Just look at it. Adore it. It is your life and nobody can dictate you how to live it. don't touch them though
this post was submitted on 04 Jul 2026
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The reactions and opinions people have on this subject only reinforce my belief that, as individuals, we really have very little idea what's going on in other people's heads when it comes to sexuality.
As a heterosexual man, it's difficult for me to imagine having a perfectly ordinary body part that the majority of the opposite sex found so sexually fascinating they'd have to consciously resist the desire to flat-out gaze at my chest.
If a guy has a prominent package it catches and holds your eye too
Most guys wear baggy clothes I guess. I imagine if someone was wearing tight pants then it would catch my eye as a curiosity, but to my personal taste male junk is kind of mundane and lumpy. Almost comedic. Whereas almost every set of boobies holds a weirdly primal allure for me - and it's only thanks to the miracle of social programming that I don't just glitch out and mindlessly gaze in wonder.
Summary of comments:
Everywhere from "STARE I even make the shirt see through" to "one glance max, a bit annoying if professionally dressed tho"
Idc unless it's leering
Awww, but that's what I do best...