I've often thought that scheduling it would be kind of amazing, but for most I've been with, feel like that wouldn't be an attractive prospect.
I'd feel really bad if my partner wasn't enjoying themselves on this one though and even without that concern it wouldn't feel like your idea here would be sustainable. It would be very hard to convince me that this was something that could be maintained over a long term relationship.
It sounds like it's killing someone specifically because they are a woman and not for another reason. So, intent is what they're trying to target here.