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I usually don't like to play the "English as second language" card, as I take great pride learning it, but I need to for this one lol. what does this mean?
๐ฅบ and ๐๐ were in the list.
I knew this was one of the things that they had banned. But I don't actually know what it means. Or why it was something someone would ban.
It's used by bottoms to plead for something.
Hmm. I learned something today. Thanks. I think.
Do gay people seriously still use this kind of derogatory language in referring to their partners?
Or has this been appropriated by incels to make themselves feel superior?
??? Its only derogatory if you think bottoming is degrading (which I mean it can be, but context is important).
I am unaware of alternative language, though in a lot of contexts its used to refer to the passive role even though most people understand it's unrelated.