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Women are being abandoned by their partners on hiking trails. What’s behind ‘alpine divorce’?
(www.theguardian.com)
this post was submitted on 17 Mar 2026
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Even casual partners will want to know if their partner is sleeping with others for a variety of reasons.
He kept pushing ahead and going faster than she could, what else was she supposed to do besides tell him to go on ahead?
I would argue you shouldn't give the person trying to do something bad exactly what they want
If I’m with a man who is clearly pissed off, im not going to insist he stay with me if he doesn’t want to. That’s more dangerous than being on a hike alone for a woman.
Ok fair tbh
I agree with you. It just gives them plausible deniability. Better to communicate clearly. "Stop walking so fast. I can't keep up. I don't feel comfortable being left behind. In fact, if you leave me behind, I'll start a TikTok trend to shame you."
These men that abandon their partner on hikes because they can't properly express their own feelings should be publicly shamed.
Both of these people seem like shitbags so it's not surprising they both do shitty things to each other.
Wow what an insughtful and balanced take. It must be true because your position is in the middle of two arbitrary extremes. Why didn't I think of that!
Tell him to wait for you. You don't abandon your hiking partners.
Still trying really hard to make this situation the woman's fault, hm?
It's a real struggle in that situation - do you insist that the man you're with who is visibly frustrated and physically stronger than you wait? Or do you give him what he wants which is to push ahead and leave you?
This is why women choose the bear.
What part of "you don't abandon your hiking partner" was unclear to you
What part of that was within the woman’s control?
None, which is why I'm confused about why you think I'm blaming her.
“Tell him to wait for you.”
That’s the sentence where you’re putting the onus on the woman to tell her partner to wait for her.
He should do that already.
You asked what else she could do. She could do that, but as I said, the fault lies entirely with him: you don't abandon your hiking partners.
It's both of their faults. She chose a piece of shit and he is a piece of shit.
Women need to learn how to protect themselves from scumbags if they want to stop being taken advantage by them.
Unfortunately, I guarantee the women he switched to will not learn from the previous ones' mistakes. They're just going to be glad it's their turn, lol.
Your portrayal of the woman in this story is wildly inconsistent. Reflect on why you keep changing your views to make what happened her fault.
Not really. I've been consistent this entire time.
As usual, you people need to twist your brains into knots to find ways not to blame a woman.
Did you read the article? What about the guy who refused a rescue helicopter and left his partner on top of a mountain alone to die without even using the blanket? Surely that's the woman's fault somehow?