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Please don't expect the community to give you answers to your questions which you then delete right afterwards. Those of us who put time into answering your questions are not doing so just to serve your personal needs, we are here to help build a community knowledge base that others can search and reference.

This has become a chronic issue with Lemmy and its starting to feel like it's a waste of time to answer questions.

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Okay I'm just gonna call somebody out - Imperious_melange just deleted a thread with over 200 upvotes where a thriving discussion was underway. It was about whether people perceived a pro-China and anti-west sentiment on Lemmy. I tried to post a reply and the site said "deleted by creator". The thread was just gone. They also seem to have deleted their account, so I can't even PM them. That's all just a huge dick move.

[–] DundasStation@lemmy.ca 38 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Well OP. Looks like your post resulted in a moderator resigning and the appointment of two new moderators in this community. As I've said previously, it was a moderator removing posts for a very far stretch interpretation of Rule 3, and not users deleting them after getting the answer.

Let's hope this results in a better community for the selfhosters here.

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Oh my GOD that's probably what happened to mine! I was discussing something on my last post and then suddenly the mod removed it because of "Rule 3". Because we were talking about selfhosting. Which, all selfhosting is on our own hardware..., but I think my post leaned more hardware than the mod liked. Super annoying when you're having a valid conversation, people are chiming in and helping, and then suddenly Removed: Arbitrary rule violation.

[–] curbstickle_lw@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

And I'll use your comment as my post here for a local mod appointment of my lw account!

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] curbstickle_lw@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Yep! And got all the old reports cleaned up to boot

[–] irmadlad@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

Let’s hope this results in a better community for the selfhosters here.

Wow! I just noticed that. Shit moves quickly on the tubes. Welcome our new overlords!

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[–] imetators@lemmy.dbzer0.com 63 points 4 days ago (7 children)

People do that? That's fucked up...

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[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 194 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

It doesn't make sense, either. There's no rational reason to delete a thread after the question has been answered.

Even if it wasn't actually a person but was an AI agent asking questions so it can scrape the data from the answers, there's no real utility in deleting the posts after receiving responses. It just seems so weird.

[–] tburkhol@slrpnk.net 55 points 5 days ago (26 children)

Could they be astroturfing, looking for a specific solution to fill search engines with their own product placement, then deleting because most of the comments are other FOSS solutions?

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[–] chunes@lemmy.world 32 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I've never understood why the OP can nuke an entire thread full of comments. Not even reddit is that obtuse.

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

They didn't

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[–] irish_link@lemmy.world 28 points 4 days ago (2 children)

This is the same thing as posting on a forum a question, then saying never mind I figured it out WITHOUT STATING THE ANSWER! When googling shit and coming across this back in the day I would get more mad at those than my issue.

[–] foo@feddit.uk 14 points 4 days ago (5 children)

That's even more infuriating than when you used Google to find a thread where someone asks the exact question you have, and there is only one response and it's someone saying "use Google".

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[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 17 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It's a particularly egregious case of "fuck you, got mine"

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[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 47 points 4 days ago (3 children)

we need to make a list of usernames who are deleting their posts, regularly or even just twice

[–] buddascrayon@lemmy.world 23 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Yeah it's more than likely the same people doing it all the time.

Edit: either that or AI bots farming information from Lemmy to feed their databases.

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[–] goferking0@lemmy.sdf.org 61 points 5 days ago (10 children)
[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 35 points 5 days ago (9 children)
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[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 26 points 4 days ago

Wow a lot of those mod-deleted posts were very interesting for me

[–] mlg@lemmy.world 23 points 4 days ago (1 children)

https://lemmy.world/post/39025760

wtf? Half the post is nuked even after being locked. I don't even see how such a small community can be so stuck up about relevancy and purity washing selfhosted as if we all own our own DNS registrars and can do outbound SMTP.

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I assume they did not read the post very clearly.

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[–] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 43 points 4 days ago (10 children)

I just want to apologize for being the person who asks questions and then doesn't respond to the comments. I get overwhelmed D: but I'd never delete my post, what's the purpose in that?

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[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 72 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Has that been happening a lot here?

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 104 points 5 days ago (10 children)

Lemmy in general, yes. Here in self hosted at least a couple of times that I've seen. Including earlier today. But I don't interact on every post.

I only find out because sometimes I like to go back to posts I comment on and see what additional information people have offered. (There's always something to learn.) Then I find the post has been deleted.

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 93 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I absolutely detest how on lemmy deleting a post also nukes access to the comments. They’re still there, but there’s no way in many normally lemmy UI to get to them.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 39 points 5 days ago (12 children)

I don't get it. why are they deleting their posts?

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[–] Gonzako@lemmy.world 24 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Oh, I thought this was about me since I just asked for file transfer stuff but you're specifically talking about deleting it right after. It happened to me on asklemmy where the user deleted it right after

[–] krypto@lemmy.ml 22 points 4 days ago

Asking questions in a public forum (after searching imo) is generally a positive thing. Answers are then public and the next person with the question can find the answer. That sort of behaviour should be encouraged, and no one will ever complain about it imo.

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[–] DundasStation@lemmy.ca 47 points 5 days ago (7 children)

Have you checked the modlogs to see if the posts you're talking about were deleted by the mods? The mods here seem to really not want this community to be a support community and will delete it under Rule 3.

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[–] whatiswrongwithyou@lemmy.ml 28 points 4 days ago (1 children)
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