PvpiChulo

joined 4 months ago
[–] PvpiChulo@lemmy.today 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Something in-between I'd say. When I'm doing it, it's an automatism. When I don't, I feel kinda uncomfortable and I have to do it. Also, sometimes I rub one out just to feel kinda normal again (for another, let's say, hour) and not have to crave it. I'm doing it not out of pleasure, but out of I don't even know what at this point.

Tho I'm pretty sure that we're not the only ones fiddling around, so it's chill... I think haha.

[–] PvpiChulo@lemmy.today 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

I agree 100% with you. But I must admit, I abuse it and it's an actual problem. It has affected me mentally and physically (won't get into much detail here, but I get pretty bad withdrawals after masturbating at times, more often than not I physically feel uncomfortable if I'm not touching myself, even if the activity that I'm doing is not sexually arousing in any way, I am tired everyday all the day etc). I don't have a problem with the act itself, but with the addiction. It's a problem that I'm willing to solve tho.

[–] PvpiChulo@lemmy.today 2 points 1 week ago (6 children)

It is, kinda, the case. More than that, I sometimes start to feel physically uncomfortable if I'm not touching myself or even doing it as a background activity while my main one doesn't even arouse me sexually (like watching some NBA clips). I'm in my early to mid 20's.

[–] PvpiChulo@lemmy.today 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

HAHAHA MAN YOU'RE SO FUNNYYYYYYYYYYY

bro, you're not, you're silly at best, and not in a good way

[–] PvpiChulo@lemmy.today 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

sure thing it is, but, to be Frank with you, I am doing it waaaay too much, and it has affected me mentally (in other words, it's a problem with a history, which I haven't addressed yet, but should've quite a while ago)

[–] PvpiChulo@lemmy.today 0 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Fair point. The thing is that it has gotten pretty bad with time, and has affected me mentally just as much (low self-esteem, anxiety when going outside and a few others). All I want to do for now is get rid of the addiction itself, not the act. I can obviously allow myself to do it from time to time, as long as it's healthy.

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