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[–] gajahmada@awful.systems 4 points 21 hours ago

Guthrie Govan

His picking technique in particular.

For those who didn't play guitar, if you search him in YT most of his video are of him playing to a backing track and just do an improvised performance on the spot.

Most agreed and regards him as one of the best. You'll find the "Jesus/God" or "Gandalf" jokes thrown because of his mastery of the instrument.

Unfortunately (for me personally), the man is reluctant to spotlight. He is a private person and seems to didn't enjoy interview. So a "clinic"/lesson type content by him is far and few between.

I've been studying his right hand for years, and it still boggle the mind. If you watched the video I linked and watched it at like 35% speed, you can kinda see how he make decisions in the moment and it make sense, but at full speed ? WTF

[–] bumbling_bee@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Currently learning tech stuff to improve digital privacy. Not to a totally anonymous level, but better than completely oblivious. Attempting not to annoy my family with digital security info dumps. Finally found time to install Linux on an old laptop to mess around with. Also trying to find online communities via decentralised platforms because I deleted everything Meta. Neurodivergent safe spaces are the one thing I miss, so if anyone has any suggestions to check out please let me know.

I’m still hyper focused on reading, this is a life long thing.

This month my intense fixation is learning about GrapheneOS and looking at Pixel phones so I can mess around with that. Then I had to dive into researching Garmin watches because I rely on my Apple Watch a lot to keep daily life functioning (hello time blindness 😂).

[–] CrabAndBroom@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I am in this rabbit hole too! I recently discovered that 3/5 of my external drives are still using inferior LUKS1 encryption instead of LUKS2 so I have to figure that out. Also I just got a yubikey and set it up with challenge-response so now my laptop needs the yubikey inserted, and a password and you have to press the button on the yubikey to unlock it.

All of this is very unnecessary because I have no data that is of any use to anyone else, it's just become a fun project to see how locked-down I can make my laptop.

Edit: also posting this from my phone running GrapheneOS lol

[–] bumbling_bee@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Unnecessary but fun, same here. Literally no one would gain anything interesting by hacking into my laptop. Maybe they’ll learn that I’m autistic af then run away scared from the evidence of adhd hyper fixations that have been loved, then abandoned? Yubikey is on my list to explore. Then there’s the whole self hosting rabbit hole. So much to see, so little time.

How are you liking your GrapheneOS phone? Which one did you get? I’m eyeing a pixel 10 pro.

[–] CrabAndBroom@lemmy.ml 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I have a pixel 8 pro currently, but I was running it on a 4a before that. It's a bit of a trade-off, you get more privacy obviously and some more manual control over stuff, but also you lose some convenience. I'm kind of used to it now though.

It also depends on how deep you want to go with de-googling and stuff too. Currently I'm trying to avoid Google as much as possible (which sounds weird to say when using a Google Pixel lol) so I'm using things like Aurora Store and Obtainium as app stores.

[–] bumbling_bee@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I’ve already degoogled, I’m on an iPhone 15 pro and have mostly deappled as well. Only iCloud remaining, because I can’t decide which alternative to go with. Ente probably, I mainly use it for photos. I just keep reading all the threads I can find on Pixel/GOS. I think the only hesitation I have left is the camera quality. I read mixed opinions. At first I was horrified at having to buy a Google phone in order to degoogle, but I’ve come round to finding it kinda funny that it can be done!

[–] CrabAndBroom@lemmy.ml 2 points 8 hours ago

I also got mine refurbished, so that way Google presumably doesn't get any money from me, at least not directly.

[–] NakedNateRollerSkate@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We are the same person. I recently discovered Michael Bazzell's book Extreme Privacy back in February and going through all 600 pages methodically has been my personality for the past few months. That book is an incredible feat.

[–] bumbling_bee@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

I have the book! I am currently waiting on my new prescription reading glasses so I can bloody well read it 😡. I lost my reading glasses in December. Wanting to read this book finally moved me from denial into making an eye test appointment 🙄🤦‍♀️

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 5 points 1 day ago

I am working on a 3D simulation asset for making footprints onto surfaces, for a client, in Blender.
I'm rather new to the simulation world, and although it seemed simple at first, the more I explore the more complex it gets. The client needs it for a handful of shots where two dinos are walking on a beach, so the deformation must look like that of sand in the end, and unfortunately I can't rely on more sophisticated physics techniques such as MPM (material point method) because Blender doesn't have them. Simply moving vertices like I'm doing is also a simpler approximation, more adequate to solve this simple problem unless you're Industrial Light and Magic.

So at each simulation step I need to raycast against the dino geometry to make the footprints per se (simple), then I need to track the amount of material that is being displaced by the dino feet and move the surrounding material up by the same amount, to create that bulge (less simple). It's relatively incompressible material is why. The animation being imperfect (talons accidentally penetrating the ground inbetween steps) means I also have to detect and discard those interactions.

I have trouble letting go of a problem once I've started working on it so here I am, laying in my bed, thinking about the next steps...

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not much I can say about my latest readdiction to Mindustry that isn't pretty basic stuff. I suck at the game, so my strategy is basically "random bull go!" at various points and hope I am good. My conveyor management isn't the best, so it's an absolute mess that would make a lot of people cry. Same with how I do factory and power management. Wouldn't put up any videos because it would make people generally angry. Basically the same reason I don't show my cable management.

As for my very on and off furry obsession that is becoming more on than off, I have been playing through New Super Lucky's Tale. I really like how simple yet charming the main character design is. Got to the 2nd hubworld. Pretty good platformer. Combines my all time favorite game genre with anthro animals, so I approve wholeheartedly! Been thinking of getting the full release of KilaFlow, which is furry adjacent enough for me to have played and LOVED the demo! It's a fast paced 3D precision platformer where you have to replay the levels multiple times if you want all the level clear rewards. Has a computer theme because it's basically you being a program written to clean up infected files in the form of animal like creatures.

I have nothing new to show on the music or Linux front other than I have been recently obsessed with a CD I got last month. Artist is KZlivetune and the CD album is と. It features various artists instead of livetune themselves singing, similar to Zedd never singing himself AFAIK. Is currently the album I consider to be my crown jewel.

[–] Lilium@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Mindustry is fun! I haven't played in a while, though. Protip: Ctrl+click a router :)

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Tell you what. These are my hyperfixations by decade of life:

  1. Stargate SG1
  2. Anatomy and Physiology, Psychology, and Sociology of Sex
  3. Violence Prevention and Management in Psychiatry (actually became enough of an expert in this to teach)
  4. Esoteric Spiritual Practices including Tarot, Astrology, and Tea Leaf reading.

AMA, LOL

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

i dont have high hopes for the new sg series, consider what they done with the current amazon ip shows, BOYZ had a really bad final season, plus invincible glaringly obvious animation decay+ spending all thier budget on expensive VAs. i started getting fixated sg clips, and some of the sgu episodes i have been rewatching from an obscure channels. i notice youtube caught on to some of these videos once people started rewatching the show. i felt the budget for amazon shows got sucked up by ROP

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 3 points 21 hours ago

idk how to respond to this other than yeah it's probably gonna suck. Tbh I wouldn't WANT them to go big budget and especially not cinematic; a big draw of Stargate was that people who have worked or lived in similar institutional settings are like,"yup that's the vibe!" and Amazon will probably drag things out they shouldn't just for the extra draaama.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

So I got interested in Tarot, coming at it from the opposite direction of learning that modern playing cards derived from them from my days of playing Magic: the Gathering and learning the phrase "Swords to Plowshares" is how we have Spades and not swords, but you still "cut" the book when playing spades as a trump suit in the card game.

So after that random run-on bit of origin, do you know of any card games that use the full 78 card Tarot deck? I've looked into it here and there, but never anything significant.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

They're mostly trick taking games similar to spades or hearts and there's very few apps to get into them that aren't in Italian or French let alone any local groups to learn that aren't in France or Italy.

I've been trying to develop a solitaire game that uses the star chart of a chosen date-time/location as the board but I'm having difficulty working out the core mechanic of the 12 point solitaire game let alone the sign/house/planet modifiers.

~~And before you mention clock solitaire there's basically no actual choice in that game all of the moves are purely determined by the state dealt at the beginning.~~

Actually now I'm wondering if that's the best uncomplicated base mechanic and the other items will just modify it such that the game is consistently winnable.

If anyone has any good thoughts on game design my other thoughts were:

clock solitaire assigns piles by number, kings in the middle. A tarot deck also has a full set of trumps. So I'm thinking split the clock into signs and assign piles by the element of their sign. So for instance the cardinal sign's pile will build pips down from the five, the fixed's pile will build pips down from the ten and the mutable's pile will build courts down from the king. Trumps can go in the middle (and as a bonus your deck is sorted when you're done).

(Actually I haven't decided whether sign or house is the part that determines pile I'm leaning towards sign right now but I've flip flopped like three times in this comment so)

Other misc thoughts:

  • as mentioned, pure clock solitaire is not consistently winnable due to the deterministic nature of it's play. All moves from beginning to end are purely a result of the original deal. It's the arrangement of the houses and planets in your chosen date -time/location that will add extra powers top make it winnable. This is similar to a Minecraft seed. The board arrangement will always be the same if you pick your birthday, the card locations will just change.

  • what sign and planet show up in each house should affect gameplay. Haven't decided on what yet.

  • I would also really like choosing a court or face trump as a signifier card for the player or players to mean something.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 23 hours ago

my off and on fixation, is mycoheterotrophic plants(full) of various orders and family, how they evolve when they diverged. especially thier extreme ephemeral nature and rarity.

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

(This is a really cool thread OP, thanks for this - favourited!)

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 3 points 1 day ago

yea I think this is a great idea too

[–] biggerbogboy@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My hyperfixated interests tend to be about technology in general, and adjacent to that, ive recently started watching around 7 episodes of Star Trek (currently on the 1st season of The Original Series), and plan to keep watching it for a long while.

My previous fixation lasted 7 months straight, and it was obsessively researching into computer memory architectures, mainly the unified and universal memory architectures. I haven’t even become bored of it yet, it’s just something I research less in now since I did it so thoroughly that I might need a break haha.

Ive also had another one that started around 10 months ago, around the same one as the memory architecture one, but is still going, and it’s about diving into how my mind works and how I can make things easier for myself (as well as find more evidence of me being neurodivergent, which has been very successful). Ive found that I’m very likely AuDHD (if you haven’t already realised from the previous statements), and I’ve been tying in many factors, including daily behaviours, a concussion I had 3 years and 3 days ago, etc, and have compiled it into a shit ton of digital notes.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 23 hours ago

im very partial to the most recent oldtrek, enterprise. Nutrek just sucks balls all around.(besides the animated ones)

[–] AMoralNihilist@feddit.uk 40 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Its 100% worth it to clean and regrease the bearings in your bike's axles (if they are open bearing). And it's really not a hugely intensive process.

I've been going down a massive rabbit hole of bicycle stuff, and it's really similar to the older days of pc building, lots of possibilities for upgrades, lots of brands, compatibility is pretty wide but also needs to be paid attention to.

It's loads of fun.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago (5 children)

it's really similar to the older days of pc building

I assume that means someone will come along and enshittify it sooner or later

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago

they are succeeding in the space of ebikes over here.

[–] dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Believe me, companies are already trying. It's an uphill battle, though. This is actually one of the few triumphs for consumers in this regard, really.

Thanks to the French the components of bicycles have become remarkably standardized and interchangeable and have been for probably more than a hundred years by now. Every few years like clockwork some idiot C suite denizen at a startup bicycle company decides they ought to invent their own tire valve, or their own seat post, or their own derailleur mount, or their own handlebar stem size, or whatever the hell else because they're salivating at the prospect of "lock in," and they all think they're the first genius to think of it. The market resoundingly ignores them, they go bankrupt and implode, and we all laugh. Rinse, repeat.

Things are starting to backslide with electric bicycles, though. Motherfuckers are insisting on using proprietary plugs and connectors, battery interfaces, etc., and most especially apps as every goddamn e-bike apparently feels the need to be app connected now for some reason. In that space in specifically some manufacturers are getting away with it.

[–] lemeteque@slrpnk.net 1 points 22 hours ago

Any ebike brand or system you recommend? Mostly to be without app

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago

The backsliding can only go so far until consumers get fed up and invent their own solutions.

Batteries aren't hard tech. Open up any bike battery case and it's just a string of 18650 cells strung together with a BMS chip. All highly replaceable.

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[–] AstroLightz@lemmy.world 36 points 2 days ago (2 children)

When writing BASH scripts:

  • The .sh extension isn't necessary.
  • Using /usr/bin/env bash is better than /bin/bash as not everyone has their bash located in bin.
  • Try to use local variables when you can. If you use global variables that won't be used anywhere else, unset them at the end of your script.
  • Don't use set -euo pipefail. It will only cause more issues down the road.
  • Functions are your friend. If your repeating code, put it in a function.

These are some of the tips I learned while learning bash.

[–] TechLich@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

If writing a lot of bash scripts, I really recommend shellcheck. It's a linter for bash that gives a lot of good advice and points out common issues/inefficiencies and errors. There's plugins for most editors or you can just run it in a terminal. I also like that it has good documentation that tells you why something might be wrong or inadvisable.

https://github.com/koalaman/shellcheck

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 6 points 1 day ago

Don’t use set -euo pipefail. It will only cause more issues down the road.

Wait why? It's dangerous if the script silently fails surely.

Also a cool tip

(
   Long Code here 
   You want to track
) | tee -a log.txt   
[–] isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm working to set up my new workshop. We moved into a new house a few months ago, and I'm finally getting to setting up the shop in earnest.

I'm setting up the shop in a 3 car garage. The garage has a one car bay and a two car bay. I want to be able to actually park a car in the one car bay. So I built a large wall separating the two bays. The wall covers probably 2/3 of the width. The rest will be covered by a curtain. The two car bay will be the actual woodshop area. The one car bay will be a place to park a car and will serve as a finishing space. The wall and curtain will keep sawdust contained within the two car bay. The wall also serves as a tool wall. Here's what the wall currently looks like:

From the other side:

The wall is about 10' wide and 12' high.

In my old shop I had even more on the wall. But I'm trying out moving most of my bladed tools into a tool chest. I was going to build one, but I found this old steamer trunk by the side of the road. From the manifest glued to the back it looks like it was used by an air force airman in the 1980s to ship things home from Japan. I'll be using it as a tool chest. I wanted to put wheels on it. But as it's a bit of an artifact I didn't want to actually modify the trunk itself or drill into. Instead I built a little cart for it to roll around on.

After I finish here, the last big step in setting up the shop will be installing the dust collection system. And I went overboard on this. This is very much a dream shop setup I'm building out. Currently in a bunch of boxes strewn about the shop is an entire Oneida Dust Gorilla and a network of piping to service the various machines.

[–] CelloMike@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I so wish I had a garage...

My workshop is in a (former) bedroom in a smallish UK terrace house and it's so hard to keep the dust contained, and impossible to work with full sheet materials

Looking fab so far!

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 3 points 1 day ago

Mate I do sometimes wish I was American, or at least lived out in the country, just for the sake of S P A C E!

I love my little terraced house, but my little shed can't hold that much and I want a workshop for my electronics

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[–] moondoggie@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I’m getting hyperfixated on each one of these answers and it’s quite a shock to go to the next one. “Wait. How is a BASH script supposed to help build a garage workshop?”

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 24 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Norwegian train car designation shorthand (incomplete).

B: Class B (which is the only class these days. So, meaning passenger seats)
M: Motorized (implies S. See below)
S: Steering capability
L: cargo space ("Lasterom")
C: Special capability of some sort, such as wheelchair ramp.
MU: Motorized car without driver capability (As in M without S)
P: Car with a pantagraph
R: Restaurant/bistro

So, for example, type 92 is a small set consisting of only two cars: A BM and a BS. Both cars have seating, the train can be controlled from both ends, but only one of them has a motor.

T93 is similar in layout.

T74 and T75 are both five-car trains, and I don't remember all of the cars, but I remember the middle of them is called BCMU or something like that.

The older T3 trains (now retired, I think), has a car designated LCR (or a different order), which means cargo space, food service, and some sort of special amenities that I never figured out. This train type also had class A with seating of a higher comfort level.

All of these types are printed on the side, usually next to a number, which is an internal serial number. So a 9214BM* means "Type 92, number 14, motor carriage (with passenger seating)".

*: I don't remember the exact syntax, but it's something like that.

EDIT: Un-fun fact I just realized long after using 9214 as an example above: It doesn'texist anymore.

[–] early_riser@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago (3 children)

My latest constructed language, Hearthsider (just started this week). None of this will make sense but here we go:

Verbs are a closed class. To form complete sentences you use an equivalent of "do", plus a verbal noun phrase. This noun phrase can have determiners such as articles attached to them, which indicate things like whether the action was performed only once, repeatedly, etc. To say "X verbs Y", it would translate literally to "X does Y a verb". Plurality will likely not be indicated on nouns but will be in articles.

rMl   t  qb  b sBsb    zGK
Light do 2sg a  shine  friend

"Light shine upon you, friend!"

This is a fairly common greeting crosslinguically, so I have translations in my other two conlangs:

Outlander:

sg Bqqbsd rkr PLr
sg      Bqqb-sd        PLr
2sg.AMI illuminate-OBJ light

Commonthroat:

L   rLPq-p      BCq-b         sFsF-qn
OPT light-3D    illuminate-NA friend-2

Here are the gloss abbreviations:

2sg = 2nd person singular pronoun
OPT = optative modal
2sg.AMI = 2nd person singular amicable pronoun
-OBJ = Object focus/trigger suffix
-3D = 3rd person distal noun suffix
-NA = Nonauthoritative verbal mood
-2 = 2nd person noun suffix

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It's not salt that hardens pulses (beans, lentils etc.), it's acid. Salt your beans from the start, they'll taste better. Also, most beans dont need to be soaked first, just cook them longer or start them hard for 20 mins then turn down the heat. Chickpeas, however, need to be soaked, unless you cook them with baking soda. But then you lose out on the aquafaba, so I say soak em.

[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I've been reading up on the Salem witch trials for a personal project, and have listened to 3 separate audio books on them (In the Devil's Snare, The Witches, and A Delusion of Satan).

The similarities to today are more than I imagined. But the similarities between Reverend Parris--the original instigator, and the mouthpiece for the trials--and Donald Trump are unreal. Descriptions of both sound pretty much identical. Unlike The Crucible depicts he was not sidelined, or made a reluctant participant.

Description of Parris (2/3 books were released before 2016):

  • Received a large inheritance from his father, but a failed merchant and businessman in both Barbados and New England.
  • Considered charming, well-spoken, and handsome--educated and likely acquainted with the theater. Dropped out of Harvard.
  • His wife, Elizabeth Parris was widely considered one of the most beautiful women in the area.
  • Deeply fixated on status, and compensation. Puritans generally considered material luxuries sinful. Salem Village was an offshoot from Salem Town, of the most pious members, and Parris was the first ordained minster.
  • His hiring, and tenure were deeply divisive, and hiring done behind closed doors. Most communities hired their ministers very openly.
  • some of his biggest supporters was an influential family who made 60 separate accusations, all against political or personal rivals. The father, Thomas Putnam, was involved in hiring him. The 2 girls, Anne and Mercy Lewis, and also Anne Sr. were some of the central afflicted, and they were all highly educated and intelligent enough to manipulate people, and coordinate.
  • Hired with irregular demands, including ownership of the parsonage (minister's home), and an unusually high salary.
  • Constantly feuded with his congregation and named people in sermons. Generally who hadn't contributed, paid respect, or attended church, and who opposed him. There were a lot of sermons.
  • Encouraged feuds and factions even before 1692, and actively stoked fears and paranoia during the accusations, hearings, and trials.
  • Granted irregular legal powers and authority to make arrests by the Governor. Supported the use of spectral evidence (ghost stories).
  • Never admitted any fault.
[–] JerryMerweather@piefed.social 7 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I am planning to make a post on this to read peoples opinion.

Anyway...
Not hyperfixated on it but I have been thinking about how common sexualization/pornification has become, especially on women.

It raises beauty standard to unrealistic levels, and usually makes people be ashamed of their bodies.

I have also been thinking about sexual assualts . Most victims are usually young girls and women.

Male victims are ignored, as if trauma wasnt a thing that everyone no matter the gender experiences in such crimes.

It is unfortunate that female victims usually have more consequences than male victims when it comes to sexual assualts. (They risk getting pregnant.)

The fact that porn(mostly consumed by males), movies, anime, and other forms of visual media are usually optimized( hypersexualized ) for "the male gaze".

Not mentioning the dark industry behind it that only encourages sex trafficking of innocent souls.

It makes me disgusted, am I dirty for being a male?
Why are males generally more focused on physical appearance than women?
Why is the male gaze > female gaze??

I dont know, makes me feel disgusted and ashamed of myself sometimes.

Perhaps I owe women an apology on behalf of all of the mess some men are doing.

I do realize that I am generalizing alot, and there are flaws in this thought, but I cant get it out of my head.
It's also one of the reasons that encouraged me to escape porn and the dark industry behind it

[–] bumbling_bee@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

I wish more men would have this conversation. I’m raising 5 sons and I decided early on to have some really blunt, uncomfortable conversations with them (age appropriate of course), to combat this. It’s worked, as far as I know. One kid, now adult, sometimes struggles with it. Porn, and toxic masculinity traits. But he talks about it openly and actively combats it.

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I do sometimes weirdly look at mormon's or other religious groups who practice abstinence and think they might have the right idea.

Porn addiction is real, and it does set unrealistic standards on what men think women are, and debases them implicitly.

I've been touch free for about 2 months now, and my intimacy and satisfaction during sex with my partner has improved dramatically. She's stunning, but I had to literally quit porn to not take her for granted.

[–] bumbling_bee@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

You quit porn to show respect for your partner! Congrats. As a woman, whose ex husband was addicted to porn, what you did is commendable. This wasn’t the sole reason he earned the title of ex husband, but it was a massive contributing factor.

My guy that is amazing!!!

Thanks for sharing, I have escaped from porn, but I have yet to stop touching myself.

Good to know things are going well for you. 🤍

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

porn and the manosphere has made masculinity super toxic, toxic masculinity probably has its origin in porn too. not only getting pregnant, but SA, and POTENTIALLY getting maimed is pretty much out there.

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[–] Soulifix@piefed.world 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm revisiting a project where, I'm trying to subtract vocals off of an old radio talk show I still listen to religiously. They use techno music from DI.FM in the 2000s and the reason I still listen to the episodes at all is because of what music is used. It's a hard project to do because, first off, I have to find something to remove 'vocals' (in other words, the hosts talking in the show) and not only that, it is mostly mono. That's why it's difficult to do.

And someone before, when I was last on the Lemmy platform, was kind enough to DM me and ask if I sent audio snippets of the show so he can identify what tracks that was played. Since he claimed he had some archive of many tracks from that period. Problem is, I didn't go through with it because this show would be considered incredibly politically incorrect, moreso by today's standards and I don't want to go through the trouble of being asked about 'what the fuck is wrong with you' in regards to the content.

Like, I'd like to stop listening to it too, least at the rate I'm listening it. But until I have those episodes where the talking is removed, only then will I begin trying to splice and upload pieces to see what people can identify for me.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Are you able to isolate the vocals? If so, invert the phase, and then subtract the result from the original recording.

As for isolating the vocals, I'd wager that it is panned to the center, so if you manage to isolate anything with a perfect 50/50 left/right split, what you'll have should be the vocals. Use that as a subtractor, and the end result should be most of the music. Yes, the music probably also has something panned to the center, which you would lose in this process, but maybe it's good enough for someone to recognize the track.

[–] rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

The phase inversion trick can't be used with mono tracks, nor can other tricks that use the stereo field.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 9 points 2 days ago

I turned my hyper fixation into lemmy communities! You can too!

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