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I know a few girls who made one, and it didnt do particularly well, so after a couple months or a year or two they deleted them and any mention of them, got a new friend group and swapped cities, and are now dating ppl again. Out of the 4 that I still know/follow on social media that come to mind, 3 have been in relationships for over a year at least and 2 swapped to like clean conservative girl aesthetics.
Kinda of an interesting pipeline, a lot of them think theyll blow up fast and overestimate themselves, don't work for it or realize its mostly/only ppl they know secretly buying their stuff and get creeped out. They don't realize its a job and unless they already have social media fame it wont work out, so a lot of girls literally try to blow up just to makw retirement onlyfans money.
End of they day some of them do make a shit ton of money if it suceeds, like go retire in a high income area away and just say you do remote work . its easy enough to change your appearence by just aging, haircut, makeup, etc. and not being in the public for a while. They can just move states/towns, etc. if it's an issue. Like look at ppls sub costs, then look at their subscribers, some of them make 6 figures monthly, if you thought you could wouldn't you?
I would, my future kids could have trauma, because now we can afford therapists lmao.
The issue is just they all think theyll be one of those top 5%ers making 6 figs a month retiring quickly, and it can't be everyone