calmocean

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[–] calmocean@feddit.uk 7 points 7 hours ago

It’s just who I happened to fall in love with. I was working as a tour guide in my hometown of Huế, and he was there on holiday. We clicked.

[–] calmocean@feddit.uk 8 points 8 hours ago

We didn’t have a firm plan either way. No hard yes or no on both sides, basically the same attitude we have now. He’s open to the idea of having kids, but he does have his concerns. He’s not against it, though.

 

I’m 31, my husband is 51, and lately I’ve been feeling some baby fever. For the record, kids aren’t a must for me, I’m genuinely happy with or without them, but I think it would be nice to experience that journey. My husband is hesitant, though. Even though he’s very healthy, active, and energetic, he feels like having a child in his 50s might be too late. He also already has a 27-year-old son, and he worries that the big age gap between siblings would feel strange.

I guess I’m just looking to hear what others think about this situation.

[–] calmocean@feddit.uk 10 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Sony makes amazing TVs.