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I've seen this happen a bunch of time now that people just ask a question and it's deleted a day or so later. Do they delete the question themselves, or is that some automatic thing? If they do it themselves, why?

*edit*

Thanks for the great answers so far. Very insightful. Please keep them coming, I'm curious to more points of view.

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[–] scroll_responsibly@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
[–] madjo@feddit.nl 2 points 15 hours ago

[still upvoted]

[–] Grimy@lemmy.world 12 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

If you are talking about posts where people lay out their problems and ask for advice, it is probably to avoid getting doxed.

[–] madjo@feddit.nl 2 points 15 hours ago

Ah yes, why didn't I consider that? That's indeed very much a possibility.

[–] charade_you_are@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I sometimes think about what I just wrote after I wrote it. I then go back and read it and then remove it because it was lame.

[–] madjo@feddit.nl 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Makes sense for comments, but for posts to for instance this Sub-lemmy, I mean community?

[–] Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sub-lemmy

Technically the term is “community” here.

Subreddits are to Reddit as Communities are to Lemmy.

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[–] charade_you_are@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Well shit, read that title wrong. Moving along ....

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I get “posts” and “comments” or “replies” confused all the time. You are not alone!

That's exactly what happened lol

[–] madjo@feddit.nl 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No worries, mate! I should've been more precise in my wording.

Nope, it was very clear and you have no blame. Thanks though!

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 8 points 23 hours ago

Sometimes I'll delete a comment if someone's already made the shitty joke or I'm too stoned and misread the original post, it's usually the second one tho.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Usually (but not always) if a mod removes it, it shows up in the mod log.

But lots of people don't get the answer they want and delete it. Part of that is you can't disable replies. A month from now someone might see this post for whatever reason and you'd get a notification.

That's probably playing into it

[–] madjo@feddit.nl 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A month I can kind of understand. I let mastodon auto delete my month old posts. But a few days? I don't know...
But you're right, it could be that they didn't like the answers they got. That does make the most sense. Like that kid who's dating that Muslim girl, and pretty much all of the reactions sided with her point of view.

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Dammit, he deleted that one? I thought I gave a pretty good reply… although, yes, I sided with her, too.

[–] madjo@feddit.nl 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Your answer was really good! But yeah, he deleted that post.

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[–] BagOfHeavyStones@piefed.social 6 points 23 hours ago (4 children)

I've done it a few times over the years. Usually it's because I've written something I thought was funny or insightful but the hive mind disagreed and voted it down or worse. Sometimes I just don't fit into the social norms.

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[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 1 day ago

I assume because they didn’t stand by their comment or made a mistake. I misread a title on a post an hour ago. Rather than delete it, I edited and stated the mistake and put strikethrough on the text. I don’t delete the record; I amend it.

[–] FreedomAdvocate 5 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Almost every person I’ve had an argument/discussion with who goes through my past comments to try and find things to use against me when they’re losing has been someone who goes back and deleted all of their comments. I don’t think that’s a coincidence.

[–] Lasherz12@lemmy.world 5 points 23 hours ago

Probably multiple reasons. If it's a throwaway account they may want to cover the tracks. If it didn't get a response they were looking for, they may delete and recreate to avoid the double posting rules. They may have posted on the wrong account, or maybe the answer was so obvious they were embarrassed.

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

It contradicts my current argument

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)
[–] throwawayacc0430@sh.itjust.works 4 points 22 hours ago

deleted by creator

forgot the italics lmao 😁

[–] sandflavoured@lemm.ee 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Perhaps Lemmy should offer an option to delete the OP and retain comments?

I would also like to see some of the comments even after the original post is deleted if the post author is ok with leaving them up.

[–] madjo@feddit.nl 1 points 15 hours ago

That would be nice.

[–] CrayonDevourer@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'll delete my replies when I've been eating too many crayons that evening and the reply ended up being dumb as dog shit...

Though, I'd consider deleting my posts now because AI is scouring this place and training on it I almost guarantee.

[–] madjo@feddit.nl 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Which color has the best flavor?

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Perhaps its something embarassing or potentially very political which they don't want to remain on the internet forever.

I guess we can add a rule stating that "By participating in this community, you agree to give permission that all your posts/comments can be archived" like under Creative Commons rules. And have a bot automatically archive it.

But then again, there's an argument that this violates privacy.

[–] Forester@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago

Lack of commitment

[–] madjo@feddit.nl 3 points 1 day ago

Can't reply to Some Amateur's removed comment, just want to say, I enjoyed your contribution! And that could indeed also be a valid reason

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 20 hours ago (5 children)

It was with great pain that I recently deleted something like 50 to 100 of my own posts. They were all political. Lots of great discussions. But we live in a time where having the wrong kind of history on social media could make you a target either now or in the future. I'm sure a lot of that is still floating around one way or another but if I can reduce any spotlights on my ass it's something I felt I had to do.

Since then I haven't deleted anything. I try to keep my posts non-political. In my real life I am now focusing on bettering myself. I've given up on trying to change the country or anything like that. It can all they to ash. I've ran out of fucks to give.

But hey, I'm contributing on !loweffortmemes@crazypeople.online again, so there's that.

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