I don't have that issue. I don't think I talked about God or religion in years. I do go to a church for mutual aid but it's not religious
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I've been an atheist since I was a kid and first learned the word that explained my skepticism of all the nonsense I grew up with.
I became open about it when I got to college and had that phase where I let stuff like people saying "bless you" or "god gave you strength" get under my skin and make me mad. All these years later. I've learned to pick my battles and not let peoples well meaning sayings bug me.
Yeah, but these days I'm more tired than irritated.
I like to us a phrase based around "All hail the deity on the mantle"
Designed to trigger the most religious
Yes !! 
Religious proselitism sucks
Around monsoon time i will admit it bother me, epic keanu chungus OP
I must live in a special bubble because this never happens to me
What part of the world do you live in? Im in the northeast united states, and i bet i havent had a single week in my adult life go by without someone telling me to thank god or jesus... you cant drive 5 miles here without seeing a billboard about god or jesus...
No, I'm not.
Not particularly.
If you consider your example, you may have worked hard for it, but another person could've worked equally hard at all the right things and never have gotten the opportunity to even attempt getting into university. We might call that luck. Someone else might call it God's doing. Regardless, it's just a different name for the same thing.
When any fanatic connects whatever with their preferred framework, I guess
For the strength. No, not anymore. I looked into the origins of my batshit insane evangelical cult upbringing, really studied it (and still am not not gorging anymore) and got over myself. I'm at peace with my own beliefs, and when that happens, the only criticism that is genuine and valid are those who make a mockery of their deities by doing evil in the deities' names.
Thank you for getting back to me. πΉ I truly believe that many people feel this way. Tragic things happen in life. Believe me, I speak from experience too. Sometimes we walk a certain path, and something terrible happens to us. We wonder, 'Why did this happen?' But we'll never know what would have happened if we had chosen the other path. Perhaps something terrible had to occur to protect us from something even worse. I know this might sound like making excuses sometimes, but I genuinely believe this. And there have been small incidents where I felt this was confirmed.
The fact that you believe God would not love you is, to me, a sign that you still believe in Himπ and that is something good. Whatever you have experienced in life, or whatever you are going through right now, I wish you strength and all the best. I hope that soon everything will turn around for the better. I will pray for you. I know this sounds clichΓ©d, but I truly mean it. You can always reach out to me whenever you want. Peace be with you. ποΈπΉ
Yeah It's a pretty funtional wheel, but how can WE do it better?
Peace be upon you. πΉ As one of those religious people, I can simply say: "No." π
We deeply religious people (whether Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Hindu, or others) simply believe that everything happens through God's will. However, this does not mean that free will doesn't exist. You will be rewarded solely for your hard work, Inshallah, because that is your own merit.
You should just keep in mind that the phrase "you should thank God for giving you so much strength" is actually a compliment. It means "God loves you"
Of course, it also depends on how the person expresses this words π , but it is something beautiful.
Peace be upon you allπΉπΉπΉ
I appreciate you but I have many reasons to believe god does not love me lol