SARGE

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[–] SARGE@startrek.website 24 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

As former enlisted, I wonder if at any point while floating to the ground they thought to themselves "holy shit, I'm gonna die in a desert for pedophiles, why did I go along with this?"

At least one gets to think twice for now, but I doubt they will.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Lmao Tone is hard to read, I wasn't upset so if I came across that way my apologies, I was just adding more info in response to points you had raised.

I would assume if they meant it as some kind of a dig, they wouldn't accept the invitations to hammock with us. Their tone was friendly, it's just not a term I've heard and given the different comments so far, it seems to be a mixed bag as to whether other people would consider it an insult or a compliment.

Really though given the context, I'm going to take it as a compliment even if it was meant as an insult.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 3 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I have no job currently, my clothes are mostly 5+ years old with most of my stuff being around 10 years old from my last retail job when I got them discounted and on clearance, my car rolled off the line before I was conceived and has the damage that says it lives in deer country, and my food comes from wherever is cheapest.

And they all know these things since we talk about such things at meets along with basically every other topic. pretty much everyone is in the same boat, and with only one exception we all live with roommates and parents.

If you're thinking of a 2010 hipster with a man-bun and Abercrombie clothes driving their Leaf from the iPhone store to the fancy food market where everything is 5x the price because someone put the word "organic" in front of "tomato".... I mean, imagine me however you wish, but we are definitely more the type to live in a log cabin we built ourselves away from any kind of technology. I like what gadgets I do have, but I'd trade them for "not living in capitalism hell" any day.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 3 points 3 weeks ago

Lmao "upper"

I have no job currently and can't afford more than basics for food, but thanks for making assumptions.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

A bit more of a relatable explanation than UD gave me, and honestly I doubt it was meant negatively as most of the people in this group are very left leaning and while a few aren't quite "paint a brick rainbow and smash a cop's window" levels yet, they're certainly closer than anyone else in my life. We have discussed camping so several at least enjoy outdoorsy stuff.

I like my gadgets if I could live in the woods with 15 other people and grow out own food and not have to worry about dying of gangrene I'd give all my things up in a heartbeat.

By this metric, I'll be "crunchy" over "silky" any day of the week.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 27 points 3 weeks ago

Oh man, urban dictionary is still going? I haven't seen them in forever....

If that's how they meant it... I mean, it's pretty spot on.

I'll take it as a compliment, then!

 

Yes, I'm aware there are "no stupid questions..." but... A quick search didn't bring much clarity.

For context: my wife and I are in our 30s, and as weather got colder in October, we started attending a "coffee and chat" meeting for people learning sign language. My wife is slowly going deaf, and we both would like to communicate normally when she loses hearing completely.

The asl chats were started by some people in an LGBT Pride group, and as such most of the people there are LGBT, and between 18-24. Since the weather is getting warmer, we have been inviting them to go places with us, mostly like IHOP or a local cafe. It is a little tricky to coordinate, since several lack vehicles and transit is basically nonexistent here, and some have mobility issues, but we make sure everyone who wants to come has a way to get here even if it requires several trips in our car.

Last week since it was especially nice out, we decided to have a cookout. We brought vegetarian options since a couple are vegetarian (while I'm sure I am quite competent at making vegetarian meals, I always get super dumb when trying to think of vegetarian dishes I know) and all in all it was pretty chill, with about 8 of them showing up. some had to leave soon after eating, but most stayed to hang out in the park and hammock with our extra ones we have collected over the years.

As we are making sure everyone is situated, has drinks and snacks, and making conversation with different people, a few are having their own conversation and then one looks in our direction, and goes "you two are giving off big crunchy aunt and uncle vibes, very granola" and I just looked a little confused and said "thanks? I think?"

Their tone was friendly, I'd say. Two people said things in agreement, one laughed, nobody seemed upset about anything.

We started setting up around noon, people showed up around 1, and we ended up staying until sunset after 8. Everyone said they had fun and it was super relaxing.

So to the question: in this context, I feel it's meant positively but I am not sure what "crunchy aunt and uncle vibes, very granola" means...

Apologies if this is considered something I should just look up since it really is a "simple question" but it feels like one of those things that has different meanings in different contexts.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 65 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

I personally believe it is on purpose, to try and get you to download the app.

Then they can get way more of your data to sell.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 21 points 4 weeks ago

a few minutes earlier

"hmm, I'm bored. Oh look here's some people enjoying a small laugh. Imma shit on the fun. How DARE they enjoy a joke I personally don't like. The FOOLS! THE ABSOLUTE MORONS! I simply MUST tell people their frivolity is absurd."

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

My gender-non-specific human, why do you insist on calling every single person here shitty for calling out BS reddit tactics?

Are you in love with their CEO or something? It's a little weird.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 21 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I got banned from about 15 subreddits I never even knew existed once by calling out a transphobic dogwhistle, and when I inquired about the bans, the mods insinuated I was a child molester and neo-nazi.

Reddit mods don't need to follow any sort of logic.

And confidently asserting someone is a dick because they got banned from a subreddit is hilarious, and should probably prompt some self-reflection.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's curtains for me.

I guess I'd better frame my next comment differently!

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