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[โ€“] plyth@feddit.org 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Have you yourself become fearful despite a lower crime rate?

[โ€“] gusgalarnyk@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

I'm not certain I understand the intent of the question but yes, totally!

I haven't told this story before but the first week I moved here I had a moment of panic. I moved to Germany with my best friend and roommate. We rented bikes to get around town and we were heading to a grocery store a ways away. We went through an industrial part of town, like warehouses and vans and workshops. Somehow we got split up, I think she took a right when I went straight, and I couldn't find her.

I rode the path google maps suggested for a bit longer, couldn't see her on the horizon, turned around and rode backwards the way we came, couldn't find her, called her, didn't answer. And in that moment I had a serious "Taken" panic. I knew Germany was incredibly safe, I'd traveled the world already, but having just moved there and feeling vulnerable, I reimagined the industrial area as scummy. What was a plumbers can was now something to kidnap people in, the graffiti on the walls which I don't mind turned into a warning signs about this place, I absolutely thought she had been kidnapped and I was going to have to explain to her parents that I lost her somewhere in a medium sized town in Germany.

So I decided to fall back on planning, if you lost your parents, be predictable, go to where they'd expect you to be. So I rode on the parrelel street over (cause I'd already covered the main street), and biked to our destination. Sure enough, she was waiting at the intersection right before the grocery store, happy as a dog on a walk. She had taken the parrelel rode after her turn all the way and didn't think about me or getting lost or nothing. Didn't check her phone, was just totally in the moment (that little shit).

And the moment I saw her, I realized what had happened emotionally to me. How American movies like "Taken" had primed me for terror, how vulnerable I felt, how not worried she was in any given moment (even if she was far more fearful than I in the big picture concepts), and how despite having traveled extensively I was ready and able to believe the worst if I suffered a personal experience irrespective of the data.

I've lived here for nearly 3 years now. Haven't had any scares like that since. A couple of city experiences that can make you feel unsafe, but nothing that made me forget and disown the data or my rational self. If I hadn't looked up the data, if I hadn't been rational, left leaning, etc I have no doubt that would have been a scarring moment despite it turning out fine. That's why I recommend everyone look at the data and challenge their fears with real world observations.