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[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 12 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Back in my early 20s there were a few things.

  • Making beanie weenies were pretty inexpensive
  • Ramen is the old standby
  • Totino's party pizzas were also cheap calories
  • Canned soups, stretched out with cheap crackers
  • Peanut butter on celery or toast

No idea if those are still cost effective, but two or three of those could be stretched out over a week for under $10 at the time. I still eat all of those things at least every few years for some hits of nostalgia, even the cheap ass pizza.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 3 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (2 children)

This is all processed food that's not only more expensive than just cooking something but also horribly unhealthy. Loaded with sodium.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 16 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

When I was really low on money I had one small saucepan, one pan, a spatula, and a few dishes and silverware. No soup pot, no mixing bowels, or any other prep stuff. No spices or other ways to make flavorful food.

Cheap processed food is more affordable in the short term than spending money on stuff that will make cooking cheaper in the long run. I'm not saying it was the best choice, just answering the question of what I did make.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Crock pots are relatively cheap and often available second hand, so are larger pots. I have been poor and know exactly how hard it is to feed myself with little to no money left after bills. Buying junk is not cheaper, it doesn't actually sustain you.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 7 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (3 children)

I'm really enjoying you second guessing all the decisions I made when I was poor! Not only was I struggling, but apparently did it completely wrong!

[–] FritzApollo@lemmy.today 5 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

There are always people like that in these threads. Lemmy, Reddit, same thing. "Dirt broke and need to eat? Buy some kitchenware! It's quite cheap if you have the money for it!" Don't let them get to you!

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Lol, in the long run it is totally worth having even the basics and being able to make food from scratch but when I was poor I was also working two jobs so didn't have a lot of extra time for making food that took more than a few minutes.

Being poor is really expensive!

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago

"Anyone who has ever struggled with poverty knows how extremely expensive it is to be poor." James Baldwin

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Well considering I'm speaking from the experience of my own poverty, I might actually know what I'm talking about. I'm not saying go out and buy a $200 pot set. But you can get a $5 pot from a second hand store or garage sale, or these days something like Facebook marketplace that didn't even exist when I was going through this, and you'll make that up by not buying the garbage that the other person suggested. Your money will stretch a hell of a lot farther that way. Or you know, just dismiss me and other people because that person is insecure.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 12 hours ago

Third party here!

That other guy needs to fuck right off. You’re contributing reasonable stuff, they are not. Fuck em.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 0 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

No, I'm second guessing the advice you're passing on now. Just because you were young and didn't know better doesn't mean you should teach other people to do the same things. Get over yourself.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)
[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 0 points 14 hours ago

Now you're just being disingenuous, not only about the obvious nature of this thread but the obvious nature of your answer.

[–] MrMeowMeow@mander.xyz 10 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Assuming someone asking how to eat when poor has access to fresh ingredients and the time/means to prepare them

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

Rice and beans are available pretty much everywhere. Granted it might be farther than a corner store but it keeps so it is worth it even in a food desert.

[–] Tudsamfa@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 10 minutes ago) (1 children)

I agree that how healthy something is should be put on the back burner (hah!), true, but when cost is the most important factor, produce is unbeatable. While not created equal, the means to prepare for most are 1 pot, 1 board and 1 knife, and there sure are recipes that don't take up too much time.

Someone asking for recipes can be expected to have some time to cook them, while working 2 jobs is way too common nowadays, there are still more people struggling for money with some time on their hands. If you have no money, no time and no energy for cooking, you're beyond asking for advice and should instead be asking for help.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

produce is unbeatable

When available.

[–] Tudsamfa@lemmy.world 0 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Every supermarket I ever went to had a vegetable aisle and potato sacks for a few €. Variety in produce may be low, but that's what a Turkish supermarket is for.

Granted, I never lived in an American BestBuy town, so this might be a cultural thing. But produce being unavailable or even just being out of one's way seems insane to me. You sure that normal where you live?

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

No, I just made it up because everyone actually has the exact same life experience as you do.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Food_desert

[–] Tudsamfa@lemmy.world 0 points 14 hours ago

Well, same back to you. I never doubted you having that experience, but I asked if it's normal.

Your own source says it's only 12.8% of the US living in such areas. So it's safe to assume that OP would also be interested in the cheaper recipes that involve mostly produce. Your life experience isn't universal either.