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Recently I was locked out of my own Ghost blog platform because they decided they were going to add Email 2FA. I also cannot add any other authors because that requires email verification.

Today I was looking at installing Bonfire and came across this:

Bonfire requires working email for user signups, password resets, and notifications. Most installations will need email configuration before the instance is usable.

Setting up email is a pain in the ass, costs money, is dependent on 3rd parties, violates privacy, and is just completely unnecessary. Why wouldn't you give users the option to not use it? It's infuriating!

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[–] JASN_DE@feddit.org 14 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

Do you know of any other near-universal messaging system to use instead?

Edit: also, the downsides you mentioned depend really hard on the email service you choose to use, or choose to host yourself.

[–] deadcade@lemmy.deadca.de 2 points 3 days ago

Web push for notifications. Sure, there's privacy implications, but it's already near universal. There's other options like ntfy.sh if you're not limited to existing infrastructure. UnifiedPush also works well as a protocol for push notifications.

Everything else can be handled in-app. Password reset will have to be done by an admin, though it's completely doable for a small selfhosted service.

Some of the downsides OP listed may or may not always apply, but there are always downsides. Either you have to set up your own email server (with extra maintenance burden), or your "selfhosted" app suddenly relies on third party infrastructure, like your email provider (or those of other users on your instance).

[–] artyom@piefed.social -4 points 3 days ago (2 children)

XMPP? Matrix?

Why do I need a messaging system in the first place?

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 20 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

XMPP and Matrix are not near universal.

Most people have no idea about that the hell the first one is, and are even more confused as to why you start talking about a movie when you just complained about email.

[–] JASN_DE@feddit.org 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

XMPP? Matrix?

That's cute, but very much a bubble view. Usually not worth the effort unless the devs themselves are users.

Why do I need a messaging system in the first place?

You might not need one, but the majority of users want and/or need one for user management, password reset, notifications etc.

And it is being developed for the majority of users.

[–] artyom@piefed.social -4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

the majority of users want and/or need one for user management

Is it too much to ask for self-hosted users/developers to use something slightly more modern, convenient, and easier to implement? Or to simply make it optional? As long as it's not even an option we're pretty much doomed to the dinosaur-era of internetting permanently.