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Especially teens and college students

Source: i'm a college student

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[–] spaghettiwestern@sh.itjust.works 2 points 18 hours ago

Some Iphone users behave as if they're in a cult. Worse, Apple treats customers without Iphones/Macs as inferior to their golden children even while selling services that don't require Apple hardware.

I subscribed to Apple TV+ and dealing with the company was infuriating. Every single support rep instructed me to do something to solve a problem using my Iphone or Mac. The last straw was when I wanted to add another profile to my account and was told the company has made it impossible without Apple hardware. The rep actually told me to find someone with an Iphone to help. I cancelled Apple TV+ instead.

One member of the Iphone cult I know was going on and on about a problem she was having receiving calls. When I mentioned a relatively minor problem with my phone her immediate response was "That's because you have Android." It was comical.

People shallow enough to believe they're superior because they own an Iphone aren't worth being around anyway.

[–] Bronzebeard@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 day ago

Some people need to justify their choice to overspend on something...

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Nobody will actually mind if you brag about how you bought a new phone. Also if you are not a rich person you having an expensive phone means you did something smart to "cheat the system."

As an example I had an old coworker when I used to work at a warehouse and he would combo things like service provider sales to buy an iphone.

He did sound smart when explaining the roundabout way he got the phone despite making same money as us. And I don't mind what other people chose to spend money on.

What I do mind is college students thinking macbooks are some "programmers' laptops."

I had to constantly hand-hold group members that think they can get away with not learning how to code and using AI for all the homeworks because they bought a mac and that makes them a good programmer anyway.

"But I thought the program should automatically wait for the threads on this line since it's POSIX."

Yes I love troubleshooting professor's makefile for an OS I don't have because you never learned your own laptop has a symlink from gcc to clang.

[–] renrenPDX@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Not a youngster, but I would say because it’s a simple choice. Don’t have to think which brand sporting Android is better and definitely don’t have to worry about what custom ROM to install. Troubleshooting between different models can be a pain. People just want something that works out of the box without having to be an expert.

1 choice (mainly) vs (too) many choices.

[–] jaschen306@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

I used Android since they first came out and not once did I ever needed to worry about a custom ROM.

Let's be real and just say that Apple is doing anticompetitive things and not getting in trouble in the US yet.

[–] Jason@feddit.uk 1 points 1 day ago

I can't think of a single mainstream android phone manufactuer that requires any expertise setting up their phone out of the box (for doing anything an iPhone can do).

You then have the option to install 3rd party software or a custom ROM but that is not required, just a bonus that isn't available to Apple users.

I mean, don't you just log into an account these days and it's all there?

Certainly no more complicated than setting up an iPhone.

[–] hono4kami@piefed.social 13 points 2 days ago

It's expensive

[–] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 23 points 2 days ago (10 children)

Only poor people think a phone is a sign of wealth

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[–] the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago

Because they're teens

[–] Gammelfisch@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If there was another decent mobile phone, the same size as the SE, I would seriously consider it.

[–] jaschen306@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

ASUS Zenfone 10

[–] tang999@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The only reason I have an iPhone is because our car only has Apple CarPlay installed (or whatever it's called). I can never go back to mounting my phone on the dash and using the tiny phone screen for maps and music.

[–] jaschen306@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hey internet brother. Don't get locked in like that. There are USB devices that turns your car display into a full blown Android that is extremely customizable.

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 2 points 21 hours ago

Example...??

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 83 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Kids are like that. Most adults don’t care.

[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 38 points 2 days ago (11 children)

Bullshit. Adults absolutely care. It's human nature to try to project your status in the social hierarchy. That takes different forms and may instead be projecting status with a Stanley flask or Canada Goose jacket, or whatever.

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago

Most adults don’t use their iphones as status symbols. Look at 10 random adults iphones and over 9 of them will be damaged.

I’ve managed iphones for hundreds of people and only encountered a few that care at all.

BlackBerry holdovers would be a different discussion though.

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[–] MDCCCLV@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 day ago

It is still cliqueish even if they don't do it intentionally when you have things like they assume you have apple things like the iPhone charger( deprecated now) or airdrop.

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[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 52 points 3 days ago (2 children)

.. is there ever any logic to what people think are status symbols?

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My labubu bandolier says there is.

[–] ChetManly@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

labubu

What the hell is that? Are beanie babies popular again?

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

Pretty much, yeah.

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[–] Hermit_Lailoken@lemmy.world 42 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That is how they market their products.

[–] lemming741@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

And those demographics are very susceptible to marketing and peer pressure. The chat bubble colors are designed to make you think of alternative phone users as outcasts. Used to be the same with photos and videos in MMS.

By your late 20s most people don't give a shit about being labeled outcast, but by then you're locked into their ecosystem.

[–] felsiq@piefed.zip 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This is definitely one reason for their design, and Apple is shit for that, but the primary reason and the one that many iphone haters miss or trivialize is that SMS/MMS are absolutely fucking trash. There has to be a distinction because if you’re using imessage and relying on all your messages being e2e encrypted and your photos/videos not being compressed to shit, it’s important to get a blatant visual indicator when that’s not actually the case.

I’m not trying to downplay apple’s bullshit social engineering about this, that really is fucked up, but this gets misconstrued all the time as irrational users being upset by green bubbles when to (many of) those users it’s actually a huge downgrade in security and functionality that they’re reacting to.

[–] lemming741@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Behold: a blatant visual indicator

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[–] DaddleDew@lemmy.world 33 points 2 days ago

I see my deGoogled Android device as a higher status symbol than any overpriced stock Apple device.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 20 points 2 days ago

I remember a friend of mine whining about how my text bubble was a different color and it "made it weird" to text because of that.

By then I was already super over the whole tribalistic iphone/android bs from people I know when it wasn't being meme'd on, so I just told her "you can either get over it, or we can stop talking and being friends"

Wouldn't you know it, the color of a text bubble isn't enough to end a friendship over.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 11 points 2 days ago

Cuz they're overpriced? More money = More "exclusive."

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Cheapest iPhone is $600, cheapest android phone can go as low as $20 (like those walmart prepaid phones locked to a carrier).

When the average person think of android, instead of thinking about a flagship samsung phone, they think of the lowest budget phone.

So in their mind, if you have android, you're automatically categorized as "poor"/"cheap", regardless how much it actually costs.

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