox and hit play. Listening to the whole album while sitting on the chair.
Fun times. Stop worrying about how other people consume entertainment and just do what feels good to you.
If I'm just a passenger in a vehicle, I don't mind sitting back and just listening to music. Otherwise, I'm so used to doing something else while listening that it feels kinda weird to not have it as background when I'm working, when appropriate.
Doing something as in having a coffee or not doing anything at all ? I'll have a coffee or a drink and listen, at most eat a light meal.
I'm weird in that I can't listen to music and do something else because I can't.. listen I mean, it's just noise in the background, like elevator music, so why bother? and listening while running, walking or cycling is beyond me as there's so much going on and you need so much situational awareness when engaged in those avtivities.
No I do this also
Thatβs not weird at all. Itβs very enjoyable.
For me listening to music and dancing are a joint experience. Setting still while listening feels offensive somehow. My body just kinda moves on is own.
I do, but not with headphones. If it's headphones, it's second to something else. If the activity is specifically listening to music, I'm doing it on the good speakers.
I do this if I get sleepy but it's too early to go to bed. Put my noice cancelling headphones on, close my eyes, and usually nod off.
I wish I could just meditate like you, but my mind is always racing if I'm not sleeping or focused on something.
I just think you're lucky to be able to tune everything out, not weird.
reading this thread made me realize why music visualizers were so popular
depends. I have music on like 90% of the time. Sometimes I like to put headphones or quality speakers on and close my eyes and really pay attention to the music. Otherwise it's daily activities or kareoke
I do this sometimes, especially when I am stressed out and just need time to relax and forget everything for a while by immersing myself in whatever I'm listening to. Same with just sitting on public transport. Sometimes, I just stare out the window, and everything I hear is just sound because I'm just in the moment. I'd otherwise be on my phone like everyone else.
No, you're not weird.