LongLive

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[–] LongLive@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago (6 children)

What are these?

[–] LongLive@lemmy.world 18 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

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[–] LongLive@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

I am writing this with the intent to understand.

Could it be possible that you are feeling that such comments are demands directed towards you/others, which are posted with the sole aim to appear better by pushing others under?

I have experienced such a thought and negative emotional reaction, maybe you are going through something similar?

If so, I share the following in hopes to aid.

When I get "caught up" in such thoughts and I feel hurt, I add missing nuance from their post/comment myself (internally) until I feel that they could be acting in good faith.

Otherwise, I ignore them on the basis that they aren't participating in conversation during which I would clearly understand them, which is sufficient (subjective opinion) justification to disengage and proceed.

[–] LongLive@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I think this isn't the ideal community to spread awareness about this. Not in this format.

"Don't send the widow of a skii patroller a snowboard" - Ghandi

.... or some related quote.