AnarchistArtificer

Good for the fired employees. It sucks that they were fired, but by resisting, they escaped the wrong side of history. Symbolic gestures like this matter

Hedgehogs are far less common than they used to be, unfortunately. I haven't seen one for years. A friend who lives in a more suburban area has one living under their shed, and she (the hedgehog) is such a creature of routine that my friend's family will often gather near the window to watch her potter around on her nightly walk

Compost the rich

He's the philosopher of choice for people like Peter Thiel and JD Vance. He advocates for moving to a neofeudalist system, arguing that democracy is a failed project. Beyond this, he holds some truly repugnant views that are woven throughout his ideology

I second the sentiment. You and other frequent posters of delightful posts help this place to feel more like a community. It's also nice because you make me reflect on my own online presence in a manner that provides a positive pressure to be the kind of person I value in my community; I see usernames like yours crop up again and again, and when I find myself noticing that organically, it makes me wonder what kinds of patterns people notice across my own comments — it's introspective, but in a good way

That reminds me of the kind of thing I do when I get off topic and forget what I was saying. I'll say "what were we talking about before this?", and given that my conversation partner has a decent chance of also being ADHD, we often end up remembering the thing that was a few topics back, and then tracing forward from there.

It helps to retrace your steps in the conversation, I've found. It can also be helpful for helping me to remember the broader shape of my argument, if these topics being strung together is actually getting at a larger point

I might try that. I've not heard about sugar waxing before

A friend was telling me earlier about how they met someone at a local BDSM munch who they seem likely to hook up with, but they are being extra mindful about ensuring it's safe, given that they have far more experience in this domain than their prospective partner; this is the perfect meme to send to them

The ladder that starts at Chipotle is not one that leads to work in the field you studied for. College graduates who are struggling to find jobs would relish the opportunity to work up the ladder in their field, but there are insufficient entry level jobs.

This is one of the examples that came to mind for me when it comes to 'mixture of both'.

I have a bunch of disabilities that are nowhere near the scale that you describe, but often I feel so demoralised by how hard it is to exist as a disabled person that I want to die. But my resistance is galvanised by knowing that the people and the systems that would most benefit from my death are the ones who are making things harder for me, and people like me. Is it sustainable to continue living out of spite? Probably not, but it's not just spite that keeps me going, but solidarity with other disabled people, and people who are marginalised by society in other ways too.

It sucks to be disabled. Even if society were radically different and far kinder than it currently is, it would still suck to be disabled. However, so much of my suffering is based in the world rather than my disability. Recently, for example, I had a meltdown because I was on holiday and the venue had described itself as being wheelchair accessible. It was not. When I complained that they shouldn't list this as being the case if they're not, this caused great offence. We found somewhere else to stay that night, and I later broke down at how fucked up it is that there's more social stigma around being thought of as ableist than actually being ableist. Travelling with mobility problems is hard, but it would be way easier if there were less "compassion theatre", where people want to appear accepting but are so deeply uncomfortable with thinking about disability and disabled people that they don't meaningfully engage with accessibility issues.

My theory is that disability makes people feel uncomfortable because it reminds them of their own mortality. Being able-bodied is a temporary state, and that scares people. It means that a person like me merely existing at all is an act of rebellion and activism. I deeply wish that this weren't so, because it's so much work on top of the additional effort it takes to exist with a broken body, but besides dying, I can't really opt out of that work — and if I did opt out in that manner, the work would still need to be done by the people who are just as tired and burnt out as I am. If being alive is an act of resistance, then I reckon that if I hold out as long as I can, I might be able to make the journey a little easier for those around me, or those who come after me. If I had to answer your question with respect to my current circumstances, I'd say that no, I don't want to live. But I do anyway, out of defiance.

I reckon the same logic would resonate with me even if my needs were more significant. Hell, part of what led me to develop the views I currently hold is by being in community with disabled people whose lived experience is not far from what you describe. I have a lot more in common with them than it might seem at first glance, and that understanding gave me a lot of strength. It may well be a foolish hope, but if enough people push for change, then maybe we can build a world where fewer disabled people feel that death is preferable to life.

Here's an image that captures my sentiment effectively, and has literally saved my life before: "I'm fucking fed up and tired and I want to die but living is the most punk shit I've ever fucking done"

Something I love about this piece is that it being written by a person who cares deeply about stuff means that I now have a positive opinion towards the two places linked as being good places for recipes ([https://www.theguardian.com/profile/meera-sodha](http://www.meera.com/ Sodha) and Smitten Kitchen). I'm going to promptly forget about them, because I'm not the kind of cook who uses recipes, but still, it's striking to me how transferable caring about stuff is. I don't know the author of this blog, but based on this post (and the zippity-fast speed that their website loads), I'm positively inclined towards them, because I am a silly human, and that means I am a deeply social creature.