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Women are being abandoned by their partners on hiking trails. What’s behind ‘alpine divorce’?
(www.theguardian.com)
this post was submitted on 17 Mar 2026
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Nothing is behind it. It's another dramatized thing that people are using for social media clout to score points, and people lap it up. This is manufactured rage bait.
We are also only getting one side of the story. I know for a fact a few of my breakups where the other party completely warped the story to make me into a villain. I had one incident where I was teaching my gf to snowboard and she broke her wrist on the bunny slope, a super common injury. I spent all day with her in the hospital etc. We broke up 6 months later and started telling people I had shoved her to the ground and broke her wrist on purpose because I was jealous of her success as a pianist or something and was trying to sabotage her life . It was insane and her story got worse as time went on post-breakup.
90% of these are probably just unhappy people on a bad day who are re-writing the story into some elaborate narrative of evil and abuse because they know it will do well on social media. And a lot of tiktok/social media people are very unhappy people. And unhappy people do a lot of lying and exaggerating for attention. well-adjusted people aren't making teary faced videos on tiktok about their breakups.
One of the main drivers behind this story (i should say, i think one of the main drivers) is the more recent one where a man abandoned his girlfriend in the austrian alps at night and left her for dead, and it turned out he'd (allegedly) performed that same stunt before with a different ex girlfriend (who survived).
I'm sure your personal situation might be "he said she said," but some of these people are comparably wild
People do stupid shit all the time. I live near the White Mountains where there are multiple fatalities a year now due to idiots going climbing unprepared, many of whom claim to be experienced.
It's one thing for people to die hiking due to negligence or stupidity, it's another to claim 'SHOCKING NEW TREND: MEN ARE ABANDONING WOMEN ON HIKING CLIMBS TO DUMP THEM'
Well, no. Your post is ragebait. What's behind it is the same thing it always was. It's just, ya know, a trend of men not respecting their partners. It's not new. It's not dramatized. It's just that typically men do not put in the same level of thought, care, and compassion for their partners as women typically do.
These stories are pretty standard abuse, honestly. I've heard similar types of things about shitty partners abandoning someone at amusement parks, concerts, and other venues because they got pushed into something and then didn't "fulfill their end of the bargain" or keep up to the level that the first person wanted. Yeah, it is usually men that do this, but it's not exclusively men. Just, ya know, most of the time.
Like, I don't really understand how your bad breakup experience covers for this. You are downplaying the event without knowing both sides as well. Why is it okay to do that, but it isn't okay for some to potentially dramatize it? You're not even involved, so I think it's worse to do this weird defending, because it sorta feels like you might be misogynist. Like, them's the vibes.
I don't know why you think it's 90% of people making this up, but, uh, okay, buddy. There's definitely no potential abusive behaviors here that a partner should look out for, it's just 90% chance it was a bad day or a liar or something, and not shitty or abusive partners.
His post history will absolutely reveal this. This guy pops up in a lot of conversations to share stories of his evil ex girlfriends and how no woman around him wants anything but expensive bags.
He's always very supported on this site, too.
Lmao, I didn't even check, but you are right...
Oh boy, no wonder they have a lot of bad breakup experience!
I knew that the misogyny in this place was going to be worse than Reddit simply because of the size of users, but it's even harder to stick around seeing all the support those types of comments get.
Hm, maybe I'm just not in the same places, but I usually see less here than Reddit, but that's possibly perception bias on my end. I just call shit out when I see it, and this post just looked like it was misogyny because of the... Well, most of it looked pretty misogynistic, but I suppose I was giving the writer some undue benefit of the doubt. That's on me, actually, I should've checked.
I dunno, I guess I just feel sad for people that believe that shit. They are just so fundamentally unhappy with themselves and they don't know how to fix it.
There's more social pressure on Reddit that pushes those opinions down. Since there's less users here and there's way more men than women, the casual sexism is thriving here. Thanks for calling it out when you see it.
sadly he's been upvoted many times.
He's always upvoted many times. It's disgusting.
How many alts?
There’s a lot of men’s rights energy in here.
Do you have proof of any of that or is it simply your opinion?
i have as much proof as the woman in the article has about her story.
which is none at all. it's all hearsay. social media is all hearsay. this article is about social media stories.
there is no burden of proof here. anymore than there was for dudes going on about spermjacking women 10 years ago. I remember that viral panic.
Pretty sure the guy literally convicted of manslaughter for abandoning his girlfriend to die on a hike is evidence of this happening.