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Title. Interested to see the response from different religions

Edit: Stating your religion would be appreciated. Lack of religion counts for the purpose of this question. Also let's not downvote people for differing religions, all voices are welcome here. If no; why?

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[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago
[–] zxqwas@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago

Atheist. I'm quite relaxed about it as long as I don't have to take part in the silly rituals. I've dated a lot of picky eaters so I'm okay with not having bacon at home or whatever your dietary restrictions may be.

[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 6 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Depends. Do they love and respect me? Are they trying to convert me every chance they get?

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Where do you draw the line? That's what I'm curious about

[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 4 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

I don't. Believe whatever you want to believe. My wife thinks bigfoot, ancient aliens, ghosts, werewolves, vampires, demons, angels, etc exist. I think that statically aliens have to exist but the rest are bunk. It doesn't affect me if she believes those things.

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[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 5 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Hard to say for sure really.

I can respect someone's religious views as long as they aren't trying to push them on me. That's to say; not trying to make me believe the same or insist that I have to follow the rules of their chosen religion.

As far as my own views go; I don't follow any particular religion. I don't necessarily believe there isn't some form of god, but I don't follow/believe in any specific deity either. Maybe there is, maybe there isn't; but there have been hundreds of thousands of gods/goddesses/deities/religious figures throughout human history. Who's to say you've chosen the correct one, along with the correct set of (sometimes oddly specific) rules and regulations to go along with it?

You want commandments to follow? Here's one:

"Don't be an asshole"

Everything else kind of just falls into place around that. As long as we can respect each other and our differences; yeah, romance is certainly possible.

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 4 points 12 hours ago

I don't date/wed a religion, or a god. Only a person.

That being said, there would still be the obvious limit that I would have to like (and be liked by) the person which, as far as I'm concerned, would most probably exclude some of the more... extreme religious beliefs.

[–] Geodad@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago

I could maybe see myself with a pagan, but it depends on how much woo they believe in.

Luckily, a wonderful atheist woman found me and we've been married going on 10 years now.

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Muslim here and nope. Setting aside that it's forbidden in Islam, I'd have to get them on board with so many things they might as well convert.

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Do you live in a country where Muslim religion is assumed or do you have to ask their religion right off? That seems rough

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I'm an immigrant in a country where save for a small foreign diaspora Muslims basically don't exist, so while I'm choosing to leave this stuff for future me to figure out, if I ever do choose to find someone it'll be rough going.

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 2 points 12 hours ago

Ouch. That does seem complicated. I wish you luck!

[–] Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org 1 points 9 hours ago

Yeah absolutely. I'm not religious per se but vaguely spiritual and I get along fine with religious people as long as they don't force it on others. In fact I like hearing about other perspectives so it could even be something drawing me in.

[–] floo@retrolemmy.com 3 points 12 hours ago
[–] stepan@lemmy.ca 1 points 10 hours ago
[–] aturtlesdream@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

Not anyone who is actively/strongly religious of any kind. Philosophical/spiritual beliefs is fine with me but anyone who is drinking the Kool-Aid is either delusional or dumb (and probably stubborn/hard to reason with). I was raised Catholic (even went to Catholic school from elementary up to finishing HS) but would consider myself somewhere between agnostic and atheist now

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 2 points 12 hours ago

Most likely not. Depends how serious they are about it and how big of an factor it plays in their daily lives. Belief in god, to me, is an indication that a person is not capable of thinking rationally. At least not to the extent that I'm expecting from a parther. I don't want to be with someone who can't be reasoned with.

[–] Pika@sh.itjust.works 2 points 12 hours ago

as long as they aren't going to force me into said religion I would be fine with it, if I dated anyway.

I would try to support them and all but, I'm agnostic

[–] Outwit1294@lemmy.today 2 points 13 hours ago
[–] Fedditor385@lemmy.world -1 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

I don't understand your question.

If you are romantically involved, you won't mind religion. If you mind religion, you won't get romantically involved.

Never heard of a situation where someone says I fell in love with a person despite absolutely not wanting to accept their religion or religiousness. Seems ridiculous.

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[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago
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