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I set up a public game night for a non profit organization. The event space has a bar on one side and Pizza and snacks are available. All ages are welcome as the bar side is segregated from where the gaming area is. We posted it in some FB local groups and I found some local subreddits and discord servers. I even made an Instagram account but it flagged my flyer as spam. It's a smallish town with about 14k people but near a much bigger college town by about 30 minutes. I'm at a loss as what to do since I'm going to give it a go this week too. We discussed having a vintage video game competition such as an old arcade game. Am I missing something or are game nights just not that popular?

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[–] MountingSuspicion@reddthat.com 1 points 10 minutes ago

That's rough. I'm not sure if meetup is popular in your area, but reaching out to a few and having them set it up as a "joint event" or something might be helpful. All that being said, is there a possibility you can set it up at the college town and have people commute to that instead of maybe college students commuting?

[–] ViatorOmnium@piefed.social 71 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

At least the first few times, you need a core group that you are sure will show up, and everyone needs to try to bring at least a friend. If you manage to pick up momentum then the core group becomes less critical.

[–] gibmiser@lemmy.world 20 points 3 hours ago

Agreed. You need word of mouth. You have to speak to people you have a connection with and ask them to come. Otherwise you have no way of knowing that your advertisements will be effective.

[–] Fandangalo@lemmy.world 31 points 3 hours ago

Real people organizing is very tough. I would find some folks who you could give you a firm “yes”, even if it’s supporting you while you try to stand something up. You can try draws, like “Free Pizza” if it wasn’t clear the food was free (best draw I know in America is free food). You can try signage around the campus physically, since a lot of younger folks ignore social media / FB. Tabling in person can work really well too. You need permission, a pop up table, signage, & a positive attitude.

Don’t beat yourself up over it. Organizing irl people is one of the harder things to do in this present moment.

[–] SpruceBringsteen@lemmy.world 23 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

30 minute drive is a big ask for college kids when they can easily hold something on campus.

[–] fireweed@lemmy.world 9 points 3 hours ago

I don't know the circumstances of the college OP is referencing, but I didn't even have a car in college, and knew only one or two people who did (mostly we either walked or took public transit; if neither were available we just didn't go).

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago

It's true and they have their own gaming clubs for board games and an E-sports team. I didn't expect any students to come but 'townies' often use the subreddit for the college and there's Facebook groups for gaming in that town for regular folks.

[–] Zagam@piefed.social 14 points 2 hours ago

I got a Boardgame Night going at my local comic shop. Its every-other week. The first 2 nights was just me. The next 3 or 4 nights only 1 or 2 other people showed up. Its been about 6 months going now and I'm happy to say it took off finally.There are usually 2 or 3 games going at once now. Don't give up. Just keep fliering, talking about it, spreading word.

[–] Protoknuckles@lemmy.world 13 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

Was the flyer created with AI? that turns off a lot of people now. What types of games were advertised? Did you bring any flyers to game stores or anything like that?

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 11 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Here's is the flyer minus the address and location.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 15 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Personally I would want to know what kind of games. There's a wide range. Monopoly? Catan? A six hour indie extravaganza? Same with cards and video games. Like I would go to a sekiro tournament but avoid a CoD thing.

[–] mctoasterson@reddthat.com 6 points 1 hour ago

Good point. Ambiguity isn't your friend here.

I threw a LAN party or two back in college (faculty sponsored gaming club). We actually got Bawls Energy and some now-defunct PC peripheral companies to sponsor. I designed and hung posters, put an ad in the student paper, did some word-of-mouth adverts in classes.

The first event had what I thought at the time was good turnout of about 30 people. Most people were OK with mainstream LAN multiplayer games of the time, but there is always that one dude who wants to play Hello Kitty Island Adventure or whatever.

In other words, maybe be somewhat specific and name games that are likely to be played.

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

I just mostly brought party games with me since it's the first time. Like codenames, Uno flip, flip 7, coup, fuse, and also some decks of cards and a cribbage board in case anybody older showed up. As far as video games, pretty much same with some jackbox games, packman dx+, but if someone wanted to they could play fortnite or rocket league I put a bunch of games on there. I figured I would let the players set the tone for what they wanted to play and we would just provide the space and let it develop it's own culture over time. I did have the idea to have themes like spooky games for the month of October and like I said maybe have a tournament once a month or something like that.

[–] verdigris@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Yeah I think the sheer open-endedness is actually harming you here. I would narrow down to the point where you have some sort of concrete theme or intention beyond "come play any type of game". You might even want to start with one specific game that's somewhat flexible in terms of player count, at least in your promo material; you can always have backups and other options on hand in case more or less people show up than you were planning for.

Once you have a few regulars, you can start expanding. I think this sort of catch-all approach is better when you've already got some regulars and are starting to regularly get new people who express interest in other things.

Kind of unrelated, but are you cross-posting to places like Meetup? That's how I found my old board game group, though that was years ago so it might be less active these days.

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

I think I'm going to push pacman tournament this week since that seemed to be a hit with the older crowd. It's pacman championship edition dx+ so I think is more accessible than other pacman editions.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 1 points 1 hour ago

Agree with the other poster - too open is a net negative. There's like 3 games I don't want to play for 1 game I do.

There's an RPG meetup I go to sometimes. They list some games on their blurbs so people know it's not just a DND hangout.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

That’s a banging flyer. As someone who has hosted big events myself, it can take a while and a few tries to gain traction. Don’t get discouraged yet.

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago

No I didn't use ai as I myself scroll past those kinds of flyers. I did use a Canva template and made sure to put times, dates, and location on it. It was a very straightforward flyer. I advertised board, card, and video games abd brought my gaming pc with me. I did have a few of the older folks that were there playing pacman though. They were there for a meeting anyway and didn't come just for game night.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Old-school paper flyers seem appropriate for a vintage game competition, see if you're allowed to post any on campus.

Add public-transit directions if they aren't already there.

You said it's for a nonprofit, it might make a difference what that nonprofit is.

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

It's a large veterans organization. Also sadly there's is no public transportation off of campus, especially not out here. I will try to get some flyers printed and see if I can get them put up in town. I think campus is too far out there for students to come.

[–] SpruceBringsteen@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

If this isn't at a VFW, did you get word out to the local branch?

[–] phonics@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

I would make a coming soon page with email capture form that explains why it will be fun. And only once I've got 100 email sign ups would I schedule an event.

[–] Chaunticleer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 hours ago

Oh god. This gave me flashbacks. Sorry OP, that sucks

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 hours ago

Sorry. :(

I couldn’t have come, but I’d have been there in spirit.