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[–] hightrix@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

It is the same.

Big communities suck.

Small communities are great if you are part of the in crowd, if not it sucks.

Mods suck.

Admins really suck.

The content is the same, just a day behind.

It is the same.

Yet we scroll and enjoy it.

[–] kandoh@reddthat.com 3 points 9 hours ago

On reddit the conservative subs don't allow discussions or debates. On Lemmy the leftist subs don't allow discussions or debates.

[–] CtrlAltDefeat@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 hours ago

The difference is the type of people who are drawn to Lemmy are more technical, computer savvy

[–] BingoBongoBang@lemmy.world 6 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I joined, hoping that it is way less censored than reddit. Is that the case? Nowadays you can’t say shit in the “social platforms” if it hurts someone. I want to be able to say what In think and read what others have to say even if it hurts my feelings / views.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I want to murder-death-kill someone every time I see/hear "unalive".

[–] BingoBongoBang@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

You would have been banned on Reddit for inciting violence… wish i was kidding. Kudos

[–] frostysauce@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Everyone on Lemmy is a fed.

[–] xor@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 hours ago

Alright, wrap it up boys, we've been made

[–] BotsRuinedEverything@lemmy.world 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I've been trying to figure out if there are fewer bots here. I think there are. If there's any substantive difference between the two that's it.

[–] Angelusz@lemmy.world 0 points 5 hours ago

And that is the only thing that matters. This comment won the prize! ❤️✨

[–] frenchfryenjoyer@lemmings.world 31 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Lemmy's far less toxic than Reddit and actually does something about bigots/hateful people too

also you don't get banned just for saying Luigi lol

[–] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 5 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

You get banned for random views though. In particular lemmy.world is heavy on the censorship.

If lemmy gets more popular then corporate influenced mods will appear.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 hours ago

That's why I switched from .world. Being the biggest target makes them more averse to offending corporations.

[–] MrNobody@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 18 hours ago

The benefit of lemmy being that instances can and do block communities that don't fit their vibe. So once lemmy gets big enough that quality starts taking a hit, and corpos smell blood in the water, other instances can just fork off. It's already kind of like that too. Whereas with reddit, you can't tell what sub a person originally signed up for, sure you can go through history but with lemmy you can see what instance a person belongs to, which can give you a slight idea of the ideals that person might hold. Some instances may, for better or worse, have certain reputations.

Plus with being able to see a users mod history and whatnot. Lemmy has a lot more to offer and its still growing. it'll likely split over time but basically be the same. It is very different from reddit though, more like if forums and twitter had a baby.

[–] ramenbelly@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Belly full of ramen, couldn't give a fuck about Reddit

I like you

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 7 points 1 day ago

Systematically the same. Different weight shift (views and interests). Smaller userbase also makes it a bit different, but will become more similar with more users.

[–] happydoors@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago (2 children)

From what I’ve experienced, it feels toxic in a bizarre liberal, Linux-nerd white knight kindof way. Which I think almost wraps back around to not being toxic at all and just feeling friendly in a passive aggressive way? Like going to a computer convention held on a hot, sunny beach. Sure, every here mostly agrees and likes the same geeky stuff but we can easily be too cranky about it, one way or another. Lemmy seems way more likely to engage in real conversation in comments and not just one-line jokes than Reddit. People seem more passionate about their hobbies or viewpoints. More likely to help if asked directly and detailed in response. It’s a cool place!

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Classic liberal or social liberal ? (=american or european ?)

[–] match@pawb.social 19 points 1 day ago

Their filthy neckbeard echo chamber

vs

our glorious neckbeard echo chamber

[–] greenfish@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lemmy has the 3 day no poop challenge and reddit definitely doesn't, for one thing

[–] nylo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 13 hours ago (2 children)
[–] insomniac@sh.itjust.works 4 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

If you read the user agreement when you signed up, you would know that you’re not supposed to poop for 3 days after signing up. You shouldn’t be posting until you complete the challenge.

[–] iconic_admin@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

People seem nicer here in general.

[–] Clbull@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

Lemmy is full of tankies and Linux nerds. It's a different kind of toxic to what you'd experience over on Reddit.

[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 1 day ago

Definitely different

[–] throwawayacc0430@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Less far right dipshits, more tankies, same bullshit rhetoric.

[–] BingoBongoBang@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

That’s unfortunate, i was hoping to also read stuff from the maga assholes. Really, this separation is very harmful imo

[–] nylo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 13 hours ago

agreed.

the great crisis of our times is a failure to effectively communicate and accept the communication of The Other™

[–] Deconceptualist@lemm.ee 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

That's an interesting question and one that's worth exploring. Reddit certainly has been the source of many homegrown memes, common retorts, and witticisms used across the web. But here, you can try switching to Linux. Download various distros for free and try out combinations of release cycle, built-in apps, and desktop environment to find your favorite.

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 1 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

Yes, as much as I dislike the increasingly moralist culture on there, it still has a bunch of great contributions, if you care to sift through the awful interface. Sadly it's got achievements now, which in my experience were so far confined to games. It's not something I want popping in a corner of my monitor completely unprompted while I am trying to focus on an insightful comment. Not the kind of thing you get with free software... my last experience with Linux was Fedora 20-something, one which I aim to reiterate now, fifteen years later, that Wayland has improved to the point of letting me use my hardware to its full potential (drawing tablet, multiple monitors, etc). I've already installed Mint on my wife's laptop, which she enjoys very much (because it gets out of her way), and I think I might go for Fedora again for my workstation later this year, or maybe Manjaro, who knows.

[–] uranibaba@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Sadly it’s got achievements now

What did I miss? Does Linux has achievements now??

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 1 points 4 hours ago

Reddit does

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 85 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Fairly different hivemind here, I think. Still annoying at times but for different reasons. Individuals seem more likely to engage on a topic though. Maybe without instantly thinking you're their enemy.

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[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Smaller communities make a different quality of conversation. What it reminds me of is early Reddit, yes.

[–] Krauerking@lemy.lol 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I actually think it's way more like 4chan than reddit.

Niche threads are small handful of people every time, people feel pretty safe to get nasty really quick, and wild mix of people thinking it's their safe space full of people that agree with them entirely from anarchists to fascists.
Also likely to see a random porn or furry post.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You can just turn on the NSFW filter for your main feed. Removes pretty much everything except the "moe" communities.

Sidenote: you Moe people are weird af. Please tag your communities as NSFW. I would honestly rather have someone look over my shoulder and see a hardcore gangbang post than see me looking at fully clothed anime girls.

[–] BingoBongoBang@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

What are those moe people?

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Moe is when you take your fetish/the type of girl you like, then draw an anime girl about it. But the girl is cute, not sexy, and fully clothed and doing normal, not sexy things. It is very weird. I do not understand this level of sexual repression. It feels like the online porn art equivalent of getting a human shaped pillow to hug while you sleep at night.

[–] Semjaza@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 5 hours ago

Moe is a cutsey anime style, iirc.

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[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 44 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Similar but distinct. Much further left for one thing.

Also, the average level of tech knowledge here is off the charts. Like I feel like a caveman and in my office I'm the one people to go through for help. Never felt like that on Reddit.

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