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A lot of people kiss their pets or non-human animals in general. I find that very weird. I understand that it is a sign of affection but it seems so off. One reason is that I doubt whether animals really understand this. Also it seems to be on a level of intimacy to me that I find weird sharing with a pet. Not necessarily romantically or sexually (that would be even more weird and wrong and probably illegal). But it is still "more". I am not sure whether I can really explain why exactly I find that weird.

Anyway, what is something that is weird to you but not to most other people?

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[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I agree that dogs and cats likely can't understatd what a kiss is; however, there is still affection being communicated just by the closeness. I think they see it as clumsy nuzzling.

I can't think of anything I find weird. People do things that people do.

[–] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

Dogs kiss other dogs and people as a sign of affection. They know exactly what it is.

[–] ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I think they assume we humans are just really shit at grooming. Like they are thinking "this giant hairless ape is terrible at grooming! Stop pecking like a damn bird and give a big ol' lick! No wonder they frequently have to stand under water to clean themselves. Poor dumb weirdo species".

But yes, they are still affectionate towards us. Pets licking is a sign of affection and bonding. I'm pretty sure I'm many cases there's a good degree of 'pity affection' though.

[–] breezeblock@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Many animals groom each other with their mouths. I guarantee dogs and cats know exactly what they’re doing when they lick you. And they understand exactly what you’re doing in return.

I don’t kiss my dog, but I definitely put my face close to theirs. I don’t recommend putting mammal fur in your actual mouth, but they know that that means.

[–] mavu@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago (9 children)

When you say something simple and someone else attacks you over some imaginary meaning or intent. Neurotypical people are unwell.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

Not really a neurotypical problem, nice insult though very cool

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[–] SnarkoPolo@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

Voting for policies that are directly opposed to their best interests.

[–] early_riser@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

I love my doggo and give him kisses regularly. If he weren't such a twitcher I'd let him in bed with me. I get it's a cultural thing. I was in a group of Lebanese people and got a big kiss on the cheek by an old lady I barely new after the briefest of polite conversations. I normally would not allow it because I have a very very strong sense of personal space, but I understood her intent.

Some people think dogs are "unclean" and find the idea of letting a dog share your bed to be weird. I find dogs to be furry little serotonin factories. I'll even say thank you when a dog lets me rub his belly. Dogs are uncomplicated creatures. Their concept of love and trust aren't very deep, but they are there, and I'm happy to foster them.

[–] paranoid@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

People who give their cars a human name. "Jack got a flat tire" or "I need to get Petunia an oil change"

Don't get me wrong, I certainly have had unique names for my car - "The White Wonder", "The Papa Mobile", "The truck" - but something about using human names is important to the people who do this, and I just don't get it.

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[–] 10thGlyphix@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 month ago (4 children)

This monster really is going to kill everything isnt he. I dont buy the narrative of Christianity. But the people involved in writing it may have had some clairvoancy. They said that christans would admire, and follow the Anti-Christ no matter what he does. If anyone fits the antichrist character, it's The Mad King: Agent Orange.

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