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TLDR - what’s the question mark in the following scale

Cult(-1)……………….Religion(0)……………….????(+1)

Long version (a.k.a my stupid mind’s question that is keeping me awake):

My understanding of cult is a group of people with an absurd or even possibly nefarious belief system. Like something negative.

By that definition I would put religion in the middle (though a majority of it leans towards the cult side). A group of people that is very serious about what they believe in, no matter how illogical it is.

So with this understanding what would you call the positive side ? A group of people coming together to have a tradition and belief system just for the fun of it ? Is there such thing ?

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[–] Pandemanium@lemm.ee 8 points 3 hours ago

Not everything has an opposite. That is a trap of binary thinking.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 hours ago

An individual who thinks and acts rationally and who doesn't try to manipulate others.

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago
[–] SplashJackson@lemmy.ca 4 points 7 hours ago

Normal society

[–] frenchfryenjoyer@lemmings.world 2 points 6 hours ago
[–] blargle@sh.itjust.works 15 points 11 hours ago

I'll answer your question with two more questions:

What's the opposite of a rat king? What's the opposite of an ant mill?

Also I have to question your whole premise of the relationship between religion and cult. Where a cult is the bad kind of something and a religion is the neutral, default kind.

A religion is just the final form of a successful cult that got big enough and old enough that it no longer needs to take the drastic "cult-like" measures to restrict its members and separate them from society- because it has thoroughly infiltrated and colonizied that society to such an extent that being born into that society is enough.

[–] weariedfae@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 hours ago

ITT: no cult scholars. I am not one either.

I watch a lot of Knitting Cult Lady's content and I've read her book. From that I have a pretty good idea of what a cult is, which is an extreme form of group.

So I guess the opposite of a cult would be a solitary individual.

One point I keep seeing in these comments is religion. Religion isn't a cult, it's an idea. That ideology can be used by cults, but the idea itself isn't a cult. You can believe the idea all by yourself you don't HAVE to be part of the group.

Yes [insert religious group you're thinking of] is probably a cult. But it isn't one because of the idea, it's one because of controlling behavior and exploited labor and a bunch of other reasons.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 6 points 10 hours ago

The opposite of an oppressing group believing in farytales is atheism. It's weird there's a name for not believing bullshit, but there it is. Every religion is a cult, they are just of different scales.

[–] LockheedTheDragon@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago

I think of cults as more of systems of control. MLMs, jobs (Theranos), large-group awareness training (nxivm), political groups (Maga), exercise groups (CrossFit), fandoms, book clubs, families, online groups, etc can all be cults.

I suggest the podcast IndoctriNation⁠ by Rachel Bernstein to see many ways these "system of control" as she calls them can manifest.

I personally think that cult behavior is just normal behavior taken to the extreme so there really isn't an opposite. Maybe being alone with no relationships.

The various types of groups we are on family, friends, work, recreational, etc have various controls on how you act and speak. This isn't necessarily bad. You probably want to be a little different with family than with your hobby group. I explained the broader meaning of cults to my Dad and he said the Marines have those aspects. I think an important part to know if a group is probably fine is if you can leave with no issues. If there are consequences to leaving the group that's a huge red flag.

I suggest looking at the BITE Model of Authoritarian Control. Which is a useful tool to check if a group is a cult. You can read up on problems with this tool, but it's still a good starting point.

[–] iMastari@lemmy.world 19 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

What's the difference between a cult and a religion?

About 100 years.

[–] Zier@fedia.io 7 points 13 hours ago

Based on maga, I would say 8 years.

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

There are different kinds of cults. Cult is a different thing from religion. It doesn't belong on the same axis. But we can continue the thought if we define it as religious cult.

The scale is about excessive binding, control, rituals, restrictions, belief systems. If the left is the extreme, then towards the right we have weaker restrictions upon the belief system. The belief becomes weaker, and the beliefs do not have to restrict other and own people's activities and beliefs.

Religion in the middle makes no sense. It should be the label on the scale. "Religious extremism" or similar. Maybe narrow, restrictive, totalitarian.

I don't know specific terminology for the right side. Maybe open or unrestrictive practice of religion.

[–] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 79 points 19 hours ago (4 children)

Philosophy debate club with no membership

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 14 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I actually think you've nailed the task with this

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 2 points 13 hours ago

Yeah they were probably the only one in their philosophy debate club

[–] Botzo@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

I was made treasurer of the philosophy club by emailing the list at college to join. We met one time because the president and VP were excited someone joined.

There were no funds to manage.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 2 points 12 hours ago

There were no funds to manage.

Or so you kept claiming

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[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 14 hours ago

A cult is just a religion that's too small to have sects and too young to have legitimacy.

When people started worshiping a guy nailed to a torture device and said he was God, the Romans thought they were lunatics, because that's genuinely unsettling. The eating his body thing doesn't help either. It's just that they won.

[–] Libra@lemmy.ml 13 points 15 hours ago

Your scale is off there.. it should probably be more like: cult(-100)...religion(-80).................atheism(0).................?'

A group of people that is very serious about what they believe in, no matter how illogical it is.

It's pretty easy to invert that statement: a group of people that is very unserious about what they believe in? That would be folks like DIscordians, the Church of the SubGenius, Pastafarians, etc.

[–] cam_i_am@lemmy.world 18 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Community.

They're all groups of people with some kind of shared purpose or values. Cults are harmful and power based. Communities are helpful and consent-based. Religions can fall either way, or somewhere in the middle.

[–] fishos@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

This or "support group". Community implies those already around you. Something like AA would fit the bill for something that is similar to religion or a cult but positive and affirmative.

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[–] Allero@lemmy.today 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] CoolThingAboutMe@aussie.zone 3 points 8 hours ago

I think this is closest to correct. If the metric is that cult members are kind of duped to go along with group think and philosophy is the practice of questioning belief and thought processes.

That positions philosophy as the meta-analysis end of the scale and cults as the automatic.

[–] zonnewin@feddit.nl 7 points 14 hours ago

Intellectual freedom, with an appreciation of philosophy and scientific inquiry.

[–] AugustWest@lemm.ee 4 points 12 hours ago

Defining characteristics of a cult: inside information and ritual, seperation from others and non believers, words and speech that are internalized and often only understood by cult members, heiradchy - often to one person or small group, loss of self, loss of independence, removal of physical items or required clothing, and generally there is an eventuality that those in power will begin abuse that is often sexual.

Now, the actual beliefs have nothing to do with it. Where a religion ranks in the scheme is debatable.

[–] Zier@fedia.io 5 points 13 hours ago
[–] faltryka@lemmy.world 35 points 19 hours ago (6 children)

Religion and cult is basically the same thing with different connotative subtext.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 17 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (11 children)

The only difference between religions and cults is the size.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 10 points 19 hours ago
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[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

Bowling league

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 6 points 16 hours ago

Cult is just what the big congregation calls the small congregation

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 18 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (20 children)

Atheism.

Technically speaking, all religions are cults. The definition of "cult" is just an organized practice of religion.

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[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 4 points 14 hours ago

At the far end of the spectrum, with no judging and only help, is a food bank.

[–] kruhmaster@sh.itjust.works 15 points 19 hours ago

Everything doesn't have to have an opposite, you know.

[–] jcr@jlai.lu 2 points 13 hours ago

Belief , like the traditional cult of the ancestors in China, where you have no "priest" or "guru", it is just a bunch of people relying on elders to mimick the rituals, but in fact nobody remember it well, it is all disorganized, and nobody is really checking for "correctness" as much as checking if the commitment is done with intent. So the opposite of having a strong vertical domination by one person (cult) or an organized institution (religion) is a weak control of the rites by anyone (belief)

[–] TheDrunkard@lemmy.world 11 points 19 hours ago
[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 10 points 19 hours ago

Cults and religion are the same. The only thing that differentiate them is time. If you have a systematic set of illogical beliefs that have been around for a few years or decades or even just one lifetime, it's more likely to be called a cult. Give that group a lot more time and it will be called a religion.

As for your question .... I don't think it's anything the opposite of religion / cult but rather which belief system. I think as humans, we will always come up with some sort of belief system because we will always want to. We're just wired that way.

And to me the best belief system is one where we value one another no matter what, who, where, why or how. That includes honoring, respecting even those who don't believe what you do. A belief system where we honor all life, human, animal and organic. A belief system where we do our best not to harm one another or any life around us.

If we could that, then following a religion wouldn't be so bad because the belief system would be used to actually benefit all life.

[–] faltryka@lemmy.world 9 points 19 hours ago (2 children)
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[–] palebluethought@lemmy.world 8 points 20 hours ago

A cult is basically just a religion that is not large or old enough to force people to take it seriously. It just so happens that small, new religions are also extremely volatile and unstable and prone to extremely stupid decisions

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