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As someone who went to a lot of raves in the 90s and was a speaker hugger, I can empathize completely. I haven't really found anything to relieve it besides ignoring it and just living with it, sad to say. But I will keep an eye on this post, hopefully someone will have some more advice about alleviation for you. (and me.)

It kinda depends, I have very light tennitus from construction, most of the time I can ignore it and it only becomes noticeable when it's exceptionally quiet or I think about it like breathing (HAH your manually breathing now), but 95% of the time I don't even notice it

I do have a friend who, has it really bad from listening to music at mega volumes. He can't have silence to any degree. Plays music, drums his fingers on any wooden object in reach, whatever he can find for noise to drown out the ringing. Seems like a lot, but it's apparently really bad for him.

Here's to hoping yours ain't that extreme

Short answer: Get an evaluation by an audiologist, if possible, to determine if something can be done.

Long answer: Depending on the personal cause of tinnitus, solutions range from nothing to getting hearing aids with specific software that provides tinnitus relief. I have genetic, moderate to severe hearing loss in higher frequencies and have very noticeable tinnitus. The complications from hearing loss with tinnitus can vary, but personally were resulting in increased sensitivity to noise throughout the day, irritability, and diminished ability to communicate (I couldn't hear what my spouse or kids were saying when there was any kind of background noise present). It led me to never want to go anywhere or do anything outside our home because I couldn't hear or enjoy anything.

I went to an audiologist, had a bunch of tests, and was prescribed a set of hearing aids. Said hearing aids play soft ocean noises in addition to boosting the frequencies I have diminished hearing in. The ocean noises allow the brain to train itself to treat the tinnitus as a routine background noise instead of a panic inducing "danger" sound. Over time, it has helped in significantly reducing my attention to the tinnitus. It will never go away, and I have to sleep with ocean sounds playing so I don't go insane.

I’ve had it for most of my life. Luckily, mine only comes in near silence, but my perception of the ringing is very loud. Basically I always have something around me making noise. I fall asleep to YouTube videos, and I read and work to music.

I normally react by ignoring it until it goes away. Doesn't work for everyone of course, but if you only started getting it a few days ago there's some chance that it might work for you.

I have lived with it for 20 years. I listen to a lot of music or podcasts to help not focus on it. I got relief once for about 2 hours after my ears popped on an airplane. Everyone is different but rubbing the pressure point behind my ear doesn't go away but turns down the volume for a bit.

Cover your ears with your palms, thumbs down (airtight). Use your two pointer fingers and two middle fingers to drum on the soft spot at the base of your skull for about 20 seconds. This may give temporary relief from the ringing.

You can get temporary tinnitus from an active ear infection or a swollen/inflamed ear, it may not be permanent.

Were you exposed to any overly loud sounds recently, or chronically over the course of your life?

consider an MRI for acoustic neuroma and similar conditions.

If the tinnitus is permanent, the brain can adjust to it and eventually tune it out for the most part

Stay calm. It can "go away" sometimes if you stop thinking about it. I don't know how serious or "loud" you perceive it to be but you'll be fine, you can listen to music but you have to take extra good care of the hearing you have. Don't listen to music too loudly, I would even suggest set your volume even softer than usual for the next week so you can train yourself to focus on it. Ear plugs at concerts and safety earwear if you are around construction sites or places that produce a lot of loud sounds.

I would get it checked out with a physician if you suspect that some kind of ear infection, stress, new meds or other kind of illness or complication might be the cause.

There was a trick to temporarily relieve it where you cup your palms over your ears and tap the back of your head, can work for some people to relieve it a bit. Doing that might help with the stress you're facing. The stress from worrying about it I think will do you a lot more harm long term than any of the buzzing or ringing itself.

My source of tinnitus is stress/poor mental health. So living less stressful life helped me a bit to go from 6/10 to 2/10 level.

For me it helps to have a fan next to my bed. It helps me to focus on the fan noise instead of the Tinnitus when trying to sleep.

I'm sorry. I don't have any practical advice, but an Italian singer I like (Caparezza) developed it ~10 years ago. He would go talking about his condition extensively in his subsequent albums (Prisoner 709, Exuvia and Orbit Orbit). The most explicit song about it is "Larsen". In fact, I'm going to a concert of his in a couple of months.

What I mean to say by this, is that if he managed to live with it, produce 3 albums and he's still doing concerts, I'm sure you can overcome this as well, and I hope you can take some solace in knowing the experience of other people.

Also, if you haven't done so already, go see a doctor. It's always possible that it's temporary or that it can be slowed down.

Also I think my mom used to have a milder form of it, and other than turning the volume up on the TV, I don't think she ever was too bothered by it.

I had it my whole life so I'm good at filtering it out the moment I get distracted with something else.

45 year old checking in. Tinnitus can have a lot of causes and treatments. Your best bet is to get evaluated. I spent my youth abusing my body going to concerts with no protection and pressing my face up against subwoofers. It was fun at the time, but now I’m coming up on early onset hearing loss by 50 and near constant tinnitus along with vertigo that may or may not be related. People told me to protect my hearing and I didn’t listen so here I am.

Tl;dr get your hearing checked and protect it jealously. Good luck friend!

I had that once or twice, and for me it worked to treat it like being sick. Simply doing only the minimum for a day or two and then it went away. I assume it was somehow stress related.

But this is not medical advice, better go to a doctor instead of listening to me.

I am in a very similar position. I am at an age which ig would be considered "young for getting hearing problems". Music is my life. Practically all my hobbies involve it in one way or another. Guitar, going clubbing, seeing live bands, going to raves etc. I spend most of my waking hours listening to music in some form. And not quietly either. Im well aware my hearing is getting worse and worse as time goes on, currently at the stage where i have tinnitus, but in one ear more than the other, which can be off putting. Not changing the way I live my life though, so I'm having to come to terms with the fact it is only going to get worse.

First things first, give it time. There have been a few occasions where I've thought "Fuck. That's it. I've really fucked my ears this time. I'm never going to enjoy my music the same way again." Only for my hearing to stop ringing so much after a week or so. Second, if it is permanent (again, I have permanent hearing loss now, thought it would be a good idea to stick my head into a subwoofer cab a few too many times) know that it does get better with time. Our brains can find ways of getting used to it and tuning it out over time. In fact, as I'm writing this, my tinnitus has become deafeningly loud in one ear, because I am thinking about it. Usually I'd have to focus on it for it to become unbearable. I also have ADHD which makes things more inconvenient, especially when my hearing first got worse, was a hard pill to swallow for a couple weeks. Can't lie, between my adhd and already poor sleep patterns, I had a few sleepless nights, but it does get better.

You're asking a medical question of a random Internet forum, IMO that's not a good start. Particularly since you don't live in the US so it's likely that simply asking a doctor a question isn't going to financially destroy you and your family.

If any sort of worrisome medical condition just "randomly" shows up for no apparent reason, that's reason to go check with a professional.