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I read people say online that Americans are loud. What does this mean, exactly? Is it literal volume or is it our personality/presentation? Something else?

I may be moving to Australia because of my wife’s job, and I want to better understand this. I want to assimilate and I don’t want to be annoying. I’m personally pretty low key and listen more than speak, but this is my perception of myself.

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[–] dellish@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

You talk loud and don't shut the fuck up. Yes, you have an opinion on everything. Yes, you think your country's great. Yes, you think you are great also. Shut up.

I remember being on holiday in Thailand, visiting a village that very clearly had set aside an area as a market for tourists. The Americans decided to have a conversation between one area and another about heading off to look at the village school or whatever. EVERYBODY ELSE, locals and tourists, could tell this specific area was for tourists, but the USAians just couldn't read the room and had to loudly talk about it. JFC it was painful to witness.

[–] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Thank you for your answer. We Americans can be very stupid when it comes to reading the room and observing things for sure.