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For example, you put yourself through university by studying hard and working full time. Then someone says, you should thank god for giving you the strength. Like wtf do you mean, I busted my ass day in and day out but I'm supposed to thank god for it?

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[โ€“] Folstar@lemmus.org 2 points 2 months ago

"Ridicule is the only weapon which can be used against unintelligible propositions" -Thomas Jefferson. Don't get mad, and also don't come right at them with the ridicule as they expect that and are prepared. Simply start agreeing with them and see how far you can take it.

[โ€“] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 months ago

I've been an atheist since I was a kid and first learned the word that explained my skepticism of all the nonsense I grew up with.

I became open about it when I got to college and had that phase where I let stuff like people saying "bless you" or "god gave you strength" get under my skin and make me mad. All these years later. I've learned to pick my battles and not let peoples well meaning sayings bug me.

[โ€“] Etterra@discuss.online 2 points 2 months ago

Yeah, but these days I'm more tired than irritated.

[โ€“] BlueEther@no.lastname.nz 2 points 2 months ago

I like to us a phrase based around "All hail the deity on the mantle"

Designed to trigger the most religious

[โ€“] 404found@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 months ago

I mean, they kinda have to because Jesus is the reason for the season.

[โ€“] howrar@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 months ago

Not particularly.

If you consider your example, you may have worked hard for it, but another person could've worked equally hard at all the right things and never have gotten the opportunity to even attempt getting into university. We might call that luck. Someone else might call it God's doing. Regardless, it's just a different name for the same thing.

[โ€“] mistermodal@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 months ago

Around monsoon time i will admit it bother me, epic keanu chungus OP

[โ€“] the_riviera_kid@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago
[โ€“] geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I must live in a special bubble because this never happens to me

[โ€“] Poojabber@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

What part of the world do you live in? Im in the northeast united states, and i bet i havent had a single week in my adult life go by without someone telling me to thank god or jesus... you cant drive 5 miles here without seeing a billboard about god or jesus...

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[โ€“] Mothra@mander.xyz 1 points 2 months ago

When any fanatic connects whatever with their preferred framework, I guess

[โ€“] Maeve@kbin.earth 1 points 2 months ago

For the strength. No, not anymore. I looked into the origins of my batshit insane evangelical cult upbringing, really studied it (and still am not not gorging anymore) and got over myself. I'm at peace with my own beliefs, and when that happens, the only criticism that is genuine and valid are those who make a mockery of their deities by doing evil in the deities' names.

[โ€“] Sauvandu60@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 months ago

No, I'm not.

[โ€“] StarryPhoenix97@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

Yeah It's a pretty funtional wheel, but how can WE do it better?

[โ€“] AuroraSine@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Peace be upon you. ๐ŸŒน As one of those religious people, I can simply say: "No." ๐Ÿ˜

We deeply religious people (whether Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Hindu, or others) simply believe that everything happens through God's will. However, this does not mean that free will doesn't exist. You will be rewarded solely for your hard work, Inshallah, because that is your own merit.

You should just keep in mind that the phrase "you should thank God for giving you so much strength" is actually a compliment. It means "God loves you"

Of course, it also depends on how the person expresses this words ๐Ÿ˜…, but it is something beautiful.

Peace be upon you all๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน

[โ€“] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

I appreciate you but I have many reasons to believe god does not love me lol

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