Guess that's why Europe has built defences against immigrants, and many European countries straight up rejected to accept them? And that's why right-wingers with their anti-immigration policies win over more and more votes?
My point is, this is one of the consequences that comes with national identity. For some, it's just unfair preference of "their" people and things, for others, it's nationalism and xenophobia.
Blocking "disinformation" is also a slippery slope towards autocracy. Y'know, Russia did the same back in the day. I understand that it feels like a necessity amidst hybrid wars, but it's bound to be problematic down the road.
Immigration being seen as a weapon has always bewildered me. If people come to your country, commonly running away from famine and war, and you see them as nothing but a weapon, something is seriously wrong. I am aware some countries like Finland are already fairly filled with immigrants, but Europe could use some more cooperation to solve this.
To my perspective, Russian government was not the bad one, it was a rival, as in yet another place being run by shitheads. Funnily enough, 1991-2000 was actually the time when liberties coming from Perestroika were tanked again, the country was destroyed against people's will, and wild privatization combined with corruption has left millions in deep poverty and famine; crime arose. People had their homeland taken away from them before they could react, and they were intentionally kept clueless on what was going on. But it was also the time when Russia had better relations with Europe and the US, which is why this period is seen as "Russia being good".
Removing all governments overnight is not feasible indeed. But we should admit the harms patriotic and, as a radical extension, nationalist models cause to society at large and our global cooperation, we should own up to what it means to hostility, warfare, and breeding idiots who make it worse for all of us. Every time someone tries to instill patriotic feelings within the population, they just want to make us more controllable and divided. We shouldn't let them. And as an extension of that, we should advocate for direct democracy and gradual dissolution of government as a main controlling entity.
This doesn't mean, however, that you can't praise certain decisions made by your government. They can be objectively good!