We have the option. If you get married you can get married in '(beperkte) gemeenschap van goederen', which means 'what's mine is yours'. Caveat is that anything you owned before you got married will not be taken into account.
Then there's 'huwelijkse voorwaarden' which means 'what's mine is mine'.
I didn't get married for the love or the religious reasons, it's just way easier when you buy a house together. Now, if I die, all my stuff automatically belongs to my wife.
We got married on a Tuesday morning at the municipal building at 8:30 making it free. The only thing we spent money on was the rings.
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You can run nginx in a docker container and define reverse proxies there. That will only require your to open up 443 in your router if you use SSL (which I highly recommend and is simple with Let's Encrypt)
Then I'd recommend connecting to your arrs and torrent client in Nzb360 paid edition to manage everything in there.
As far as safety, well nothing is bulletproof. If they want to get in, they will. Best thing I can recommend is to run your arrs / indexers through a different IP address than your torrent client. But if they want to find you, they'll find you. Thing is they probably won't come after you if your ISP doesn't report you uploading terabytes a day. SSL helps and keeping your arrs behind complex passwords (use a password manager) will keep the server itself relatively safe.
Unless of course, ISPs in your country suddenly start to crack down on illegal downloading hard.
Most flexible would be to make a PHP form with a MySQL/PostgreSQL database.
If you want an off the shelf solution maybe a Microsoft Power App or a FOSS alternative?
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This was Meppel but every municipality in the Netherlands has a free marriage half hour. It varies what day it is but it'll usually be early morning.