I know this isn't really the same, but the article struck a chord with me and the experiences I have with my fiance. She convinced me to buy and play Arc Raiders. (It's an extraction shooter.) This isn't the type of game I normally play. I am not good. She made a run for an extraction point, and didn't wait for me to be in the elevator before pressing the button to extract, leaving me stranded with the enemy everywhere. (She's run way ahead of me in game before and I've taken issue with it and explained I feel abandoned when she runs way ahead without me.) The last time we played, I happened to make it to the elevator before her, and I made a point to say, "are you in the elevator," before pressing the god damned button.
Obviously, I wasn't in real danger, but those experiences have made me wary of depending on her.