From your wishlist, I still think the ev conversion is the way to go.
A conversion will let you keep all of the non-smart features on your vehicle that you appreciate and will get you an electric F-150 while saving at least ~10000, maybe more. It used to be a lot more, although I'm not familiar with the rates these days.
Some garages are model-specific too, so you might get a much better quote with the conversion from one that specializes in Ford pickups than one that specializes in VW bugs.
Have you received many quotes or just the one 40k price?
