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I used to whip men for a living. Now I just herd them, and some engineering-related stuff happens as a result :-)
hey there is a french guy on youtube that makes a living of whipping and performing various acts, in a medieval type setting.
His technique is probably better than mine ... TBH I never used a proper whip on a person, just riding crops and sometimes a cane. But when you've been in that line of work, everyone just assumes it's whips so I go with that
Did you ever fist anybody in addition to the whipping?
Not the men, no - probably most guys into receiving butt stuff in a big way would prefer a man.
There's been a couple of women over the yearswho liked it, but it didn't do anything for me as the provider over and above just using my fingers or a dildo
Hmm that's interesting. I'm a straight male and very much like being on the receiving end of butt stuff from women so it seems I'm in a small minority. Other dudes are missing out!
It may well be because of societal differences - I quit that line of work nearly 20 years ago, it was in the UK, and most of my clients were older than me, so there was a very strong line of homophobia among them ... more than one of them struggled with their urge to stick it in my butt, in case that made them somehow a little bit gayer :-/
People are weird, and repressed people even moreso!