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Nothing too serious, i want to hear your petty, your eccentric, your off beat takes.

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[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

They're not inconsequential but they're at least not divisive enough to get me killed, this time:

  • boobs are better than butt
  • all physical appearance attributes that a human can have are attractive to someone
  • Generally speaking, modern buildings are better than old ones. and actual ruins should be integrated into a modern structure on top rather than just left wasting space. (I am not in favour of removing well built old buildings like churches, but i live somewhere where the cult of preserving old housing stock which is no longer fit for purpose, for "historical" reasons, is ruining the country. If you can make something more eco efficient, it must be done.)
  • to expand on the previous point: people are extremely negative about structures from 1901-2001, and about 2001-2026. There's beauty in them. People will literally learn to hate anything if they hear other people express that it is ugly. These buildings are simply not that bad at al, nor are new buildings.

Well those are 4 superficial takes

More: -Wagner's philosophy to music is a disgusting and world-ending kind of attitude. He became racist out of anger of being ignored by mendellssohn, supposedly; a fun fact.

[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

boobs are better than butt

Ok you lost me there, that is an incomprehensible sentence

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I love that some people feel that way, considering I have a spectacular butt. Especially when those people have a killer rack.

[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My rack leaves much to be desired, but congratulations on your butt, good effort!

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Thanks, addiction to bicycling does wonders

[–] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

tiny boobies and big ol' butt is literally the perfect combo. big ol' boobies stretch, sag, and get veiny with age. butt just gets bigger. thinking long-term

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What next, are you going to warn me that if I order lemonade I'll get something both sweet and sour?

Sure when I was younger I only liked pert breasts, but in my 30s I like the bodies of women my age (and a fair bit older tbh), sags, stretch marks, veins, and all

[–] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

You're into stretch marks, saggy boobs and spider veins?

Well, I'm not one to yuck someone's yum, have at it! Good for you!

[–] qmz@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago

It’s downright blasphemy!

[–] TargaryenTKE@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What part of Wagner's views specifically are you referring to? (The music I mean, not the racism since that's just a whole big, sticky, knotted mess to try to unpack.) But yeah, are you referring to Gesamtkunstwerk?

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

I often hear it said that he felt music should always tell a story, rather than just being something to listen to; one of a few reasons why he focused on opera. He only approved of music connected to story telling. I think music ~~transcends~~ spans story telling and also it's own space, of existing just to be listened to (e.g background music) and doesn't have to have storytelling intentions.

Otherwise ambient music shouldn't exist. Classical pieces that are purely technique and not thematic - which many chamber music pieces are - are disowned.

I might just misunderstand him. I actually didn't know that much about gesamtkunstwerk until i read up on it, so clearly my knowledge isn't comprehensive.

[–] RobotToaster@mander.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

people are extremely negative about structures from 1901-2001

I think that's starting to turn around, I've seen more appreciation for brutalism and mid century modern recently.