I ignore those two tabs anyway.
johsny
Tldr: it’s shit.
Exactly like me in the biker bar.

Does this count? My wife feeding the Kudu. They get a bucket or so a day of pellets and a bale or two, especially in winter. We have kudu, impala, zebra, etc (even the odd giraffe) passing by most days. And bananas and peanut butter for the bush babies at night.
I’m lucky all the time. Praise Tymora!
Obsidian.md
is lemmy as a platform particularly focused on lgbtq+ Yes, in my experience. Which is fine, but as you said finding interesting communities (that are active) is a bit of a challenge.
For me it is the American News that is overwhelming and hard to filter out completely without filtering out everything.
PS: Voyager has some excellent filter settings.
It’s a good song (Jump) but I am really sick of it.
Personally I don’t think the tradeoff is worth while. I put nothing remotely personal on other peoples computers. I’d rather lose everything. But it is not actually that big a problem, my brother has a backup that I update once a month in his safe in his house, and I have his. Should be good enough.