In my experience they do.
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Women scream in porn. If sex is painful for you, you should see an obgyn
Have you had pleasure from other types of stimulation, other than penetrative?
Very interesting thread.
Just a little side note for everyone. Climax. The word you're looking for is climax. Or orgasm if you want to be totally technical. Not come, or cum. Climax.
Everyone is using some form of cum/come when talking about climax and I think it might be a little confusing for op.
I fucking get annoyed when I see it spelled "come".
It's just not the right word (I guess it technically can be used in the "to get there" sense, but that seems like really stretching it, especially given that it typically refers to ejaculation, not orgasm).
I don't know the origin of how "cum" came around, but to me it's always seemed like the world's most common typo that everyone is too busy to fix because they only have one hand to type and hold their phone.
Can we all just agree to spell it "cum" consistently?
Doing some toilet-bowl Googling, I found that the word "come" has been used as a euphemism for orgasm or ejaculation since at least the 17th century. It wasn't until the latter part of the 20th century that the alternative spelling "cum" became common, specifically to remove the ambiguity between the sexual meaning and the ordinary verb come. So you were absolutely right to prefer the spelling "cum" for that reason. The spelling was then further popularized through the rise of pornography and erotic media in Western culture.
Being more correct is always better, people! Stop spelling the old word, it's been "cum" since before most of you were born, get with the times!
The women that have slept with me seemed to. 🤷♂️
I am pretty sure you shouldn't be feeling intense pain putting things in a place at least 1 thing was intended to go. Have you talked to a gynecologist about this?
One reason im with my wife is her apparent love of sex. Its funny I knew guys who believed there were two types of women. the marrying kind and the ones you had fun with. I believed the same thing but it was only one type of woman.
Not a woman but I’ve picked up the following:
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Some women do enjoy it. Some woman orgasm easily and others it takes time to get comfortable enough to do so. Some not at all. Personally I think it’s the ones who masterbate regularly, they seem more comfortable and seem to know how to get there. The only tells I’ve learned that I can trust as a man are if they get really flushed, if you can feel them spasm quick and hard, or if they squirt or get really wet. Everything else can be faked. Some woman don’t orgasm all the time but claim it just feels good.
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Some Woman fake it… a lot. the yelling is likely faking it unless you see any of the signs from #1. In my experience and conversations it’s usually one night stands or maybe a partner they are particularly interested in, I’ve had female partners and friends tell me it’s usually to try and leave an impression. But woman do it for many reasons. Some are silent if there are other people in the same dwelling who might hear it, but let loose and get if they know they have privacy.
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If you are curious, I’d recommend speaking to a doctor if you don’t enjoy it at all and want to change your situation.
As a bottom I can give you one rule: penetrative sex of any kind is not supposed to be painful.
If it is then there's usually a diagnosable problem to fix. It's not always physical it can be really spiritual. I struggle with bottoming usually because I need to like the person I'm with enough to relax, it's called being demi-sexual.
I feel like tops of any sexuality don't really grok how intense of an experience it is to let someone into your own body such that when they're in they don't know how to respect what's in there. Sometimes it does get so intense that it comes out of your voice, sometimes for me at least it gets too intense and I'm not sure if it feels good or bad so I need my top to slow down and let me figure out how things got rearranged.
Lastly, porn recorded by total nobodys on a webcam or iPhone is just barely grazing the boundary of reality. So if you're not vocal, you don't scream, then you just don't like that just not you.
Trans or cis?
Trans or cis?
This is relevant to the question at hand in absolutely zero way.
Of course it is. Artificial vaginas need dilation 100% of the time.