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This does feel like a pervy question. Can you argue it’s a legitimate question?
As a hetero, female-breast-fascinated male who tries not to be pervy it seems like an honest question. Consciously or not, sometimes I'm going to be glancing at your boobs. Doesn't mean I am consciously fantasizing; more like a shiny object I couldn't ignore. But as a person who wants to be empathetic, I want to know how this comes across to the other person.
Legit AF IMO
It comes across as pervy…even if you don’t try to be…it is.
If you were in prison and some big guy started looking at your bum how would you feel?
Asking how I would feel is a bit of a pervy question, can you explain why it’s legitimate?
Now imagine that the dude is showing just a little bit of his ass crack on purpose, like he wore clothes that specifically expose the top of the crack and accentuate it
https://imgur.com/male-cleavage-wIjKRdu
This is really it actually, there's the social norms stuff but like, they really do be accentuated, eyes are gonna always be darting at these fixed places.
Is this the only mode of existence you possess? Is hating men the only aspect of your character? Is that your whole personality- blaming people and admonishing them? It's fucking sad.