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I have. And I think folks should be able to talk about it without being stigmatized or harassed for sharing their experiences.

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[–] Setiyeti93@lemmy.ca 24 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

When I was around 20(M) my older boss regularly tried it on with me. She always tried to lean into me with her large chest. Then one day she basically exposed herself to me.

Another coworker said she did this with him too. Eventually we both explained this to upper management and she was gone within the week.

I always felt bad because Iin this case it was addressed quickly. Yet I know if my female co workes were in a similar situation.... Well, I hear enough to believe that the story would be different. For the worse.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 8 points 4 hours ago

I had a co-worker I reported for SH. Turns out other folks hare reported her too. She got fired.

My complaint was the one that got her fired. She had 3 other complaints already from 3 other folks.

Some people have told me I am a 'snitch' for doing it. But guess what, my workplace is a lot more pleasant with that person gone than it was the year they were around...

[–] Cherry@piefed.social 7 points 4 hours ago

You shouldn’t feel bad. She was a repeat abuser. Don’t feel bad for protecting others.