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MJ calls what happened to her in Zion national park “small ‘T’ trauma”. She knows women have experienced worse from their partners. But she still feels the anger of being left behind on a hike by her now ex. “It brings up stuff in my body that maybe I have not cleared out yet,” she said.

Five years ago, MJ and a new partner – he was not exactly her boyfriend, and the pair were not exclusive – traveled from Los Angeles to Utah for an adventure getaway. MJ, who is 38 and works in PR, was looking forward to exploring Zion’s striking scenery; its vast sandstone canyon and pristine wading trails were on the list. But on the morning of their big hike, MJ was not feeling well. She could not shake the feeling that something was “off”; indeed, MJ would learn on this trip that her partner was seeing other women.

As they made their way up Angel’s Landing, MJ’s partner started walking faster than her. “I could tell it was getting on his nerves that I was slow,” she said. “I was like, ‘Fuck it, just go ahead of me.’” He did without hesitation.

When she caught up at the top of the mountain, they took a picture together. Then her partner hiked down the mountain with a woman he had met on the way up, leaving MJ to finish by herself. They broke up shortly after that trip. (MJ asked to be referred to by her initials for the sake of speaking openly about a past relationship.)

Last month, MJ opened TikTok and heard the phrase “alpine divorce”, a label she now attaches to her experience in Zion.

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[–] Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca 8 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (4 children)

I know this isn't really the same, but the article struck a chord with me and the experiences I have with my fiance. She convinced me to buy and play Arc Raiders. (It's an extraction shooter.) This isn't the type of game I normally play. I am not good. She made a run for an extraction point, and didn't wait for me to be in the elevator before pressing the button to extract, leaving me stranded with the enemy everywhere. (She's run way ahead of me in game before and I've taken issue with it and explained I feel abandoned when she runs way ahead without me.) The last time we played, I happened to make it to the elevator before her, and I made a point to say, "are you in the elevator," before pressing the god damned button.

Obviously, I wasn't in real danger, but those experiences have made me wary of depending on her.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 6 points 9 hours ago

Exactly why I started refusing to play video games with my ex-husband.

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[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 8 points 10 hours ago

I would never leave my girlfriend stranded on a hike. I need her for if there is a bear.

[–] Tylerdurdon@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago

"We need to talk" has now been replaced by "We need to go for a hike."

I imagine a good way to make your significant other sweat in that region is to leave your hiking boots by the door.

[–] sturmblast@lemmy.world 13 points 12 hours ago (23 children)

Articles like this are 99% trash

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