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[–] litchralee@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'd say the qualities of the average American park leaves much to be desired, when compared to NYC Central Park, San Diego's Balboa Park, or SF's Presidio.

In suburban areas, the municipal park tends to be a monoculture of grass plus maybe a playground, a parking lot, and if lucky, a usable bathroom. Regional parks are often nicer, with amenities like pickleball courts or a BMX park, though asking for benches (not rocks or concrete verges, but actually bench seats) and shade might be a stretch.

My point is that the USA has fewer parks and public squares than it ought to. I don't mean just a place to go jogging or to push a stroller along, but a proper third space where people actively spend time and create value at. Where street vendors congregate because that's also where people congregate. A place that people -- voluntarily, not by necessity, eg a train station but not to catch a train -- would like to be. A destination in its own right, where even tourists will drop by and take in the air, the sights, and the social interactions.

Meanwhile, some parts of the USA actively sabotage their parks, replacing normal park furniture with versions that are actively hostile to homeless people, while alienating anyone that just wants an armrest as they sit down. Other municipalities spend their Parks & Rec funds on the bare minimum of parks, lots that are impractically tiny. Why? Because a public park can be used to exclude registered sex offenders from a neighborhood, leading to the ludicrous situation where whole cities are an exclusion zone. Regardless of one's position on how to punish sex offenses, the denial of housing and basic existence is, at best, counterproductive.

So I reiterate: the USA might have a good quantity of parks, but not exactly good quality of parks. People will socialize online unless they are given actual options to socialize elsewhere. And IRL options would build value locally, whereas online communities only accrue to the benefit of the platforms (eg Facebook, WhatsApp) they run on.